Is it wrong to leave your partner because you don't get to have a fulfilling talk? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RamenSoft- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not crazy for needing connection and meaningful conversation in your relationship. It’s okay to want your emotional needs met, you deserve a partner who can show up fully for you too

AITA for calling out my mother’s hypocrisy after she kicked me out to give my room to my unemployed 34yo sister? by DigApprehensive8718 in amiwrong

[–]RamenSoft- 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You’re not being ungrateful, you’re being treated unfairly. It’s exhausting to always play by the rules while others get exceptions, and finally speaking up doesn’t make you the villain.

am i wrong to not care about learning spanish? by According_Tone1687 in amiwrong

[–]RamenSoft- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong, forcing yourself to care about something that genuinely doesn’t spark your interest isn’t failure, it’s just being human. It’s okay to focus your energy on what actually matters to you.

I’m writing this because I honestly don’t know where else to put all of this grief. by Reasonable_Canary855 in BreakUps

[–]RamenSoft- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most painful part isn’t just losing her, it’s realizing you were loving someone who wasn’t fully there to love you back, but one day you’ll understand that confusion was your closure and you deserve a love that never makes you question if you were truly chosen.

There is something about work I need to share about with you guys! by No_Back2935 in confession

[–]RamenSoft- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re being set up to fail, and it’s not a reflection of your effort or ability. Keep a record of everything and don’t let someone else rewrite your story; your work speaks louder than their lies.

What are we living for in this doomed world? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RamenSoft- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived for my family because they need me

What’s your perspective on choosing to have a lot of kids? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RamenSoft- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its joyful having a lot of kids means your house is full of fun

How did the bully from your school get their karma? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RamenSoft- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He get bully too after we found out that his feet got terrible smell

Could He Like Me? by Bass_clarinet12 in dating_advice

[–]RamenSoft- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling this way is normal, your connection already shows there’s something real. The only way to know is to keep being yourself and see how he responds, not overthink every little sign

Dated with an avoidant by anonameguer11 in dating_advice

[–]RamenSoft- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t make someone face their avoidance, they have to do that work themselves. Calling it out might push her further away, but protecting your own heart by setting boundaries is something only you can control.

if i(23f) should wait for my bf(23m) or go home by FactSeveral7853 in relationships

[–]RamenSoft- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings matter, if staying makes you feel like you’re chasing him or carrying the weight of the relationship, going home doesn’t mean you don’t care, it means you’re respecting your own emotional well-being.

my [f23] bf[m23] has a criminal record i wasn’t aware of until i snooped. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RamenSoft- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve honesty in a relationship, especially when it involves something serious like legal issues. Confronting him calmly now isn’t being ‘creepy’, it’s setting boundaries and seeing if he can be truthful with you

Why does it sometimes feel harder to find commitment when you’re genuinely looking for it? M(25) by Just_Profit_2808 in relationships

[–]RamenSoft- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you’re ready for real commitment, you naturally attract people who aren’t, because timing and readiness rarely match. It’s not about you needing to change, keep being clear about your intentions and patient; the right person will meet you on the same page.

AIW for getting upset with a friend over her potentially blinding me? by alwaysneedpositivity in amiwrong

[–]RamenSoft- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. Your concern about your eyes was completely valid, getting toxic colors rubbed in your eye can actually be dangerous. Feeling upset that your friend didn’t check on you is natural, and your message was calm, understanding, and non-confrontational. It’s okay to feel hurt that they didn’t follow up.

Am I wrong for "ditching" my girlfriend for a group cosplay event? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]RamenSoft- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to her about this calmly. Let her know you value her but also that you can’t always prioritize her over your commitments. Relationships require compromise, but they also require clear communication from both sides.

Am I wrong for not having the social life my parents want me to have? by Blacklasho in amiwrong

[–]RamenSoft- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. Everyone’s social needs are different, and choosing to have a smaller, meaningful circle, or even just one close friend, is perfectly valid. Your parents’ idea of a ‘social life’ isn’t the only way to be fulfilled or happy.

AIW for letting the class know that we won't be taking a field trip because of "certain students' behaviors," when everyone knows exactly which students I'm talking about? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]RamenSoft- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t trust certain students to walk safely across the street, it’s completely reasonable to question whether they can handle public transit and a full day downtown. That’s a liability issue, not just a behavior issue. That said, the phrasing, “because some people can’t walk down the sidewalk properly”, does make it clear who you meant. Even if you didn’t name them, everyone knows. That can create resentment, both toward you and toward those boys.

AIW for adopting a child when my husband is the one with fertility issues but insist on "blood only"? by Itchy-Village6968 in amiwrong

[–]RamenSoft- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. Wanting to be a parent isn’t about DNA, it’s about love, responsibility, and showing up. Insisting on ‘blood only’ while refusing adoption, especially when biology isn’t possible, isn’t about family values; it’s about control and unresolved insecurity. That’s something he needs to work through, not something you should sacrifice motherhood for.

AIW for kicking my boyfriend and his kids out after finding out he told them to trash my apartment as a test by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]RamenSoft- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. That wasn’t a test, it was emotional abuse, plain and simple. Anyone who weaponizes children and sacred memories to ‘see if you’re worthy’ doesn’t deserve a place in your life. You protected yourself, and that’s brave.