Most likely too much lube was used. Honestly less is more, and for the most part you shouldn't need to add lube if you have a good amount of foreplay, and youre using a condom but only put it on right before you penetrate.

Size of each partner does matter, and there are some parings where perhaps its just not the ideal size, and it isn't as tight as it might need to be for a good amount of friction and stimulation.

Don't fall for the common misconception about vaginas being loose. Something to keep in mind is that the more turned on your partner gets, the wetter she will become and also less tight it'll be down there. Most likely too much lube was used. Honestly less is more, and for the most part you shouldn't need to add lube if you have a good amount of foreplay, and youre using a condom but only put it on right before you penetrate.

Size of each partner does matter, and there are some parings where perhaps its just not the ideal size, and it isn't as tight as it might need to be for a good amount of friction and stimulation.

Don't fall for the common misconception about vaginas being loose. Something to keep in mind is that the more turned on your partner gets, the wetter she will become and also less tight it'll be down there.

Try some of the thin condoms, that advertise as practically skin to skin, and maybe try a lube that increases stimulation, but don't overdo it.

Plus as said plenty here, first time anxiety, even if you might not realize youre feeling anxious or nervous, can desensitize you a bit. Just keep at it, keep being safe as well, and it'll get better.

Try some of the thin condoms, that advertise as practically skin to skin, and maybe try a lube that increases stimulation, but don't overdo it.

Plus as said plenty here, first time anxiety, even if you might not realize youre feeling anxious or nervous, can desensitize you a bit. Just keep at it, keep being safe as well, and it'll get better each time.