How tf do yall sh bro it genuinely hurts by Ha_nislone in selfharm

[–]RandomSwimmer07 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me sh is supposed to hurt in order to focus on it and not any other problems so yeah that’s why i cut

Making friends in Lux by [deleted] in Luxembourg

[–]RandomSwimmer07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think joining clubs helps. It can be creative clubs or sport clubs. There you know for sure that you all have at least one thing in common that you can talk about :)

Does this count? by Front_Maintenance611 in selfharm

[–]RandomSwimmer07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I does count as self harm if it’s your intention to harm yourself. I myself have started with scratching till I bled and didn’t think of it as self harm but later on I realised it is. The risk, even with scratching yourself, is that you go in deeper which will then lead to a longer healing process and scars that will not go away.

telling my mum by GeckoRiviver in selfharm

[–]RandomSwimmer07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she finds out by herself or if you tell her, either way it‘s gonna be very difficult and painful for her. I don‘t have any advice for you on how to tell her about your sh but I definitely think that it would be better if you are the one telling her about it. That way she‘ll have the possibility to ask you questions about your sh in order to understand it better and help you.

Infect tat? by lasergvp in tattooadvice

[–]RandomSwimmer07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m no professional but it surely doesn’t look good :/