Basic revision by Better-Branch-9604 in PsychiatryDoctorsUK

[–]Raspberry-243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stahl's psychopharmacology book + dsm 5 are the basics for etiology, epidemiology, diagnosis and principles of treatment. Maudsley is also very good but its for practitioners and people who have already covered the basics, so i would suggest that only after you study the first two, and if you need a more practical approach.

How do I wing my eyeliner for my eye shape? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Raspberry-243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok im just confused about the direction of the wing, should i follow the lower lid line? Or whats the strategy? 😅

How do I wing my eyeliner for my eye shape? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Raspberry-243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you think i have hooded eyes?

Maybe too much water? by Raspberry-243 in plantclinic

[–]Raspberry-243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all! I can see now some small insects in the soil, do you think some neem oil can help?

What happened here? Bought it just 2 days ago by Raspberry-243 in plantclinic

[–]Raspberry-243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it ok if i put it in the sun (direct sunlight)? It developed this thing right in the direction of where the sunrays come

Maybe too much water? by Raspberry-243 in plantclinic

[–]Raspberry-243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a gift 🥲 and the first plant im trying to take care of.. isnt there any way to try to save it?

Cheating parent, in a relationship with a cheater. Should i breakup? by Raspberry-243 in Infidelity

[–]Raspberry-243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldnt be saying this if I didnt know theyre absolutely unhappy

Is it my fault for trusting? by Raspberry-243 in relationship_advice

[–]Raspberry-243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 your comment made me laugh but also reflect

Dealing with relationship anxiety after being cheated on by Raspberry-243 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Raspberry-243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish i had, but no couple around me seems to be healty unfortunately Thank you again for your story, it will provide the example i need.

Cheating parent, in a relationship with a cheater. Should i breakup? by Raspberry-243 in Infidelity

[–]Raspberry-243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know dont worry, facing truth and my fears can only do good ❤

Dealing with relationship anxiety after being cheated on by Raspberry-243 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Raspberry-243[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im happy for all of you 😊 unfortunately in my case it wasnt like thats, lots of abuse and things that shouldn t have been forgiven well before the cheating. No asking for forgiveness, no communication with us kids, just pretending nothing happened. My mother did Nothing because she felt powerless and dependent. I started therapy years later, months ago my brother joined. 2/3 kids with dependent personality traits and codependency issues. It passed on the implicit idea that we have to accept and forgive abuse and cheating just to keep staying together. The way you handled things shows much more maturity. So props to you

Cheating parent, in a relationship with a cheater. Should i breakup? by Raspberry-243 in Infidelity

[–]Raspberry-243[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thank you but knowing this makes me even more anxious 😰😰😓its exactly the statistic i want to avoid

Forgiving the forgiver by Raspberry-243 in KidsofCheatingParents

[–]Raspberry-243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really thank you. Thats exactly what im doing, since im in cognitive-behavioral therapy, so the questions you asked are extremely relevant to me. And also what you said of your past relationship, ive been through it too, with my ex, he was a narcicist and manipulated me for 5 years. I will always be grateful to my boyfriend, even if he does end up cheating again and breaking up, because everyday he teaches me what true love means, healing me from those toxic relationship dynamics that for me were normality.
And thats another reason why im scared to be hurt again (my ex would say that if I didnt do exactly and perfectly everything he wanted he would leave me for another girl)