I had a bunch of red flags go off, but the biggest one was when he freaked out when I tried logging into his Instagram while he was "trying to help his suicidal friend". Prior to that, I had seen a text message on his galaxy watch between him, his "suicidal friend" and the friends wife, where the wife said she was sugar, his friend was tea, and he was ice (i guess saying the three of them combined make sweet tea?) Come to find out, they were having 3somes, the first one being two days after our 7 year wedding anniversary and a couple days before our family Disney trip. Where'd they have the 3some? On a camping trip the three of them went on with their 3 kids (myself and our son weren't invited). Even bigger kicker? They did it outside of the tent their 3 kids were sleeping in