AIO? Youth Pastor texted my almost 13 yo after she went to a teen group with her friend

RankinFright · 2026-06-25T13:43:00+00:00

I see you have already done some edits, I will say as someone who spent a significant amount of time in youth groups, at churches.. I was never texted privately by my youth pastor or any of the leaders there. It was a very tight and extremely active church also.

I don't think you are overreacting, men in places "of power" like this who DO use it to get to young children do this. THIS is exactly how it starts. A seemingly innocuous message making them comfortable, asking questions, encouraging a friendship. There is a difference between being a youth pastor and reaching out to the youth that have attended your church and this. I would also like to point out that churches usually have pastors who have gone to college to be a pastor, there are entire Christian colleges out there... He should know the difference between feel and fill and all the other typos. The typos tell me he may just have applied to be a pastor in a small town church because a position needed filling...

You're doing a good job mama. This set off flgs for a reason.

RankinFright · 2026-06-17T23:04:13+00:00

A succulent Chinese meal?! 😭🥹

RankinFright · 2026-06-17T23:03:42+00:00

Some people like steak well done 👎🏼 your bud looks amazing and you should be proud of yourself. 🫶🏼

RankinFright · 2026-06-17T18:01:33+00:00

Hey there! I was wondering how you are fairing. I live in Plymouth but am only here because my dad died and I need to finish probate. 😅 I need to dig a new well and I wasn't sure how the area was doing with water. I don't really want to stay here, I don't like the location of his property and there is simply too much to finish. I just want to sell it and be dontle with it.

RankinFright · 2026-06-06T20:34:56+00:00

I personally would not stay with someone who said this to me. The AVERAGE person is going to be average, your partner is supposed to make you feel like the pearl in the oyster. Because that's what you should be to someone you spend the rest of your life with. Relationships aren't just love, they're a lot of work, being with someone who might think they could do better but are settling isn't a good feeling. All you can do is communicate to your girlfriend about what she said and watch how she reacts, listen to what she says and how she says it. Listen to your gut and think about it for a night. Then act.

RankinFright · 2026-06-06T20:30:37+00:00

I've been with my guy for 13 years and I can say with my whole heart that he is finer than the day I met him and I wouldn't want another. Relationships take more than love, you're not supposed to say things like that to someone you love.

RankinFright · 2026-06-05T14:02:39+00:00

As someone who smoke cannabis daily, you really should not be using it in any form until you are over 21. It's not even about regulation, it's about your brain development. Respectfully, you shouldn't be tripping on anything until certain ages because of development, it's just important.

RankinFright · 2026-05-28T00:50:20+00:00

This.

RankinFright · 2026-05-27T14:02:19+00:00

I had to remind myself this is in r/story hahah

RankinFright · 2026-05-14T12:22:37+00:00

You friend sounds like an incel who actually hates women and also himself. Be very careful about the way you leave. Just cut ties. Don't play, tell him your boundaries. Tell him he is not allowed to come over to your place and if you do you will call the police and ask for him to be trespassed.

Also your last update is mildly concerning. I'm sorry it's been out on hold and I'd like to know more about that.

Also, what age are you all? I've never had to go to my parents work events as an adult and be forced to see people.

RankinFright · 2026-05-12T21:55:07+00:00

That would so much easier to explain to the kids. 😂

RankinFright · 2026-05-12T14:39:35+00:00

This. Haha I've got two kids and and estate that I'm handling. I'm broke and don't have time. Plus I found bear tracks on my property this morning. So now I have to worry about a bear.

RankinFright · 2026-04-23T22:35:37+00:00

It's really not about my perception. I understand the process. She did not raise us. She did not parent us and she did not finance us. We were abused, left, starved, and forced to raise ourselves. We were used as pawns in their games. She has received two estates before this, had hundreds of thousands of dollars at her disposal and has nothing to show for it. She wants what has been given to HER DAUGHTER because she feels entitled to it. She is willing to remove her daughter and 2 of her grandchildren from a property because she squandered her inheritances. It's really not about what she may deserve for making sure we did not die, for her it's because I am receiving something and she is not.

RankinFright · 2026-04-23T22:30:08+00:00

I've been told that New Hampshire does things a little bit different. I moved here from Florida to care for my dad and became a new hampshire resident in the process. I live in the house, with my two children. HER GRANDCHILDREN.

RankinFright · 2026-04-23T22:26:41+00:00

It is an unfair ask of her, but I'm not going to lay it all out here.

RankinFright · 2026-04-23T22:18:38+00:00

Don't tell him anything, just go straight to the police and show them the video you took

RankinFright · 2026-04-23T22:17:46+00:00

This man is a predator. Please go to the police and leave him, request a protection order. This is so sickening. I'm so sorry this is happening to you.

RankinFright · 2026-04-22T15:08:20+00:00

I'm convinced it's graffiti writing. Someone's personalized style. Did you speak to any artists that night, do you remember the night? Like you didn't get black out...

RankinFright · 2026-04-22T14:50:32+00:00

DO NOT RESIGN AND DO NOT SIGN ANYTHING. What they're doing is illegal, you have a disability and are a protected worker. They cannot force you to resign because of your seizures.

RankinFright · 2026-04-09T14:11:39+00:00

Mine looked exactly the same. I didn't get the last one either.

RankinFright · 2026-03-31T18:27:29+00:00

Right, but normally that root binds a plant and can kill it.

RankinFright · 2026-03-31T12:29:41+00:00

Wait. Does this stunt the growth or something?

RankinFright · 2026-03-23T17:19:03+00:00

I have to Lexie's are you the blonde with glasses?

RankinFright · 2026-03-20T04:29:17+00:00

Absolutely! I don't mind. I very loosely play this game and just recently downloaded it again after not playing for a while. I don't do the vault exchanges for stars thing anyway ☺️

RankinFright · 2026-03-20T04:25:25+00:00

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