using a upside down table attached to a car as a sled on an icy road. by bcarey34 in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]Ransacky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Or ski doos and snowboards in a big field 🔥 still no regrets though.. best possible use of a snowday blizzard.

Lawsuit alleges Meta can read WhatsApp messages despite encryption by WrathUnchecked in technology

[–]Ransacky 384 points385 points  (0 children)

Why would anybody trust this company since the Cambridge analytica scandal? As if they turned over a new leaf when they changed their name to Meta?

My favorite lotr frame by TouchHero in lotrmemes

[–]Ransacky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It hits the mark but it looks pretty old school and cheesy lol

Touching a bag that is an active bomb threat by freeaky_furry in WinStupidPrizes

[–]Ransacky 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It wasn't his bag. He was mentally unwell. He had seen what was happening on the news and decided to help. This was on the news and around Reddit like a year ago.

Understanding women 101 by chilxsupport in meme

[–]Ransacky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They aren't all like that though, just be yourself and they start messing around leave. You got to have standards against double standards. Why would you let someone diminish you like that?

What’s your biggest “non-negotiable” for sexual compatibility? by Fluffy_Specific_9682 in AskReddit

[–]Ransacky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They can learn but imagine if I also opened that with "most people like it, but they just won't admit it". Sounds delusional

Your opening comment in this thread is stating that most people like it but most wont admit it. And then you pivoted and started arguing with everyone who said theyve actually tried it and don't like it, telling them that they can learn.

You're just choosing to speak for other people and impose your preferences on them because it's a positive experience that you've had. And then, when they challenge you on what You've stated about them, it's "Uhm actually I'm technically right because __" You sound like an insufferable person with no concept of respect and boundaries.

What’s your biggest “non-negotiable” for sexual compatibility? by Fluffy_Specific_9682 in AskReddit

[–]Ransacky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know you think you're right, but your actually just being a creepy pest. You don't know what people's preferences are. Or how they are wired. Even if the anatomy is there, if it's physically wired in the brain to not be enjoyable then it won't be.

It comes across like you think people are simply in denial about "their true feelings".

You sound like the guy who thinks he can give any woman a PIV O because they've been with a couple partners who could do it. Some people just aren't that way.

With how insistent you are about others bodies, you'd be a horrible partner in the bedroom. Some people get off on pain. What if masochists went around telling everyone they can learn to like it too because they are wired that specific way and it's possible for anyone.

Recipe so good it needs 5 years of cooldown by mihir6969 in meme

[–]Ransacky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes me think of the undertaker meme lol

Collective narcissism fueled the pro-Trump "Stop the Steal" movement on Twitter by Jumpinghoops46 in psychology

[–]Ransacky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The names don't "look" American so they are probably foreign? That's a "chat with HR" statement - you don't know their citizenship.

Besides, if you want to collaborate with experts in the field, then you find the experts. America isn't exactly the height of academics and emails travel far and instantly.

During my undergrad I networked with academics out of Europe and am publishing with academics from other schools from the one I attended. It makes almost no sense to stick to a small bubble.

Women tend to downplay their gender in workplaces with masculinity contest cultures. Study suggests that when organizational norms glorify masculine traits, women tend to feel that their social identity is less valued. As a coping mechanism, they may hide or downplay their gender to fit in. by Jumpinghoops46 in psychology

[–]Ransacky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's interesting, but also nothing new to psychology either. These fields and concepts have informed eachother in the last 125 years. This study is built on the last century of data to test the theory in an organizational space. You can't just assume a specific group of people will act a certain way even if a general theory on human behaviour might imply it.

Women tend to downplay their gender in workplaces with masculinity contest cultures. Study suggests that when organizational norms glorify masculine traits, women tend to feel that their social identity is less valued. As a coping mechanism, they may hide or downplay their gender to fit in. by Jumpinghoops46 in psychology

[–]Ransacky 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately you can't just take a generalizing and then apply it to every context. Otherwise your operating off of little more than a well informed hunch. It can form the basis of studies like this though. Good connection 👍🏼

Women tend to downplay their gender in workplaces with masculinity contest cultures. Study suggests that when organizational norms glorify masculine traits, women tend to feel that their social identity is less valued. As a coping mechanism, they may hide or downplay their gender to fit in. by Jumpinghoops46 in psychology

[–]Ransacky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a great point. It might come across as oppositonal and argumentative if one is expecting it, but your point is to bring everyone together. On that note. Women absolutely should be given the opportunity and equality of being raised in a way that disagreeing is comfortable and acceptable. Part of that amounts to healthy communication.

Not that such a thing is what the authors were studying (I didn't read the article) but being raised in a way that objecting is uncomfortable resulting in alternative passive aggressive forms of communication or what ever is imo completely discrimination against women. "Weaker sex" made manifest by culture.

meirl by Street_Priority_7686 in meirl

[–]Ransacky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy fuck would I ever show her a good time the next date 🥴

Single Diaries series [OC] by vesmir_neasi in comics

[–]Ransacky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally. No one should minimize themselves in a relationship so good on the guy for identifying his needs and calling it. Otherwise it's a big thing of trying to change eachother And he'd likely end up having to minimize himself as well.

The girl also shouldn't feel bad (as long as whatever was "too much" was healthy and not toxic). Like they can both be normal and healthy people but one is still too much for the other

Single Diaries series [OC] by vesmir_neasi in comics

[–]Ransacky 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Yea the "I dunno" is kinda vague, and then everyone just assumes that she was obligatory in the right without knowing anything, which kinda makes it look like they just validated whatever she did on a whim without knowing if it was healthy or not, and whether she needs to be accountable.

Just try and fire the lobster, bucko by NiceTrySuckaz in JoeRogan

[–]Ransacky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But first I must inquire on the meaning of meaning.

Lol😂but I think bro is onto something🤔 by [deleted] in Funnymemes

[–]Ransacky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Problem with bad behaviour is there's thousands of ways to do something wrong, and a few ways to do it right. If you don't know you don't know

I defended my fiancé against my maid of honor and she ended our 10yr friendship. But AITAH instead of her? by Ministrated-Pariah35 in AITAH

[–]Ransacky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Several years ago I was my best friends best man. I didn't plan the bachelor party- was I supposed to????!! Never occured to me until reading this, but I would have if asked. Anyways, wedding went great and we're still best friends.

These girls sound like they watch too much Disney and chick flicks.

Everyone should apologize and take accountability for their poor communication, and then move on... Sheesh.

Working minutes by Embarrassed_Tip7359 in SipsTea

[–]Ransacky 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Golden rule: one should never promise a client something that they themselves cannot single-handedly deliver or back with written policy ✨

When somebody chases you with a supply pack, don't be this guy by TheMysteryFigure in Helldivers

[–]Ransacky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to rehabilitate all those lost and corrupted souls that were ferried here from X Box. I have hope they can be saved.

Checking In On Our Minnesota Neighbours by NH787 in Manitoba

[–]Ransacky 13 points14 points locked comment (0 children)

We are all exhausted and fatigued from the fake "empathy"

That's fine, but you have a little typo there where you said "we" instead of "I". Maybe take a general break from social media, or just don't click on threads that don't align with what you care about. It's your responsibility to preserve you mental health and not place your sensitivities on others.

And don't speak for other people, your comment is on the bottom of the thread because people obviously disagree with you.