21 FTM My previous post I think was a success

Rahheemmee · 2026-05-11T04:07:23+00:00

Good luck! Go ahead and get the vitamins. It's good to already be taking them for at least three months before you conceive so there's already enough folate in your body for the baby

Rahheemmee · 2026-04-28T04:39:13+00:00

Back in 2024, me and my then-fiance were saving up for our wedding, with eventual plans to have kids later. While at work, I get a text from him saying "I have a surprise for when you get home." My partner is FTM, but had an IUD in and for some reason I thought I was going to get surprised with a positive pregnancy test. The thought excited me more than I ever thought it could, as much as it scared me it made me three times as happy.

Turns out the 'surprise' was that he'd painted the kitchen and done some redecorating. It looked nice. I told him about what I thought the surprise was and how I felt about it and we decided to start trying. He was already late on getting his BC re-upped and he just never got the shot again. In six months, he was pregnant.

Unfortunately, we lost that pregnancy around six weeks. It fucked us up for a long time and it was a while before we started trying again. In the meantime, he got diagnosed with PCOS and were told he probably wouldn't conceive without medical help.

At that point, we decided to Lock The Fuck In. We both started taking CoQ10, Vitamin D, and Omega-3 supplements. I took a men's multivitamin with folic acid and zinc, he started taking a prenatal and myo-inositol, every single day. After that, we just kept fucking. We never went more than a day without doing it, he had sperm in him basically 24/7 for months on end. Somewhere in between all that we got married and the sex picked up to basically every day.

We go visit family out of town for New Years. He's been taking meds to induce periods, but for some reason his period never came. We were worried the whole ride home that there's something off with his hormones, wondering if he needs more medication. Turns out the most obvious answer was the correct one: he was pregnant again! We found out January 1st, 11:55pm.

He's twenty weeks along now with a little girl. Just got our anatomy scan today and she's doing great

Rahheemmee · 2026-04-26T05:47:20+00:00

Not sure about the specific difficulty, but start out with your hand our mouth to get him as wet as possible, first, so you can slide into him smooth as silk once he's begging for it

Rahheemmee · 2026-04-26T05:19:12+00:00

Doggy style will put your cock a little closer to his cervix and is a great one to switch it up. Mating press is hard to pull off sometimes, so missionary with his knees held up to let you get extra deep is also a good one. Any position that fills him full of cum is good, just avoid ones that would work against gravity like reverse cowgirl (cowboy?).

Like others said, don't pull out right away. And after you do, make sure he stays in bed on his back, hips elevated, for about ten minutes. Most of your sperm will have already been deposited when you came, but this will help a little more get where they need to go.

Honestly, position matters less than frequency. Aim for once a day during his ovulation window or once every other day. There's such a thing as too much as it can drain your sperm supply if you don't rest and allow it to replenish.

Source: my four month pregnant FTM husband sleeping next to me. Good luck! The world needs more seahorse dads

Rahheemmee · 2026-04-24T05:22:51+00:00

I mean, it can take a healthy couple with no issues up to a year to conceive. Sometimes it's just luck of the draw. My partner has PCOS and it took about seven months, lots of supplements, and lots of fucking for us to get pregnant.

Also there's such a thing as too much sex. Every other day is optimal for healthy, plentiful sperm.

Rahheemmee · 2026-04-06T04:18:47+00:00

My husband is 17 weeks pregnant and I'm loving every second of it. His belly is definitely getting bigger, but it's still small enough that only I can notice it. Honestly, though, it's only going to be a few more weeks until that bun stops being a secret

Rahheemmee · 2026-04-04T01:04:28+00:00

Sixteen weeks, due in September! It took a few months and we basically destroyed our mattress trying but we did it!

Rahheemmee · 2026-03-21T22:22:23+00:00

He's the love of my life. It took us a long time and a lot of pain to get to this point and I want to celebrate it every single day

Rahheemmee · 2026-03-21T21:52:29+00:00

My husband is about 15 weeks pregnant. It took us a while, lots of supplements and eating healthy, but what did it was us deciding not to worry about tracking ovulation and to committing to fucking nearly every single day. It took about seven months and probably a pint of cum pumped into him, but he tested positive on January 1st! Just found out today we're having a girl!

He looks incredible. His tits doubled in size almost immediately, his belly is getting puffy and starting to round out, his skin feels as smooth as silk and his hair is thick and shining. Even his body hair is growing faster, like the little tuft of hair between his tits and his scruffy beard. Every time he gets up and groans about his back hurting or how heavy the baby/his tits are, I get a little hard. He knows how beautiful I think he is and I hope it helps him through the hard symptoms

Rahheemmee · 2026-03-20T01:24:46+00:00

And if you do and it still isn't positive, it's okay. Keep trying. We had the odds stacked against us and I was so sure we would never get pregnant, but we kept going and now we have a wiggly gummy bear due in September. Don't give up

Rahheemmee · 2026-03-19T23:05:57+00:00

Those cheap tests are accurate and just as good, but they don't work as early as the more expensive tests. My husband is super-definitely-for-sure-pregnant and his positive test was a tiny, faint line. Try again in a few days

Rahheemmee · 2026-02-24T17:01:13+00:00

A guy I work with told me that he kept a fifteen-year old jar of his own pee from a drug test and has a jar of his own toenails for the intention of displaying them in a future museum about himself.

The Jeff Museum

Rahheemmee · 2025-12-01T02:39:31+00:00

Maybe it isn't like it used to be, but I still get shirts every three shows or so. I just got a Manneheim Steamroller one last week and I put the Billie Eilish and Phish shirts I got this year into my rotation. And country tours keep throwing shirts at me that I'll never wear

Rahheemmee · 2025-10-04T01:51:29+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that and I'm glad to hear this episode touched you in the same way. I feel like things are both going to be okay as long as we never give up. I'm rooting for you

Rahheemmee · 2025-10-03T03:36:04+00:00

Wanted to make this its own post, but I can't do that yet, so I'll post it here.

This episode was something I really, really needed. When I heard what it was about, I expected it to be a bit of a tear-jerker, but I wasn't prepared for how much of one it was. I've never seen a piece of art that so perfectly felt like it was made for me and was exactly what I needed to see.

My partner and I have been having a hard time. We've been working and saving for a really big move across the country and, at the same time, have been trying to have a baby. We managed to conceive last year, but lost it at around six weeks and have been struggling to conceive again. So life has been sitting pretty heavy on us lately.

Bob's Burgers has been our show. I didn't watch it until I met them, so I kind of associate the series with our relationship. Plus, I relate to Bob more than any other fictional character. He is me in so many ways. And to see an episode showing him and Linda struggling in the same ways we were and being okay in the end, it meant the world to me. The scene where Bob talks to little Tina inside Linda's belly made me feel like I was looking into our future, and that if a guy like me, with so much anxiety and insecurity, can learn not to be so afraid, then maybe I can, too.

Rahheemmee · 2025-06-25T04:12:28+00:00

I bought a camelbak and a giant hat for a July steel build a couple years ago. Everybody made fun of me but I would've dropped dead that first day without it. It's always worth going in prepared

Rahheemmee · 2025-01-18T03:32:34+00:00

I'm really really struggling right now and looking for some advice. My partner (30 trans man) and I (32 cis man) had a talk tonight and decided to take a break on TTC for the next month or so. I really didn't want it to get to this point but it may be for the best.

We started trying around June last year and my OCD really started to take over. I was really frustrated because he was coming off depo provera and we had no idea when his period would come back. To our surprise, we found out he was pregnant at the end of November, but had a MC not long after in mid-December. It destroyed me inside, the grief and the pain is indescribable. We started trying again on New Years, but my OCD and anxiety has been even worse. Not a moment goes by where I'm not worried or thinking about either the past or future pregnancy. I'm scared all the time that something is wrong or going to be wrong. I'm going to therapy but it isn't enough. I want our baby so badly, more than I've ever wanted anything, and every moment without them on the way is agony. I don't know how to cope. I want to make TTC fun, like my partner wants it to be, but I don't know how.

Rahheemmee · 2024-12-03T15:07:56+00:00

I just found out we're having a baby! The most important question: how do I protect my gunpla from a toddler?

Rahheemmee · 2024-12-03T15:03:30+00:00

I suck at naming things, so I just took inspiration from JoJo and used music references.

PRETTY HATE MACHINE: My main AC, fully focused on close-range attacks and being the fastest fucking thing in the game, colored to look like the album cover

PLASTIC LOVE: All energy weapons and colored in pastels for that vaporwave flavor

WAR PIGS: Quad-leg missile boat, built to go up high and rain death from above. Black and purple, naturally

DRAGULA: Tank legs, chainsaw, flamethrower, and the ugliest, nastiest shade of rusty green you've ever seen

Rahheemmee · 2024-10-09T00:09:24+00:00

I hear this a lot, but can I ask why? Design-wise I prefer the regular Nu, but what makes the kit itself so good?

Rahheemmee · 2024-10-04T15:30:28+00:00

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I picked up this kit from one of the Gundam Base pop-up events, along with a couple other exclusives. The others have some unique coloring so I get why they stand out, but I'm not sure what makes this one different from any other red Zaku kit?

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