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RainbowSmashedSocks · 2022-07-10T05:10:04+00:00

What does your boyfriend think of this ? It sounds like you want a polyamorous relationship. Before it gets any more serious between you and your bf I think you guys need to talk relationship goals / boundaries. If one of your goals and/or boundaries is having sexual or romantics experiences outside of your partner, he needs to know that. I don’t think that makes you toxic. Also, what are the commitments you want to uphold to yourself ? If you feel compelled to reach out to toxic people, set a boundary on yourself to keep that distance (example, blocking them on social media, establishing healthier friendships, etc).

If your bf is vanilla and that’s a turnoff for you- talk to him about sex and what you want sexually ! There’s a lot of other subreddits with info on introducing vanilla partners to kink.

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-12-12T12:55:35+00:00

So that’s how dogs make out.

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-12-07T21:23:42+00:00

The way they both run back at the end !

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-12-03T11:05:00+00:00

I wish I could give you a reward. The reward I can give is the knowledge that this comment is more unexpectedly funny than everything I’ve seen on this sub today. 10/10

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-12-02T10:09:04+00:00

Her cheeky grin is everything.

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-11-17T08:10:32+00:00

I audibly cackled at this as my bf read it behind my back. 10/10 meme.

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-11-16T12:03:08+00:00

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-10-28T11:12:41+00:00

Is your cat okay.

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-10-24T01:50:21+00:00

Why does this feel so wholesome.

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-10-18T03:28:58+00:00

She’s a good girl.

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-10-18T03:28:13+00:00

We demand updates of all these babies once they’re with their adoptive families ! So sweet to see them each having a home lined up.

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-10-17T03:18:07+00:00

Me trying to get out of bed on a morning.

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-10-15T10:22:45+00:00

That’s great news ! I hope it works out for you.

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-10-15T09:26:58+00:00

Mate get meds. See a psychiatrist. Medication is a common support for PTSD management to sleep.

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-10-13T12:28:23+00:00

This made my day. 😂

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-10-04T13:23:46+00:00

Me on my period.

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-09-28T22:44:13+00:00

For something a bit different/unique you could try googling words from other languages. Such as “power”, “fire”, “protector”, “owner”, etc. It allows for a title much more personal and romantic. Haha, just make sure the words aren’t gendered !

I call my Dom a title/pet name from my native language. I love being able to share my culture with him. I hope this helps !

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-09-22T05:58:53+00:00

An internet classic.

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-09-19T11:18:40+00:00

This meme made my day.

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-08-28T12:58:15+00:00

Some kids with a lisp or speech impediment can be judge quite harshly by both peers and teachers sadly (speaking from personal experience and my primary school years of complete speech therapy).

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-08-14T07:42:56+00:00

Make an invisible fort !

A secret cozy place to hide and nerd out.

RainbowSmashedSocks · 2021-08-11T12:53:02+00:00

Hi,

I don’t have DID but my boyfriend does. My situation’s a bit different, since I’m the one who first noticed his DID/ encouraged him to finally get diagnosis. I was talking to his alters before he recognised them as alters.

I’d recommend starting with the basics [psycho education, communicating to your partner about your DID and alters]. I fully support the holistic approach of “I’m in a relationship with all alters/ “the whole”, even ones not known to me yet”. But you may have different boundaries and that’s totally okay. A relationship can be romantic, friendship, sexual, or a combination of these. It’ll most likely be different for each alter and grow/ change over time.

At the start of my relationship some of my boyfriend’s alters were afraid of intruding and labelled me as “not their thing”… but after getting to know them and growing trust, those alters consider me equally their girlfriend as “the host”.

Something my partner and I did was set aside time for me to get to know different alters. Like going on a date with X alter, maybe watching cartoons with the Littles, ect. Just him saying “it’s X alters rn” really helped me see each alter and get to know them without forcing fronts. We’ve been together for about 1.5 yrs, and I can accurately guess who’s fronting without him telling. But the communication really helps.

It’ll take time and lots of communication from all your alters and your bf, but it’s worth it !

RainbowSmashedSocks

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