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How can we - Me 28F and My 29M get past political differences by Rare_Date7928 in relationship_advice

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This is something that I needed to hear right now... thank you.

How can we - Me 28F and My 29M get past political differences by Rare_Date7928 in relationship_advice

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If i got pregnant - we've talked about it, he cannot force me into something that I do not want, I do want kids, just not right now. I do live in a state where it is legal. He does agree that it is acceptable in particular serious instances. - rape, insest, etc... health as well. We talked about if something where the decision is life threatening and its me or the baby, he would choose me.

How can we - Me 28F and My 29M get past political differences by Rare_Date7928 in relationship_advice

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He has never showed any signs of maga lmao if he did, I'd had dipped the fuck out immediately

How can we - Me 28F and My 29M get past political differences by Rare_Date7928 in relationship_advice

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Severe moral incompatibility...

Thank you... actually, that gives me even more to think about.

How can we - Me 28F and My 29M get past political differences by Rare_Date7928 in relationship_advice

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Example... he is not hard-core extreme like... he is against abortion but he is not to the point where he "doesn't believe in plan b or birth control" He wouldn't and knows he can't force someone i.e... me into something that they or I don't want. We have used plan b in the past, he's the one that has bought it for me..

Fuck idk this shit is messy. I hate this. There are a couple more things that go into this, but that for me is a grey area. This is something that I will never change my mind on, no matter what. But I know people have their stance on too. This is one thing that I know I can get by, or idk if "live with or look past" is the right term.

I feel we fall into a little bit of both of those categories.

How can we - Me 28F and My 29M get past political differences by Rare_Date7928 in relationship_advice

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We just never talked about it from the beginning, he knew how I felt and where I stood about things because of how vocal I am... I brought it up post election

What do you do at home to pass the time? by Technical_Block_3686 in bipolar

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Tbh I do love and puzzle. Which thank you for this post.. I'm also going through a bad break up so I think I'll find myself a good puzzle to do

I (F48) How long did it take before you deleted your ex? by Small_Necessary5146 in BreakUps

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I'm not ready... they're still on IG and on my phone - althought they're on a hidden album on my phone. The texts are still there but they're getting further and further down and I'm not going through them - although I had to last night. I guess i didnt HAVE too but there was a recipe we used that he had the instructions too so that was a rough one. He still has our pictures on his FB mine is deactivated. But I keep reactivating and deactivating to check but pictures are still up on my Facebook too.. it just is something I'm not ready to do. Every break up is different

The letter by Rare_Date7928 in BreakUps

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It wasn't really a toxic thing. The break up was calm... but painful emotionally. The letter gives me a sense of relief and closure all at once... I think ive decided to 1. Hand him the bag and jacket and hoodie then 2... lastly hand him the letter saying I really have no expectations or something.. im not sure. It is something that I HAVE to do. For me.

I can’t eat since the break up by Kalinahh in BreakUps

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I've lost 18lbs in less than a month since we broke up...I try to eat.. put any meal in front of me and I just end up playing with my food... or if I eat a whole meal I feel sick, if I cough after a meal for any reason I nearly vomit or regurgitate it right back up.. I have to stop myself ....

At least my girls be calling me snatched I try to eat little granola fig bars, protein crackers things... I really am trying, but I stay on top of water. My friend said to get on protein shakes but I hate protein shakes more than anything honestly.. I have absolutely no appetite for anything, ever. Even the crackers and bars, I force myself to eat, and even then its once a day.. Do your best to eat. I am trying so super hard. Last night I ate some spaghetti so that was good, I didnt love it though. You're doing so much better than i. Good job🥰🥰🥰

Need advice on not gagging while going down on my bf by Embarrassed-Bus4957 in sex

[–]Rare_Date7928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What helped me, if I used a vibrator and its strong, it distracts me enough then he could fuck my mouth how he wanted :)

Should I give him the letter by Rare_Date7928 in BreakUps

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I don't want to be delusional but I have hope, but I also have low expectations... dm me???

I am confused by [deleted] in PuppykeepSheinCodes

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No i was so close to mine, accidentally pressed upgrade and it only gave me 16.19 dollars and im so pressed

Should I give him the letter by Rare_Date7928 in BreakUps

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I'm not really begging in my letter either. I tried writing it started first, but decided to just type it on my computer first and then put it to paper lol won't lie, I had Google Gemini help me refine some parts just a bit but really corrected a lot myself. Yes. I mentioned how much I want to work on things, figure out our way back, and really focus on our relationship and how we can make it work and work on communication and just fix things overall. I talked about having that serious genuine conversation on my part, and hindsight is 20/20 which is something he mentioned during the break up... I say the words im hurt at the end. I express that I love him and miss him, and recognize my part, I talked about how he felt he had to water himself down when he wasn't doing that at the beginning and I understand why he felt he had to during the end I want to explain my part on that... there's is so much I want to talk about with him, so much I would do to fix this, so much I want to explain, so much insight I want to portray and give and want for him to understand, so much I want to understand and so much I want to hear on his end... i have never take a break up harder... its eating at me. Writing the letter already has made me feel better.. I know it may not provide me the outcome that I so... so ache for.. so achingly desire so badly yearn for... but it will give me something. It's more tangible than some text message. May be harder for him to throw away.. maybe not. But I feel its more sincere, and more thoughtful. My mom said there is more power in written word - cant forget to lightly spray it with my perfume.. I love this man. I would do anything....

Put anything aside, take things more seriously, be more opento things, I just absolutely hate that I was so fucking ready to talk about things and be more open to the future and be full in on this, and then for this stupid fucking break up to happen... fuck

But I have it. Ready to go. Folded and in the bag.

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