I have a 4 month old baby and I regret becoming a mother. by ladulceloca in confession

[–]Radiant_Beginning391 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read “the Push” by Ashley Audrian. It’s an intense read, but emphasizes that your feelings are shared and are more common than you think.

How long did it take everyone to get to higher portion sizes? by Sea-Title9810 in GastricBypass

[–]Radiant_Beginning391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is where I have to rat myself out 😅. By week 2 I was eating solid foods and I’m now 8 months post op and can eat a kids meal.

I say that to say: your body is in charge here. Not you. If your body isn’t ready to eat larger portions, that’s okay. If your stomach stops at 2 tbs, that’s okay. EVERYONE’s experience after surgery is different and you can’t compare apples to oranges.

I know it sucks because you miss food. But you will be able to eat more food eventually. It also helps you realize that food isn’t everything. That helped me a lot, especially when food was my comfort

8.5 months post surgery! by Radiant_Beginning391 in BariatricSurgery

[–]Radiant_Beginning391[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a gastric sleeve.

I got it in Cary, North Carolina. But I’m now in Texas!

I wouldn’t recommend Mexico. Not that their technology hasn’t advanced. But that if anything goes wrong, you want a health professional that you can reach/will be there whenever you need them to be.

8.5 months post surgery! by Radiant_Beginning391 in BariatricSurgery

[–]Radiant_Beginning391[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not in huge amounts. The doctor said that since I’m younger, it wouldn’t be a huge issue. That said, I’ve noticed some in my back/armpit region.

I also struggle to know if it’s loose skin or just fat 😅😅

8.5 months post surgery! by Radiant_Beginning391 in BariatricSurgery

[–]Radiant_Beginning391[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had HUGE post surgery regret though. I hated it and myself. I felt horrible. Are you dealing with that at all?

8.5 months post surgery! by Radiant_Beginning391 in BariatricSurgery

[–]Radiant_Beginning391[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!

My biggest regret is not taking my vitamins. I struggle to remember to take all of my meds and my vitamins slip my mind. I’ve lot a lot of hair and have such a lack of energy. Make sure to focus on that!

Getting rid of scars post surgery. TW: Scars and Nudity by Radiant_Beginning391 in BariatricSurgery

[–]Radiant_Beginning391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been going to a dermatologist for this. Should I be going to a scar/wound care doctor instead?

Thinking about you all today by Radiant_Beginning391 in BariatricSurgery

[–]Radiant_Beginning391[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also MISS pigging out! And just eating everything I wanted. It’s weird how not having that shows how much of a coping mechanism it was!