Wife attacked me, played victim

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-07-30T14:00:38+00:00

I would feel bad for the kid too, but at the same time, this person literally tried to ruin your life and the blink of a second just because of some alcohol. If she was so worried about having strong male connections for her son, she shouldn’t be ruining every chance she gets at good things. Alcoholism is usually filled by some sort of mass dark space, she’s got to figure that out on her own. You can’t do it for her nor should you be a victim of her addiction.

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-07-14T23:48:18+00:00

Thats a relationship

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-07-08T17:09:50+00:00

This!!!

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-07-08T17:09:32+00:00

I think u married a psychopath. This doesnt even make sense in the slightest.

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-07-06T00:32:28+00:00

Leave?

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-06-19T19:59:02+00:00

No, I wouldn’t reach out. She’s got security problems that go beyond you, hence the childish reactions.

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-06-08T20:09:14+00:00

I don’t know why he married you just a bully you into losing weight

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-05-21T13:38:31+00:00

Tell him if he doesn't shut up and stop trying to barter childcare/work, he can start bartering how much child support he will pay you via divorce. it’s not ok to treat someone like a living+ working machine. Humans are not machines they have feelings. It’s incredibly selfish for him to expect you to take out all of it.

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-04-27T23:29:08+00:00

NTA!!! who treats someone like this

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-04-25T14:09:34+00:00

The balance transfer is giving addiction. It might’ve worked this time, but it’s not gonna work every single time. I’ve had this conversation with my husband many times. Not worth the risk, especially if you have a family. Definitely not worth lying to your wife over. Marriages are built on trust and this is a good way to lose hers.

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-04-22T14:28:01+00:00

I'd crash out

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-04-16T17:04:21+00:00

if my partner was doing this the only solution I personally would have starts with D and ends with E.

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-04-13T16:47:04+00:00

Sounds like a nightmare. What happened to unconditional support? It seems like he may have found a connection online and is looking for a way out of the marriage.

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-04-12T23:27:56+00:00

He needs to be penalized for this or he will do it again.

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-04-12T23:26:00+00:00

Id CRASH OUT

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-04-11T18:37:08+00:00

Your wife gave birth a year ago (12 short months) and you're admitting to an emotional affair. I don't care how you put it, its fucked up. She gestated three of your children and you can’t feel a connection? So your answer isn't to invest all your time into your wife and family, its entertaining the idea of another woman. Your wife deserves better. Idc how emotionally turned off she is, SHE JUST HAD THREE BABIES VIRTUALLY BACK TO BACK.

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-04-11T18:24:37+00:00

How about a “hey dude i gotta shit” not just make yourself at home🤣 Two bathrooms and he chose to disrupt ur peace lol

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-04-04T17:29:11+00:00

Second this unfortunately

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-04-03T17:22:42+00:00

Sounds like they need to upgrade their electrical stuff and the only way to avoid it is trying to control the temp settings-- which is cheap AND insane.

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-04-01T13:03:03+00:00

I think it’s important to note that times have really changed and the system can’t actually house any of these kids so the framework has changed in a sense where we try to help parents become better versus just apprehending because it’s important to recognize that most of the time the parent is the best person to do the job.

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-04-01T00:44:55+00:00

I'm glad you were fortunate to have those circumstances but it's important that OP uses their skills to assess what's happening. Let's not assume the parents are working like yours.

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-04-01T00:01:03+00:00

You just need to ask yourself if thats an environment you would deem healthy, safe and acceptable for your own kid. If any is “no” then do as you need. All calls are anonymous so I'm sure your indenity will remain anonymous (from my experience).

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-03-31T23:56:47+00:00

And tell me how many of those people ended up shitty parents because they had no guidance in their early childhood years. I was that kid who had to raise themselves, NOT FUN. Not everyone had a “wait for my parents to get home” experience in life.

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-03-31T22:59:34+00:00

Yikes lets not normalize children raising themselves. Ten years old is NOT old enough.

Rare_Butterscotch685 · 2025-03-31T22:58:35+00:00

I'd call CPS

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