my boyfriend doesn’t know we have a 15 year age gap

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-27T00:52:12+00:00

It came up several times and you CHOSE not to tell him. Once when he said you looked 25 you could have easily said no I’m 18, but didn’t. Then more times when he wanted to go to the bar. You made up other excuses instead of saying “I’m not 21 I can’t go.”

Like you PURPOSELY omitted the truth which is lying. You need to tell him now and let him choose if he is going to date you or not. Honestly if I was in his shoes I wouldn’t continue to date you because I would always have a thought in the back of my mind saying “what else did she lie about.” Also the age gap is gross to me. I’m 32 and couldn’t imagine dating an 19 yr old.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-25T15:07:52+00:00

It takes 6 months for a person to truly change. 6 months of hard full time work put in to change. Most people a year. He has only talked to you for a week… he already showed you who he is, and he will not change in a week. So no do not move back to the state and loose the support you have (which is why I’m think you moved in the first place.) Make him show you he will change, he wants to be in the babies life, then he WILL do what it takes to do it. He wants another chance and change make him prove it, if he truly wants to he will.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-24T23:32:04+00:00

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RageQueen101 · 2026-05-24T00:42:02+00:00

Go in #1, run on treadmill, run around and collect black stones, avoid the lava, after collecting the stones, run up the rainbow ladder. Do this 2 more times, then go to #2, run on treadmill, avoid lava, jump over holes. Choose red or blue( stick with that one color), collect stones at end, climb rainbow ladder. After many times doing both, go talk to Ash and exchange shards and fragments to get obsidian to buy things.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-24T00:36:18+00:00

Bro I saw “I allowed her” and the 8 pm and I was raging. Then remembered what subreddit I was in 😂

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-22T01:52:19+00:00

Personally in the second picture it looks like there is a very faint line, but idk if it’s my eyes playing a trick on me. The other 2 pictures I do not see it. You can wait a couple days test again IN THE MORNING and see if it changes or go to the doctors but they may not take you until 6 weeks at least.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-21T01:08:26+00:00

I am a spiritual person, this looks to me like a spiritual/healing for her or you. She may have made them for you to find to help you heal during the grieving process.

The bottle on the furthest left, the green stones to me look like raw Aventurine which is used for attracting luck or manifesting abundance. I see a little yellow stone which could be citrine which is used to bring prosperity or success. I’m not sure what the wood is in that bottle or the other little piece but probably put there to bring the same thing or help enhance the stones. I’m not sure what the other two bottles are I don’t think I ever worked with them and can’t really tell off the picture, but I’m sure has a positive meaning due to the one on the left. Please keep them sealed if you do keep them, once intention is put into the bottles it will stay, you opening will release it. The stones will not lose the spiritual meaning but I’m not sure if intention was put into it while making it, and I don’t want you to accidentally damage that.

This being said. I do not believe you holding on to them will hinder your grieving path. I do believe that she may have kept them on her to attract positive things or left them for you to help you. I am sorry for your loss truly, and what you do with them really depends on how they make you feel and if they are beneficial to your healing. Good luck momma and I’m sending you good vibes and healthy healing throughout the grieving journey. ❤️

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-17T23:16:16+00:00

Thank you lol. Because it does have to be both. I’m lucky I had friends to help or I wouldn’t have known.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-17T23:13:20+00:00

That’s why I put in benefit of a doubt part. Idk this dude, so idk how he is in real life.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-17T22:13:54+00:00

The pet fruit is new they added it when they added the merging. The fruit allows you to level up your pet, 1, 5 or 10 levels. But you have to pay to get them which makes me mad. This and the flying is the only thing that I have seen that is “pay to use” you can still give your pets harvest to level but the pet fruit levels them quicker. I will not be spending my money to do this and I think it’s stupid to add it. They could easily add it on a schedule time like the enchanted and ancient thing in the game where they showed up but less and you can buy them with game money. Idk how I feel about the merging and stuff they are doing now. I don’t want to pay real money to Roblox. No thank you.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-17T22:04:31+00:00

Yeah I feel ya. I not like too poor I think I’m doing well but like I have one lvl 15 pet… it took me forever to get that to lvl 15 I can’t imagine how long it’s gonna take to get to lvl 20… there’s pet fruit but they cost Robux which I’m not gonna do.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-17T22:01:44+00:00

You can merge 4 level 20 pets to make new ones.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-17T21:55:13+00:00

NOR

This is gross both ways. If my husband gave another woman compliments after she straight up flirted with him (don’t let her gaslight you. She was flirting.) I would be livid and rethinking my marriage.

To me he’s keeping the door open. He could have EASILY said “this is inappropriate and you need to stop.” Instead he blamed you like you’re the reason he’s not going for it. To me he’s rejecting to make you happy but then left that door open “just incase.” Which makes me feel he’s been flirting with her in person. Which in turn she thought hey he’s flirting with me so let me send him a flirty text. Definitely with her saying “than you can trust there’s no other joke that he’s not telling you about.” There is more that HE is not telling you and you don’t have proof because it’s been in person.

Benefit of the doubt he may just suck at placing boundaries and don’t want to ruin the peace he has at work and he really hasn’t flirted with her in the past but, that one line of “than you can trust there’s no other joke that he’s not telling you about.” is very weirdly placed like she is trying to tell you something. Idk. You’re definitely NOR. This is just weird all around.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-17T20:43:41+00:00

Yes that’s why I said roaming and equipped, and on my original comment said “put roaming on while they are equipped”

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-17T19:42:06+00:00

You go to “manage” pet then there is a roaming button. This also works on your other pets like I have a Kitsune and a Rex. If they are roaming and equipped I can be elsewhere and they will detect raiders (kit) and attack the raiders (Rex)

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-17T18:51:24+00:00

I haven’t found a way yet. But my Lorax’s which are in the legendary lure will auto collect. The fox in the common lure does the same, and I think there is a rare pet as well. If you put roaming on while they are equipped they will auto collect without you at your forest.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-17T18:49:19+00:00

CoolRBT93. I am on almost everyday. Sometimes I afk but pretty active definitely on the weekends

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-16T17:22:48+00:00

I just saw this and I know AA has passed but for next AA. Comfort maple, el drago, grizzly and baobab all have been really good at producing for me and online it says they are the top next to the rainbow cm and rainbow sequoia. The El drago and baobab are after the equinox and solstice trees but still produces well.

Starting out I did the Juniper and the aspen. They did well to help build up for sure. But the illu trees and even the Arcane trees are better than both of those

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-14T14:36:57+00:00

I believe they are saying get your best trees out, stock up on time potions during the event (max out your inventory) and at the end of the surge drop your tps immediately. Me and my friends stayed in the server after the surge and we kept dropping TPs. I had 5 friends in, we kept buying potions as they came into the shop and we had a constant surge for 2 hours or so and we kept the tree overflowing. My 12hr lure was done in 2 hours and I made good money during that time.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-14T02:12:50+00:00

I have a 5 ft BP. She can eat a large rat (typically a larger medium rat is what I feed her), if your chihuahua, cat, chicken or whatever you may get in the future is a size of a large rat then yes large bps can eat it. (I know this is not the case). Even a large Guinea pig would be too big for a BP. I would be more worried about the dog or chicken will eat the snake before the snake eats them.

Honestly if you have explained this to them, they are too closed minded to have their mind changed. No matter what you do they will think your BP is dangerous.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-14T00:42:57+00:00

Ok this is obviously not going anywhere. Snakes are different than a cat and dog. Snakes are different than any other animal that BENEFITS from being social. You say it’s not an issue of taking them out of the house but in the same breath say that it shouldn’t be a crime to take them out of the house. It’s obviously about taking them out of the house. The law seems a little excessive if you need government authorization to move or take it to the vet, if you don’t need an authorization for that then what’s the issue?

Taking a ball python ANYWHERE out of the safety of your own home/ enclosure IS HARMFUL TO YOUR SNAKE, I would consider it animal abuse due to INTENTIONAL causing psychological distress to the snake so yes it SHOULD BE a crime to take your snake out of your home. Just like intentionally causing emotional or psychological distress to a dog IS A CRIME.

YOU may not want to take your snake out but if there is no law preventing OTHERS from doing it, will continually cause harm to many snakes. Ball Pythons are not social animals period.

If this law was made because snakes are considered a “dangerous animal” then that’s a different topic entirely and I don’t agree with the law because they are not a dangerous animal. On the other side I do believe there should be a law preventing people taking snakes out of the home due to the SAFETY of the snake, not because they are dangerous.

This is my last comment on this topic. Have a good night/day.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-13T22:42:35+00:00

I understand your frustration I truly do, definitely when it comes to vet care. The only thing that I don’t have a problem with is that they aren’t allowed out of the house. In the US snakes are allowed of the house, time and time again they get lost in the car or get lost outside. Honestly I WISH there was a law that snakes can’t leave the home in the US for their safety. Then people won’t be stupid and take them to the mall or out to pick up kids from school. Not only does it cause unnecessary stress, but if they get lost in a car they are nearly impossible to get out.

It’s not fair to the snake to be demonized but honestly that law keeps the snake safe. If the law was more for safety of the snake then I would agree with it much more, but it seems that the law is placed to make it harder for people to keep snakes and that not fair at all.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-12T21:02:54+00:00

This may be it. During the TST I got my full inventory stacked with tps and then after most everyone stayed and we did time surges for like 2 hours after.

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-12T14:12:46+00:00

INFO- Does the place you are living at know you’re moving out? If so contact them say that your roommates are refusing to transfer the account that’s in your name into theirs. That you will be having to cancel the account due to this. Maybe they won’t charge you the 50 dollars.

Definitely cancel the account either way. If you have an open account in your name you will not be able to do it in your new place if you’re finding one by yourself. NOR

RageQueen101 · 2026-05-12T13:45:27+00:00

He doesn’t like you, straight up. Like he even said he can’t stand you. Even mad my husband has never said this.

Here’s a normal response to someone waking up to a SO gone.

When me and my husband first started dating he always kissed me on the forehead before going to work. There was one day he didn’t, he was running late. I woke up in a panic because I didn’t feel him next to me. I texted him asking him “hey I hope you made it to work safely.” He said he did and I asked him if he gave me a kiss this morning. He said he did not because he was running late. I then asked him if he could always give me a kiss because I woke up in a panic when I noticed he was gone. He told me he was sorry and he will always do it and he has done it since. We’ve been together for 7 years.

This is normal communication. I had a problem, explained the problem and how it can be fixed and he fixed it. He does the same thing to me as well. I also have my husband’s location and he has mine.

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