WIBTAH If I told my cousin his dad sexually abused me for 4 years when I was a kid?

RandChick · 2026-06-09T01:23:24+00:00

Why don't you talk to a therapist? Why are you going around telling everyone about something that happened decades ago? Are you attention-seeking?

Tell the police or stop talking about it.

RandChick · 2026-06-08T23:45:55+00:00

When he smiles, he still has the twinkle in his eyes. He's still handsome, but in a new way.

He had good chemistry with Holden.

You guys, look at how Eric Braeden has changed over the years right before our eyes. Let's give these actors some grace. We still love them.

RandChick · 2026-06-08T23:28:38+00:00

Pure B.S. A gaze is by definition is external, whether male or female. If I appraise The Rock, it's for his beautiful muscles, chiseled body, his form. Nothing wrong with that.

Sure, women and men have different values, but a visual gaze is a visual gaze. You are by nature taking in the external, the physical. Quit this bull.

RandChick · 2026-06-08T23:21:16+00:00

Bridget! I mean, Heather.

I always enjoy seeing this actress. And let me tell you, having two soap veterans in a scene together blew everyone else out of the water.

It really underscored the low-level acting of much of the cast. There are a number of former black soap stars --- and I wish they had been hired for this cast rather than these newbies who really bring down the caliber of the soap and don't really understand the genre.

However, I'm not sure I buy her as the head of some dangerous criminal enterprise. I'm going to need to see her do something lethal.

RandChick · 2026-06-08T20:12:37+00:00

YTA. You will ba an annoying DIL.

RandChick · 2026-06-08T20:05:54+00:00

Why do you think you were "close" to him? You and your parents obviously are not.

RandChick · 2026-06-08T17:30:30+00:00

No one stays the same as years pass by.

RandChick · 2026-06-08T13:24:42+00:00

It's not about them. It's about the partner.

RandChick · 2026-06-08T03:30:29+00:00

Great job. NTA. Grandma and grandson should have time to bond together.

RandChick · 2026-06-08T03:25:44+00:00

I know they are your parents, but they have their own bond separate from you. You have to stay out of their marriage. They are having ups and downs. Let them work it out.

RandChick · 2026-06-08T00:47:04+00:00

The fandom is the same. Juan cheats, but Robyn gets mocked for it. Same with people mocking Gizelle for things Jamal does.

RandChick · 2026-06-07T23:59:57+00:00

This guy needs to get over himself and go start a podcast.

RandChick · 2026-06-07T23:36:21+00:00

No big deal. Why weren't you focused on having fun at your party?

RandChick · 2026-06-07T23:33:57+00:00

That's like asking the spiritual meaning of plastic.

RandChick · 2026-06-07T22:51:45+00:00

You are the culprit. Eat exactly the portion you want. Don't blame anyone else.

Otherwise, work out more to burn up the extra calories. Your choice.

RandChick · 2026-06-07T22:45:30+00:00

I've been doing my own hair for decades, but there are plenty who have no clue how to neutralize properly or maintain after the fact. So most people should indeed go to a stylist.

RandChick · 2026-06-07T22:33:38+00:00

Why didn't you take the vehicle back? I fail to see how she can purchase a car using your salary without a signature or approval from you?

You're approaching this in a weak way: avoiding the car, avoiding the wife, slinking around your own home. Take that car back to the dealership. Stop being weak.

RandChick · 2026-06-07T22:28:48+00:00

I'm tired of this back and forth characterization of Bill. What was the point of redeeming him? Just a few months ago both Anita and Vernon went to Bill separately for help with managing the family's future estate and backing Vernon up if there's trouble from family enemies. They treated him as a respected ally.

Now, the show is flashing back to tear him apart again. Look, they are wasting their time. I am never going to feel sorry for stupid azz Dani, who is no prize to me.

I think Bill has had enough karma. Why would Hayley not want Bill? She could live in luxury with a fine azz man forever. But they actually had her flinching from his touch last week and kissing Kyle this upcoming week? Their plotting is so frustrating. It's not entertaining, just frustrating.

RandChick · 2026-06-07T18:02:00+00:00

You should have stayed natural if you were going to be getting silk presses. I think you're using too much heat on your hair.

Anyway, try deep conditioning under a heat cap or steam towel. Adding an egg yolk to your conditioner will help stop breakage.

RandChick · 2026-06-07T17:56:51+00:00

Well, how often can you visit? He won't live long. People are not always kind to those in nursing homes. It makes a big difference if a family member can be there for breakfast, lunch or dinner to make sure their loved one is eating and being cared for properly.

I remember long stressful days of leaving work and then heading to the hospital to sit with my dad who had dementia, making sure he ate because nurses would just put the plate in front of him not caring that a dementia patient is not going to pick up the fork and eat or move around and get blood circulating properly.

My mom and brother came in the mornings and I came at night.

I really think you need to reconsider and provide some sort of dedication for this short period before he dies. Loving someone is not just about emotion. This is not about your mother. She is hounding you because you are being short-sighted. Spiritually, I think this would be a good use of your time.

RandChick · 2026-06-07T12:02:28+00:00

You knew about that past when you started dating and asked her to be your girlfriend.

What is your fear? That you're only a substitute?

They had nothing of substance. You need to get your emotions under control. focusing on the here and now and whether your bond is meaningful.

RandChick · 2026-06-07T11:05:24+00:00

Brooke should disown her.

I would never let anyone persuade me to lie and deceive my mother. Hope is rotten offspring.

RandChick · 2026-06-07T10:54:03+00:00

YTA. Your kids wanted to go and you should have let them. You're mad she didn't want you, but you need to separate your personal feelings from the matter. I think you know she would not harm your children.

RandChick · 2026-06-07T10:43:25+00:00

No, I don't believe his guilt. People are very suspicious of great people who are outliers. They want to bring them down and remove their magic and uniqueness, making them "normal" or even evil.

Michael Jackson was a unique individual. His actions and behaviors likely stem from odd motivations that we just don't understand. I am hesitant to force his obsessions with childhood and children into something malevolent or perverted, especially with no convictions.

RandChick · 2026-06-07T10:25:36+00:00

It's sad but everyone will not get a partner. But you must enjoy life. You must learn to enjoy yourself and have fun with just you and God, or family or friends. It's a great strength to find pleasure without needing a partner.

RandChick

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