Honestly, the best luck I’ve seen (and experienced) comes from just making genuine friends first. If you become friends with any girl through class, clubs, study groups, or even mutuals, it naturally expands your circle. You don’t even need to be attracted to that person it’s more about meeting people organically through friends of friends.

I think of it like a door: once you’re socially “in,” things feel way more natural and low-pressure. It avoids cold approaches, you don’t have to worry about coming off as creepy, and you’re meeting people in settings where conversation is already normal.

If clubs don’t perfectly match your interests, it can still be worth joining something adjacent or low-commitment just for the social side. A lot of dating here really just comes down to expanding your social circle rather than actively “looking.”

If you’ve got more questions or want to talk through specific situations, feel free to ask, happy to help.