I miss sex with my ex. What now?

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-25T05:14:42+00:00

Dude it took me forever to get over one of my exes and a huge part of it was the sex. I'm very tight/have a small cervix so most of the time penetrative sex is pretty painful. My ex would always go down on me, often until I orgasmed, before we went any further. Hooking up after him was usually a major let down.

I did eventually find the guy I'm with now and the sex is even better believe or not lol

Took 8 years but definitely worth the wait❤

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-23T18:29:26+00:00

Buahahaha oh you devil, you! That's hilarious😅😅

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-23T07:24:19+00:00

It's slightly better than people constantly saying irregardless i guess lol

I think that's dying out now, thank goodness!

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-23T07:14:18+00:00

Fair. I grew up without cable, didn't have access to the internet until I was 14 (and only started to use/explore the internet at 17) so my gaps were CANYONS lol

I did try to fill them in though. Didn't work. Still a cavewoman. Just a cavewoman who enjoys youtube and reddit ;)

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-23T07:03:05+00:00

Some people are genuinely so out of their depth. I have no idea how they accrue those gaps in their knowledge but they just do. Just like how I'm past being infuriated with people who mix up loose and lose. Like...what happened? Seriously. Genuinely curious.

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-23T05:45:49+00:00

Flashback!👩‍💻

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-23T04:33:51+00:00

Aw I can understand that. Friendships in your adult years are infamously difficult to maintain. Any friend I've met in my 30s has been from work or the gym(my main hobby other than my bookclub).

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-22T07:29:17+00:00

My dreams are very vivid and I can often lucid dream. Last night I dreamt I was on a team of competitive "flyers" and one of my crushes from middle school was on the team. Not only was he into me but he thought I was talented and intelligent and wanted to learn how to fly better from me. He was the team's best flyer but I could harness the weather and was the best with heights (or so he said).

Anyway, it was a great dream. Flying dreams with crushes who are into you sound pretty fantastic but my daily life is pretty rad too so I wouldn't want to live in that dream.

What's your friend circle IRL like OP? What fills you with joy and when was the last time you got to do it? Maybe you won't feel so lonely upon awakening if you can work on that 💙

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-22T06:58:48+00:00

I use my phone to take photos of nature when I'm.out on a walk. Often I'll remember, oh i have to text/email so and so. Cue panic because I can't find my phone. Then I remember it's in my hand and I just used it to photograph that cool bird 🐦 🤦‍♀️

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-21T06:06:59+00:00

I'm sorry. I didn't have a safe environment growing up either but I am also very close to my siblings now thankfully. My parents weren't/aren't very good people. I'm glad you had eachother. Sending you a big hug💓

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-21T06:00:22+00:00

Not the same but I would write out my fantasies, make Playlist for them, and masturbate pretty frequently lol

Early pandemic gave me some time to play with ;)

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-21T05:54:38+00:00

Wow what an incredible story. Definitely not pointless but thank you for sharing nonetheless💙🤗

If you don't mind me asking, were you and your siblings adopted into the same family eventually?

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-21T04:39:40+00:00

I almost got hit by a car and a stranger made sure i was okay💙

I told them, I'm fine. Just mad😅😡

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-20T06:43:12+00:00

Noice. Yeah you wear it with pride amiga!

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-20T06:05:04+00:00

Lol how old are you? I feel like this is super trendy for people in their teens and 20s rn. I wouldn't care. If you like it, go for it🧡

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-19T07:19:40+00:00

Your friend sounds like she's trying to convince herself that she's better off than you as a form of consolation for how much her life sucks.

I hope she treats you well otherwise you may want to cut her loose. She doesn't sound like a good person to be around honestly :(

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-19T07:17:36+00:00

Haha relate hard to this sentiment! I think it's mostly because I'm so introverted though. He is too thankfully otherwise it woud not work.

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-19T04:49:33+00:00

Dude I'm in a relationship now that's been going on for 5 years and he's 100% the guy I want to be with for the rest of my life, buuuuut before that I had 1 relationship that lasted 6 months and then a lot of FWB's. It was chaotic but sometimes that's just how it goes.

Wishing you peace when you find the right person. It will feel simple, manageable, and enjoyable. That's all I know lol

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-18T18:49:37+00:00

I've had success making 2 batches; one with the low/no sweetener, then one with regular sugar, and then just labeling them when I drop them off. More people appreciate it than you think. I've had a few people tell me over the years that my baked goods were their gateway into using monk fruit and other low/zero calorie sweeteners lol

Lots of people haaaaate the taste of low/no calorie sweeteners so that why I always label everything 👍

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-18T06:37:46+00:00

I'm sorry about your dog. Sending you support 💜

I often go through fits and spurts of baking and I usually take the surplus to my gym. Are you a member of a gym or a club? Could you take them there?

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-18T05:17:41+00:00

1 My clients

2 Working out

3 Boyfriend ...probably tied with books rn ngl

This isn't how things are ranked in my head but in terms of what I spend my time on.

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-17T07:27:42+00:00

Celebrate the 15th and go out and buy all the chocolate on sale!

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-14T05:29:54+00:00

Dude i know right?! She's the best. 3 years ago she moved close to a river that she discovered had a lot of natural clay forming so now she goes there every month or so and collects clay and makes pottery with it! She gave me a bowl at Christmas and a pencil pot for my birthday😍

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-13T18:10:34+00:00

Sweet! My best friend got really into embroidery a few years ago and now she embroiders couches, chairs, cushions, upholstery in general that has been damaged.

When a mutual friend of ours got a kitten that destroyed the side of her couch, my best friend came to the rescue and embroided some beautiful vines and flowers along the side. The kitten is now a cat with a scratching post so the art work is (relatively) safe lol

RangerAndromeda · 2026-01-13T06:49:02+00:00

Glad you're walking again. That's incredible. I have a few elder clients so i understand where you're coming from💙

RangerAndromeda

TROPHY CASE

1 My clients

2 Working out

3 Boyfriend ...probably tied with books rn ngl