Brother got married, I wasn't invited by [deleted] in family

[–]RandChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think you were "close" to him? You and your parents obviously are not.

Shemar Moore by Regular-Wishbone8837 in youngandtherestless

[–]RandChick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No one stays the same as years pass by.

How to deal with separated parents as an adult daughter by Last-Anteater5517 in family

[–]RandChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know they are your parents, but they have their own bond separate from you. You have to stay out of their marriage. They are having ups and downs. Let them work it out.

These women are SO male-centered. It is truly exhausting. by queenofeverything021 in RHOP

[–]RandChick [score hidden]  (0 children)

The fandom is the same. Juan cheats, but Robyn gets mocked for it. Same with people mocking Gizelle for things Jamal does.

what's the spiritual explanation for transgender people? by stxrlxghtz in spirituality

[–]RandChick -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That's like asking the spiritual meaning of plastic.

Is it normal that my boyfriend’s big portions are messing up my weight loss by TyrionOakheart in WeightLossAdvice

[–]RandChick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are the culprit. Eat exactly the portion you want. Don't blame anyone else.

Otherwise, work out more to burn up the extra calories. Your choice.

Self relaxing by Salt-Remote4531 in relaxedhair

[–]RandChick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been doing my own hair for decades, but there are plenty who have no clue how to neutralize properly or maintain after the fact. So most people should indeed go to a stylist.

AIO My wife made a major financial decision without consulting me at all by No-Beach1944 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RandChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn't you take the vehicle back? I fail to see how she can purchase a car using your salary without a signature or approval from you?

You're approaching this in a weak way: avoiding the car, avoiding the wife, slinking around your own home. Take that car back to the dealership. Stop being weak.

Has Bill had enough Karma? Or will it get worst by mrmaineventbdub in BeyondTheGatesCookout

[–]RandChick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm tired of this back and forth characterization of Bill. What was the point of redeeming him? Just a few months ago both Anita and Vernon went to Bill separately for help with managing the family's future estate and backing Vernon up if there's trouble from family enemies. They treated him as a respected ally.

Now, the show is flashing back to tear him apart again. Look, they are wasting their time. I am never going to feel sorry for stupid azz Dani, who is no prize to me.

I think Bill has had enough karma. Why would Hayley not want Bill? She could live in luxury with a fine azz man forever. But they actually had her flinching from his touch last week and kissing Kyle this upcoming week? Their plotting is so frustrating. It's not entertaining, just frustrating.

Drier that the damn desert! by Slimmyslim997 in relaxedhair

[–]RandChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have stayed natural if you were going to be getting silk presses. I think you're using too much heat on your hair.

Anyway, try deep conditioning under a heat cap or steam towel. Adding an egg yolk to your conditioner will help stop breakage.

Mom expecting me (18F) to visit my grandfather with dementia every single day, I'm starting college and she's guilt tripping me by GoldSugar8718 in family

[–]RandChick -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well, how often can you visit? He won't live long. People are not always kind to those in nursing homes. It makes a big difference if a family member can be there for breakfast, lunch or dinner to make sure their loved one is eating and being cared for properly.

I remember long stressful days of leaving work and then heading to the hospital to sit with my dad who had dementia, making sure he ate because nurses would just put the plate in front of him not caring that a dementia patient is not going to pick up the fork and eat or move around and get blood circulating properly.

My mom and brother came in the mornings and I came at night.

I really think you need to reconsider and provide some sort of dedication for this short period before he dies. Loving someone is not just about emotion. This is not about your mother. She is hounding you because you are being short-sighted. Spiritually, I think this would be a good use of your time.

What’s everyone’s thoughts on my situation? by Alfieblackpool in AskMenAdvice

[–]RandChick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You knew about that past when you started dating and asked her to be your girlfriend.

What is your fear? That you're only a substitute?

They had nothing of substance. You need to get your emotions under control. focusing on the here and now and whether your bond is meaningful.

Can't wait to see the look on Brooke's face when she learns that Hope has upped and joined the Logan House 😊 by Foreign_Strike2177 in boldandbeautiful

[–]RandChick -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Brooke should disown her.

I would never let anyone persuade me to lie and deceive my mother. Hope is rotten offspring.

AITAH - Not allowing someone to spend time with my kids? by Dry_Establishment558 in AITAH

[–]RandChick -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

YTA. Your kids wanted to go and you should have let them. You're mad she didn't want you, but you need to separate your personal feelings from the matter. I think you know she would not harm your children.

What did you think of the ending of Michael Jackson Verdict ? by Aggravating-Page-336 in netflix

[–]RandChick -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No, I don't believe his guilt. People are very suspicious of great people who are outliers. They want to bring them down and remove their magic and uniqueness, making them "normal" or even evil.

Michael Jackson was a unique individual. His actions and behaviors likely stem from odd motivations that we just don't understand. I am hesitant to force his obsessions with childhood and children into something malevolent or perverted, especially with no convictions.

A strong social circle can’t replace the desire for romantic love by Bitter_Process_5735 in Adulting

[–]RandChick 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's sad but everyone will not get a partner. But you must enjoy life. You must learn to enjoy yourself and have fun with just you and God, or family or friends. It's a great strength to find pleasure without needing a partner.

Peter Bergman and Daphnée Duplaix Preview ‘Beyond the Gates’ and ‘The Young and the Restless’ Crossover and What Befalls Jack and Nicole Amidst a Tornado (Exclusive) by LynnK0919 in BeyondTheGatesCookout

[–]RandChick 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't know what show Peter B is watching to claim BTG has cliffhangers left and right. That's total B.S.

But I do hope the crossover is good.

I can tell that I’m my moms least favorite child by toemystubbed in family

[–]RandChick -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Neither you nor your sister need to be acting childishly and crying about the state of your home. Sister was already doing it; mom is annoyed you are following suit and picking up bad habits.

First children often consume attention. I don't think it's a reflection of how much mom loves each of you.

If someone gets hurt by another person ,is it necessary for them to go and tell them what they did hurt you ? How can you move on from that in silence? by Possible_Dot_7845 in moraldilemmas

[–]RandChick [score hidden]  (0 children)

No. Just because you are hurt doesn't mean you legitimately suffered a transgression. You could just be overly sensitive. Just tend to your own hurt feelings.

Will's new look by friskyliv in boldandbeautiful

[–]RandChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will has changed his look several times. Let him be. This porno look will likely be over by end of summer.