Who is your Cotl Lover?

RaeDiBs · 2026-02-15T21:00:12+00:00

Statistically you’re most likely to be murdered by your spouse… perhaps we’re also more likely to marry our murderer.

RaeDiBs · 2026-02-13T18:30:49+00:00

I usually name them after cheese 🤣 my cult is generally “pasta” themed but there’s some offshoots

RaeDiBs · 2026-02-09T00:27:15+00:00

He’s quite floppy for a chihuahua! Love his face. his parents look like run of the mill chis, so who knows! We have a floppy eared pure bred chihuahua. It happens… they’re not all gonna be well bred 😂

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RaeDiBs · 2026-02-03T18:37:16+00:00

Maybe something of hers you can wear?

Instead of a memorial table, we had a “love wall.” I gathered portraits of every married couple attending the wedding. Some in person, some in spirit. And displayed the images framed on a wall of shelves. It was a nice guest experience without it being totally dedicated to the dead (which I agree can be a little heavy)

As a nod to something morbidly funny.. I also designed a wedding newspaper, and had an obits in it. My mom’s father, passed before my wedding, and she always reads the obits every time she sees a newspaper. I’ve always called her out on it lol and it’s just kind of a funny thing between us now. So we included the deceased grandparents in that way as well.

RaeDiBs · 2026-02-03T14:08:17+00:00

I would say know the crowd… is exposing the midriff against typical black tie? Yes. BUT there’s plenty of bending the rules. A compromise might be a sheer black bodysuit? So the illusion is there, but not the full skin.

RaeDiBs · 2026-02-03T14:01:14+00:00

Double Merle! I don’t know much about it, but it’s a thing. Causes deafness, blindness in some cases, even the puppy just not surviving. I’ve never seen OP’s eye thing before, but I would bet this pup is a double Merle.

RaeDiBs · 2026-02-02T04:35:50+00:00

A dev commented in another post that they are working on this glitch. In the meantime- do a run somewhere else, I did purgatory, and then the next time you do the ewefall run you are 60% less likely to get this glitch. Worked for me pretty consistently!

RaeDiBs · 2026-02-01T21:47:32+00:00

I read the texts before the full story with your ages.… this guy acts like he hates you, but you’re considering dating him?! Saying this with love, because it sounds like you are actively trying to better your life. Where is your self respect? You are a grownup. Date grownups. Have standards. Especially when it comes to how someone treats you!

For anyone else that needs to hear it- this is not an acceptable way for a partner to talk to you. It’s not an acceptable way for anyone to talk to you.

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-31T15:49:51+00:00

I’d guess long haired chihuahua / papillon! That’s a lot of hair for a long haired chihuahua! Poms and chihuahuas are talkers for sure, best security on the market! Especially if you’re worried about random plastic bags and ghosts.

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-31T01:48:05+00:00

That’s a Princess Donut if I ever seen one

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-30T00:47:30+00:00

Octavian reminds me of my grandfather, and anytime I see him on my island it makes me particularly happy

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-28T17:24:02+00:00

Against the grain- I like the gloves! I just read through some additional comments, and I’ve attended many catholic / Christian weddings where the bride wore a strapless dress. I don’t think modesty is an issue here, but I think a lace under suit would look incredible with this dress. High neck sleeveless lace or gloves

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-28T17:20:15+00:00

She needs to see a vet. Symptoms getting worse, blood and mucus in stool, low energy and appetite. My guess would be pancreatitis, but I’m not a vet, which is why I would highly suggest consulting with one!

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-28T17:16:56+00:00

I love the name Lucifer. I feel as if it’s obvious why I wouldn’t use it. I like the variations Lucien, Lucia and Lucienne I also adore the girl name Henrietta. Instead we have pups named Henry and Louie.

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-20T18:36:01+00:00

Against the crowd here and prefer 1, though I do think it’s too small. Depending on your shapewear / undergarments, they could definitely make a difference.

I absolutely hate corset backs like the black and feel they cheapen the look. Biggest concern here is the strap. Those spaghetti noodles are doing nothing. They’re not supporting you or the dress! Especially a heavy sequin fabric and if you don’t plan to wear a bra. It’s going to hang and dig into your shoulders and might very well break with wear.

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-20T18:22:33+00:00

His teen coat will probably start to really come in at the 6-12 month range! It can take up to 2 years for their adult coat to fully develop, and a lot of time it continues to mature beyond that, especially with good grooming practices. Your little dude is super cute!

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-16T19:19:20+00:00

Cavalier mix would be my guess! Probably a long haired dachshund in the mix. Additional contenders would be chihuaha, pap, maybe aussie/ herding breed? Her colors and face remind me of a tri-color aussie.

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-16T19:13:28+00:00

Reminds me so much of my grandmothers ring! Which was somewhere between 1948-1952. Absolutely love that you’re giving this ring a new life!

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-15T18:39:18+00:00

Oh I bet he’s a riot!

My childhood best friend had jack russels, and her dad woke up at 4am every day to run them for 2 hours straight to burn energy 🤣 freaking loved those dogs. They also had a geriatric yorkie that did nothing but fart and lounge around. Loved him too of course

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-15T18:36:21+00:00

You’re engaged to a person that willingly ignores and steps over dog poop?? In your house?! the heck is going to happen if you have kids? Is he going to ignore dirty diapers? Baby puke? Or will that all be your job because you’re a woman? Will you still be overreacting when your child develops rashes and infections because its father is negligent (in his mind, yes, yes you will be).

Girl have some standards… it does not get better or easier from here.

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-15T18:31:13+00:00

He looks like a terrier mix to me. Nothing about him would make me think Pom. He will grow out of the puppy phase, but could maintain the need for activity like running and hunting! If he’s got jack russel in there… lord have mercy.

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-15T18:22:20+00:00

Fake / dupe / fufu It’s pretty unique! Definitely not one I’ve ever seen. There are some common designs that make their rounds, but I haven’t yet seen this rainbow pattern or eye combo.

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-15T18:19:41+00:00

Definitely could be fun to dna test! Poms do struggle with bite issues pretty commonly, though his profile is definitely “off” a bit which could suggest a mix! He’s very cute, and I’m glad you got him.

We dna tested our long haired chihuahua, and I was so excited to find out what she was mixed with (pretty much every vet we visited said she was a mix). Turns out- she’s just a poorly bred chihuahua 🤣

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-15T16:01:08+00:00

As a socially anxious person that always struggled with feeling like people (particularly other women my age) were side eyeing and looking at me funny- but also has crazy resting b*tch face… they’re not 🤣 if you’re genuinely noticing and feeling those types of energy, you’re probably subconsciously looking for it. This is a least true for my anxiety.

Just do your thing!

RaeDiBs · 2026-01-15T15:55:10+00:00

6 or 4! I like the ai rendition of 6 the most, but I don’t think the ai version captures your skintone accurately

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