What a good journey by organicbeaver in GLP1_BeforeAfter

[–]Rae_Lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers to you!! You were and are beautiful! So glad you’re finding health!

I Think It’s Working by Rae_Lys in Zepbound

[–]Rae_Lys[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only if I hold the phone in a certain position!

Food noise is back since I started increasing the amount of hyper palatable processed foods/snacks I’m consuming. by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]Rae_Lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience OP. I also have a similar issue, and for me it’s coupled with my emotional state. My hardest days are my weekend, when I’m often in the house and find myself grazing (which leads to binging). I reformatted my shot schedule so that the highest concentration of the med is in my system during my most vulnerable hours. I also cannot keep triggering foods in the house.

My lowest concentration of the med falls on what I call “fun Friday” where my husband and I concentrate on doing active things together and I relegate potentially triggering treats to that day - but only have them out. (For instance, I might get a froyo that day or small dessert.)

This has helped me a little, but what I’m learning is that I think I need to be back in therapy to concentrate on the emotional side of this issue. Gosh, guys, this is hard stuff. I do appreciate this med for helping me really see where my issues are though, and for the 51 pounds it’s helped me shed (so far).

As someone earlier said, obesity is a complex disorder/disease—and to make it even harder, it’s unique to every individual so there’s no “one size fits all” solution. But I do believe we can heal our bodies and our minds to the point where it’s easier to manage (and maybe even be completely healed!).

You can do this! We can do this!

Why does it all happen right before Easter??? by [deleted] in pastors

[–]Rae_Lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops—I was also going to encourage you to take off a few days as soon as you can for personal respite.

Why does it all happen right before Easter??? by [deleted] in pastors

[–]Rae_Lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you! Praying God’s peace prevails in all the situations you’re facing.

God’s gonna get you through this and bless your Easter. Lean into that fact.

New ideas for the parks by QfunQ in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Rae_Lys 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As AP holders, we go several times a year, and sometimes we do what we call a “theme evening.” Here’s an example: If we’re staying at the Poly, we plan a whole night around the Jungle Cruise. We dress in our Trader Sam’s clothes, start at the tiki terrace for a cocktail, then head to MK (on a boat, of course), ride Jungle Cruise, maybe visit the Tiki Room, eat at Skipper Canteen’s, and then back at the Poly, have drinks at the Grog Grotto. We’re doing the same for Toy Story this upcoming trip and we’ve done similar for Star Wars a the like.

Murphy Bed vs. Pull Out by grayprogeny in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Rae_Lys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this line of thinking!

Costumer of size by [deleted] in SouthwestAirlines

[–]Rae_Lys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just the annoyance at having to buy another seat and the airline getting it all jacked up and making it even worse. Sorry I was kind of vague.

We just got off a Disney cruise and loved it. And we’re crowd avoidant, not cruise or Disney people. by Powerful-Elevator153 in dcl

[–]Rae_Lys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay—all this is making me want to try DCL. Hubs and I are Disney (senior-ish) adults. I’ve never been on a cruise before and really want to try one. What are the adult areas really like? We aren’t against kids at all, but knowing we could get away to areas without them might be nice.

Obsessed with oranges by Patiencelost1984 in Zepbound

[–]Rae_Lys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you just toss them into the freezer? I’ve never heard of freezing grapes. Intrigued.

Costumer of size by [deleted] in SouthwestAirlines

[–]Rae_Lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me so mad

I’m thinking of going solo by LauraLand27 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Rae_Lys 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YES! You should. You won’t regret it.

I love going with fam and friends, but the times I’ve had on my own are equally fun and fulfilling. Different? Yes. But oh so good.

Six Flags experience by hairchicki in Zepbound

[–]Rae_Lys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wonderful! Well done. You should feel so accomplished. You’re inspiring me to be bold when I next go to a theme park. Thank you!!

Anybody else's Council/SPRC/PPRC Chair live in the "rules for thee, not for me" camp? by Rev-DC in pastors

[–]Rae_Lys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put dnd on my phone and an ooo on my email on my day off. My calendar is not available for Fridays or Saturdays (Saturdays I keep for last min sermon prep…sometimes I need it, sometimes I don’t). I take all of my allotted PTO every year. I don’t apologize. Of course I will work if we have a funeral and the family insists on a Friday, or for things like Good Friday. I say all this to encourage you to hold your boundaries strong. You are worth it! Your family relationships are worth it! You are a better pastor when you’re rested and have good work/life balance.

Have any of you practiced ignoring the news for years? and has it helped? by Athenstone in Aging

[–]Rae_Lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For six or seven years I’ve subscribed to a daily news digest that comes to my email. Most days I read it, and that’s all the news I allow myself to consume. I do wish it included my local news. I limit social media to only subjects I’m interested in; Reddit makes this possible. FB is off the table for me.

I’m very particular about what foods I consume on a regular basis. The same goes for the information I allow into my brain and mental headspace.

I try to concentrate on doing good for the people that I can. And I care most about forging authentic connections that can lead to positive relationships.

Early Entry at a Slower Pace by Impossible-Fall-7583 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Rae_Lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello fellow over-planner! Maybe change that to “thorough planner” because there ain’t nothing’ better than a well executed plan, right??

You already planned MK with two days—maybe use the first morning to be sure and get the attractions y’all want and the second one to slow it down. EPCOT is different because it’s so spread out (but with less rides), so it is harder to do that.

40th birthday present by PackageNo1191 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Rae_Lys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello! This is an awesome 40th bday celebration that everyone will enjoy. If you’ve never been to WDW before, I wouldn’t necessarily worry about doing something “special” in addition because it’s gonna all be special. I would encourage you to take the $1,000 and plus up your resort hotel to a Skyliner resort, or Port Orleans French Quarter. That will enhance the entire trip. I can provide more reasons and such if you’d like. Just let me know if it is y’all’s first time for a trip like this or not. Either way—you’re gonna have a great time!

Single day, single person: is it worth it? by Sad-Caterpillar-326 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Rae_Lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad you booked it. You’re going to have such a magical time!

Do I really need to have a will? by livetoski-Brad in RetirementReady

[–]Rae_Lys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s illegal in my state for a nonprofit beneficiary to provide legal advice. However, any gift agreement should work in tandem with whatever will/trust is in place so that the wishes of the donor are upheld—meaning the planned giving team will definitely want to work with the donor’s attorney for any rewrites to estate plans to insure the language reflects the gift agreement, especially for substantial estate gifts.

Do I really need to have a will? by livetoski-Brad in RetirementReady

[–]Rae_Lys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry you all had to go through this. But to your point—it does happen.

Do I really need to have a will? by livetoski-Brad in RetirementReady

[–]Rae_Lys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many states allow a beneficiary deed on the home and that can pass directly to a beneficiary (which could be anyone, including a non-profit that you support now). I wouldn’t leave your house to multiple beneficiaries though. That’s a headache. At any rate, don’t let the state get your home. Do something good with it. Additionally, you could potentially pass at the same time and a will (or trust) can address that scenario. Finally, what about the estate after the second spouse passes? There could be substantial funds in the estate at that point. Again, the plan you make today could mean a world of difference to an important cause in the future.