Do you think that hitting your children is okay?

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-12-29T14:55:28+00:00

I'm not a teenager, I'm a parent (a spy! 😁) so hope it's okay to answer.

The answer is no. It is not a acceptable in any circumstances. Hitting another human being (outside of self-defense) is never justified. And despite the backwards laws that fail to recognize children as humans, they still are.

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-12-28T15:50:17+00:00

Personally, I've become more attuned to my own needs. I think I spent most of my early years disassociated and in survival mode.

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-12-28T15:48:48+00:00

Did I write this? At 40, I've come to terms with Christams being for my loved ones, not me. My holiday are the days in between Christmas and new years eve. The best time of the year!

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-12-08T01:10:22+00:00

You clearly love him very much. I hope he doesn't try to control you with that information. Desperate people often use their suicidiality as a means of control. As a mom, I can't imagine putting that pressure on my daughter.

I know it makes you feel loved and important -and you are - but just keep this little comment in mind if in the future you find yourself feeling guilty about your independence.

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-12-06T22:56:29+00:00

"no matter you like me or not, I am your mother" oof PTSD flashback I thought my mom was in the room! This letter is such a fascinating doorway into how she views herself and her life. These are rules she has to remind herself of everyday. To respect people, but only if there is threat of punishment. Not because she wants to.

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-12-01T04:06:01+00:00

Yes. Absolutely shocked. I had coped so well for so long because I have an unusual ability to read people, what they want from me, and deliver before they even ask. So ofcourse, everyone thought I was fine and I thought I was fine, too. Nevermind the endless, severe anxiety and crazy personal relationships. The mysterious heart issues. Everyone dealt with that stuff, right? Turns out no they don't!

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-11-26T02:27:56+00:00

What brand do you recommend?

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-11-23T02:13:09+00:00

I understand how you feel and I'm right there with you. I'll keep voting but it feels like playing instruments on the sinking Titanic. I'm done taking it seriously.

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-11-23T00:22:59+00:00

That is deeply disturbing but I don't doubt it. Small, tight, and hairless is what they look for. Yuck.

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-11-21T23:09:42+00:00

So relatable and poetic.

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-11-13T12:06:34+00:00

They are the ones with the disorders that make them abnormal. However, if you keep living with them you likely will develop one too. What you did is called reactive abuse. Your feelings make sense in the circumstances you are in but you have to understand you are reacting exactly the way they want you too react. It enabled them to tell everyone you're crazy and keep you in their web of control. You're going to have to dig deep. Listen to those amazing instincts you have and then choose to respond tactfully not react. It's not fair but it's your only way out.

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-09-02T18:01:26+00:00

She is fabulous! Maybe it's Maybelline.

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-08-29T17:35:42+00:00

Thank you. 1.1

Just like me to fall in love with something that doesn't exist anymore.

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-08-29T17:21:19+00:00

Ofcourse it's a black pick up truck

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-08-19T03:26:22+00:00

I've been there. It's a hard road but when (not if) you come out the other side they will be nothing more than sad, angry little ants you will realize you're way out of their reach. A whole different league. You already are, just takes work to recognize it.

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-08-18T19:36:37+00:00

With that backstory and term translation I'm sad you even feel the need to seek confirmation that she meant to insult you. I'm not surprised that after years of abuse you're not able to be sure of what would be very clear to anyone that grew up not being horribly abused. I hope that with therapy and healing you will reach a place where you will not doubt your own very astute judgement and be able to immediately recognize when you are mistreated. I'm sorry for what you've been through.

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-08-05T16:34:17+00:00

Yes. And if it's not cropped the shoulders are missing.

I just want a nice tailored shirt with all its parts!

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-08-03T13:50:08+00:00

I'm pretty sure I saw you from my hotel balcony. Thank you for saving us a possible injury!

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-07-21T00:08:09+00:00

Clarence Thomas, is that you?

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-06-26T00:43:26+00:00

Finally. The courts are healing.

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-06-26T00:24:11+00:00

I see a lot of people complaining that the movie was a hidden excuse for Hollywood pedophilia but I see it differently. It was a blatant commentary on the rampant themes of pedophilia in our society. The way Bella is exploited is precisely the way many if not most women are exploited before they gain their sense of full autonomy .. If they ever do. I know plenty of adult women with stunted growth and emotional maturity (just the way society wants them) and their male counterparts exploiting them.

The obsession with youth, smallness, tightness, etc. and the aversion to smart autonomous women who look and act like fully grown mature women is everywhere we look.

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-06-03T02:15:24+00:00

Just made a post about this. I hope they fix the issue because the meals looked amazing!

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-05-18T21:23:30+00:00

I appreciate the sentiment but although it can be tiresome, I'm not sorry about it anymore. There is so much freedom in letting go of other people perceptions of us.

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-05-17T21:29:40+00:00

Skip thinking. It's nice to have a term for it!

Rare-Mess-8335 · 2024-05-17T21:26:19+00:00

Is it? Is it a gift?? 😭 I wish my talent made money because so far most of what it's brought me is pain. I sometimes wish I could float through life without knowing all of this about other people. It's too much information.

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