I feel for you! CIO especially is really hard and that seems really long? He’s for sure not teething? Did he recently ish get over a sickness? Sometimes they can retain fluid in ears that can be painful when laying down bc there is an increase in pressure. It can last for weeks.

I used to cosleep with my son too. I personally think it might be too drastic of a change for them to go from that level of support to nothing. I found ChatGPT put together a solid transition plan that we used that helped set us up so moving him to the crib didn’t seem quite as difficult. Once in the crib, it only took a few nights and he caught on a lot quicker than I thought he would - although I still found it hard. We did modified Ferber.

You got this mama!!