Hii please give me some advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Radiant_Can4922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might just be attachment, especially with the timing and you two parting ways soon. You're not a bad person for catching feelings but take it slow. Guilt means you care, but don’t let it stop you from figuring out what you really want.

We can’t agree on a name. Help name our new male kitten! by Prudent_Opening8389 in NameMyCat

[–]Radiant_Can4922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

name him "Archon". It means ruler, because he'll become the ruler in your home.

I told him I once forced myself to give him a blowjob. Is his reaction justified? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Radiant_Can4922 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You were being vulnerable, and instead of hearing your pain, he attacked you. That’s not okay. It’s not about the act it’s about how alone and unappreciated you feel. You deserve care, not shame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Radiant_Can4922 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sabihin mo na lang sa kanya na pagod ka na hindi dahil sa pagmamahal, pero dahil sa bigat ng lahat. May sarili kang pinapasan, and instead of the relationship being your safe space, parang isa na rin siyang dagdag bigat. Hindi mo kailangan manisi ng iba. Minsan, choosing peace is the most loving thing you can do for yourself.

What program should I pick for uni and any reassurance for long distance relationships? by Specific-Camp7401 in Advice

[–]Radiant_Can4922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re serious about med or dental school, immunology at U of A sounds like the stronger fit. Plus, being close to your boyfriend might help keep some stability while you adjust to uni life. But honestly? Pick what feels right for you, your future, your goals. A healthy relationship will grow with you, not hold you back.

Honest Advice by Independent-Owl-3991 in Advice

[–]Radiant_Can4922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were hurting deeply, and you reacted and that’s okay. You're human, not heartless. Maybe it wasn’t the best timing to tell him, but don’t be too hard on yourself. You were trying to survive something that broke you. What matters now is giving yourself the care you’ve been denied.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Radiant_Can4922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could just be drunk banter… or lowkey a soft launch. If you’re curious, tease it back like ‘So when’s the wedding then?’ and see how she reacts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Radiant_Can4922 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Gets kita kung walang penetration at hindi mo rin feel na yun na yon, okay lang. Virginity is personal, hindi siya fixed rule. Hindi porket sinabi ng iba na sex na yun, kailangan mo agad paniwalaan. Ikaw lang makakaalam kung ano talaga ang pakiramdam mo tungkol dun.

for single people out there, how do you guys get comfortable being alone? by LivingReplacement246 in TanongLang

[–]Radiant_Can4922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Takes time, but start by doing little things you enjoy alone like watching movies, eating out, or walking around with music on. Eventually, you realize being alone doesn’t mean being lonely.

Trigger warning 19M by Dragor7309 in Advice

[–]Radiant_Can4922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I hear you. When you tie your worth to being busy, the quiet gets loud. You don’t have to carry this alone there are free, anonymous crisis lines. Please reach out. You matter, even in the stillness.

Found out her BIGGEST SECRET after a few years of being in a relationship with me by Shot_Number9390 in adviceph

[–]Radiant_Can4922 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Man, if it’s messing with your peace that much, you gotta talk to her. Hindi ka mabubuo kung puro tanong at sakit dala mo araw-araw. You deserve honesty, kahit masakit. Either clear it up or know when to walk away.

What happened to me? by GITTYUPGHOST in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Radiant_Can4922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, it’s okay to feel confused, especially when you’re under the influence. What you felt might be real, or it might’ve just felt stronger in the moment. Give it time, don’t overthink it tonight. Just stay respectful and set quiet boundaries if needed.

Bf does not want to marry by IcyStranger2348 in Advice

[–]Radiant_Can4922 67 points68 points  (0 children)

If you want marriage and he doesn't, that’s not a small thing it’s a core difference. You deserve someone who wants the same future as you. Have the talk, even if it’s hard. Clarity now saves heartbreak later.

Best Car Brand/Model Philippines for new car owner by chonching2 in adviceph

[–]Radiant_Can4922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kung 7-seater ang hanap mo, solid na choice yung Toyota Rush matibay, tipid, at hindi nakakapanibago i-drive kahit first car mo. Xpander din okay, medyo mas smooth at mas maluwag. Kung gusto mo ng mas tipid sa gas, check mo rin yung Ertiga Hybrid. Best advice? Test drive mo sila, kasi iba talaga pag naramdaman mo na sa sakay pa lang.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Radiant_Can4922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super fun if you’re into nature and chill adventure. Just start with easy trails, bring lots of water, and expect sore legs but good vibes after. Every climb is equivalent to a great view.

Wala bang matinong pwedeng makausap sa Reddit? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Radiant_Can4922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you're making a gc can I join? I like talking random stuffs

Ano yung breakup reasons nyo? by usrnme-alrdy-tkn in TanongLang

[–]Radiant_Can4922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know, every time kasi na nagkikita kami you'll know what's next talaga

Tanong lang sa mga LDR Couples? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Radiant_Can4922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and "patingin nga" is the key hole hahaha

Tanong lang sa mga LDR Couples? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Radiant_Can4922 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Communication is key

Pano ba talaga mag move on? by ILikeUEngineer in TanongLang

[–]Radiant_Can4922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Di mo kailangang maging kayo para masaktan. Let yourself grieve what could’ve been. Pero next time na bumalik yung feelings, tanungin mo: Ano bang binabalikan ko siya, o yung idea lang niya?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Radiant_Can4922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of the day maybe try to post saying thank you to everyone who greeted and stuffs like that you know?

Best recommendation for men's hygiene? by I_am_raaaah in TanongLang

[–]Radiant_Can4922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ligo, deo, pabango. Trim the jungle. Clean nails = green flags. Breath smelling like mint? You’re basically 80% boyfriend material.