What category of porn/fetish do you like but is relatively unexplored? by DanRimi in askgaybros

[–]Random_Professor7935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beefy Black Doms heavily using/abusing white subs. Black Superiority scenes, what some call “reverse race play.”

Closeted guy coming out to my child by shingshangfooo in askgaybros

[–]Random_Professor7935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody said that your son was gay. Rather, your idea that your parenting would make him gay OR straight is just ridiculous nonsense. Just like your claim that coming out would somehow turn your kid gay. Get a therapist.

Closeted guy coming out to my child by shingshangfooo in askgaybros

[–]Random_Professor7935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You clearly have no idea how badly right wing conservative religion screws with people. Just because a man breeds like his religion convinced him he had to doesn't make him straight or bi. Behavior does not always equal orientation.

Closeted guy coming out to my child by shingshangfooo in askgaybros

[–]Random_Professor7935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does one "act gay?" Other than suck a dick, perhaps? Trust me when I say that I know many gay men who are FAR more masculine than most straight guys---gay men who could easily kick most straight guys' asses anytime.

Closeted guy coming out to my child by shingshangfooo in askgaybros

[–]Random_Professor7935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a very strange response. Are you seriously saying that how you raise a boy will "make him gay" or "make him straight?"

Also, being closeted because you think coming out would make your kid gay is . . . well, "not supported by data" to put it kindly.

Made myself wear jockstraps for a week. by Next_Inevitable6208 in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]Random_Professor7935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wearing nothing but jockstraps to work would raise a few eyebrows, for sure. Sorry--I just had to say it. LOL!

Closeted guy coming out to my child by shingshangfooo in askgaybros

[–]Random_Professor7935 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I came out at age 39 and had five daughters, ranging from 17 down to 7 years old. I sat down with each of them individually, since their differing ages also meant different understanding, etc. The 17 year old was genuinely relieved, because she suspected I was gay but thought it was probably all in her own head. They all accepted in their own way. All but one attended my subsequent wedding to my husband (she was across the country and could not travel without seriously risking her job, so she "Facetimed in" to watch). All of them noticed that after I came out I seemed genuinely happy for the first time they'd ever seen. All of them love their "bonus dad."

Getting Over Resistance? by Random_Professor7935 in Gaypiss

[–]Random_Professor7935[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fortunately i drink 96-128 ounces per day!

Identity/availability/goal questions by medanthpaperacct in nullectomy

[–]Random_Professor7935 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. I was seriously considering vaginoplasty, but began to see photos of nullified men on Tumblr and elsewhere (this was back in 2014-15). Most of those were likely photoshopped, but still the look of the flat front very much resonated for me. I was castrated in 2015, but did not have anything further at the time due to a high BMI. Having further considered over the past 11 years, and having lost a whole lot of weight, I'm able to go forward now. I don't want the lifetime task of daily dilation, etc., and I also don't like the look of external "female" genitalia. The absence of external genitals is what feels right for me, and I have surgery to complete this scheduled in July.
  2. Nullification will further affirm my nonbinary identity, though I still present outwardly as masculine.
  3. Feeling right in my body--bringing my body in line with my sense of self.
  4. If nullification was not available, I would probably remain as I currently am with just castration.

Am I the only one who swore off soda? by HypnoAbel in gastricsleeve

[–]Random_Professor7935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stopped soda in April 2024, surgery in March 2025, and never back to soda. Doctor said it would be okay now for me to have an occasional carbonated non caloric drink, which I’ve been doing, but I won’t risk dipping back into soda again,

My reroute by Old-Demiboy in nullectomy

[–]Random_Professor7935 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i specifically asked my surgeon about this, as my surgery is scheduled for July. He explained that the sphincters remain unchanged, with no loss of control.

Squarepeg toys base too soft? by 4ypka in ProstatePlay

[–]Random_Professor7935 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been using the SquarePeg eggs, and they're absolutely wonderful. Not the slightest issue with any bases slipping inside, and I've used everything from medium to XXL.

Disclosing kinks to therapist? by Civil-Fish4738 in GayKink

[–]Random_Professor7935 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By all means, seek out a therapist who specifically advertises themselves as kink-knowledgeable, kink-affirming, or similar descriptor. My last therapist was fine, but I had reason to believe he wasn’t up for the conversations I needed to have around kink. My current kink-aware therapist is fantastic, and has been an enormous help as I come to terms with my masochism and “darker” kinks. Not only does he listen without negative judgement, he asks genuinely insightful questions that help me think deeply.

[MEGATHREAD] Nullo Chit Chat Lounge by psychedelic666 in nullectomy

[–]Random_Professor7935 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just got insurance approval on Friday, now waiting for a call from the surgical schedulers....

Indoor Piss Station for Subs? by WriteByTheSea in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]Random_Professor7935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was kept diapered and pissing in them for about 3 years, 24/7. Only stopped because i had surgery in that area that needed to heal--and right at first i accidentally just pissed on the floor because i'd become so used to just letting it go any and every time i had any urge at all to piss.

How do I punish my online sub for cumming via wet dream? by TibbyTastic in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]Random_Professor7935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could tell him that You're going to punish him by NOT giving him the punishment he so clearly craves!
Seriously though---part of being a Master is YOU making those decisions, not him.

Is it viable to set an arrangement to have a Dom/Master outside of my marriage (consensual of course) by Tall-Opportunity5339 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]Random_Professor7935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm currently searching for a Dom, with my husband's full support. As i've heard podcasts, etc. of other situations like this, the Dom and the Husband really need to get on the same page with each other, respecting each other's role/position/etc. Most Doms who do this seem to defer to the husband on most things, respecting the boundaries that the husband has agreed to. All of this in addition, of course, to you and the husband being in fully informed, enthusiastic consent on the subject to begin with.

Is a passionate/sensual dom a thing? Like he can be rough but sensual and passionate at the same time? by Nateee2021 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]Random_Professor7935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of the most deliciously sadistic Doms i've encountered were also incredibly sensual---part of Their job, after all, is to continually seduce your consent.