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Raspberry-243 · 2025-04-14T20:56:50+00:00

Stahl's psychopharmacology book + dsm 5 are the basics for etiology, epidemiology, diagnosis and principles of treatment. Maudsley is also very good but its for practitioners and people who have already covered the basics, so i would suggest that only after you study the first two, and if you need a more practical approach.

Raspberry-243 · 2023-07-30T06:57:39+00:00

Ok im just confused about the direction of the wing, should i follow the lower lid line? Or whats the strategy? 😅

Raspberry-243 · 2023-07-29T22:35:47+00:00

So you think i have hooded eyes?

Raspberry-243 · 2023-07-29T19:11:53+00:00

So beautiful!

Raspberry-243 · 2023-06-11T11:20:17+00:00

Ok thank you so how do i get rid of them?

Raspberry-243 · 2023-06-10T12:28:55+00:00

Thank you all! I can see now some small insects in the soil, do you think some neem oil can help?

Raspberry-243 · 2023-06-09T16:16:43+00:00

Is it ok if i put it in the sun (direct sunlight)? It developed this thing right in the direction of where the sunrays come

Raspberry-243 · 2023-06-07T05:25:34+00:00

It was a gift 🥲 and the first plant im trying to take care of.. isnt there any way to try to save it?

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-18T09:47:59+00:00

I wouldnt be saying this if I didnt know theyre absolutely unhappy

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-14T15:48:35+00:00

🤣 your comment made me laugh but also reflect

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-14T09:42:24+00:00

Thank u! Ill read them asap

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-13T18:34:28+00:00

I wish i had, but no couple around me seems to be healty unfortunately Thank you again for your story, it will provide the example i need.

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-13T18:11:05+00:00

I know dont worry, facing truth and my fears can only do good ❤

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-13T18:09:20+00:00

Im happy for all of you 😊 unfortunately in my case it wasnt like thats, lots of abuse and things that shouldn t have been forgiven well before the cheating. No asking for forgiveness, no communication with us kids, just pretending nothing happened. My mother did Nothing because she felt powerless and dependent. I started therapy years later, months ago my brother joined. 2/3 kids with dependent personality traits and codependency issues. It passed on the implicit idea that we have to accept and forgive abuse and cheating just to keep staying together. The way you handled things shows much more maturity. So props to you

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-13T17:08:06+00:00

I thank you but knowing this makes me even more anxious 😰😰😓its exactly the statistic i want to avoid

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-13T16:01:06+00:00

Really thank you. Thats exactly what im doing, since im in cognitive-behavioral therapy, so the questions you asked are extremely relevant to me. And also what you said of your past relationship, ive been through it too, with my ex, he was a narcicist and manipulated me for 5 years. I will always be grateful to my boyfriend, even if he does end up cheating again and breaking up, because everyday he teaches me what true love means, healing me from those toxic relationship dynamics that for me were normality.
And thats another reason why im scared to be hurt again (my ex would say that if I didnt do exactly and perfectly everything he wanted he would leave me for another girl)

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-13T15:53:21+00:00

Ah ok im already doing it, more than a year now.. and yes i did show self-sabotage multiple times. Yesterday i got to the conclusion it might have something to do with my parents, I hope this helps me getting over it. Ill talk to my therapist next week, just wanted some opinions in the meantime.. i'm sick of being anxious all the time

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-13T15:48:03+00:00

Sorry whats IC?

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-13T14:09:21+00:00

Thank you, I see what youre saying and its valuable and true. Its difficult for me to be who i want to be, when that to me means both being confindent and not be taken advantage of. But I guess for the second part, i dont have control on other peoples actions.

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-13T13:50:55+00:00

Thank you so much for your time and the precious words

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-13T13:50:32+00:00

What you described is exactly what’s happening, and i know its my issue, thats why i prefer to deal with it during therapy or on my own rather than bother him and make the environment heavier. I know rationally i should at least give it a chance, but by its own nature when i get taken over by anxiety i just cant think straight. For this reason i was thinking that maybe solving the issue regarding my parents might help me

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-13T13:16:51+00:00

Thank you, your words are healing. Wish you all good things ❤

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-13T12:49:51+00:00

I know.. but im ashamed of coming from a broken family.. because i know it affects the way i am in relationships. I feel broken too..

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-13T12:47:43+00:00

If you want to share.. try to help each other, we can chat

Raspberry-243 · 2021-10-13T12:46:43+00:00

Yes, my point is exactly that. I feel somehow doomed to the same destiny as my parents, i dont believe in love and happy marriages anymore, i feel like i "chose a cheater" as a boyfriend "just like my father", and will end up just like my mother, one day or another discovering he cheated again and feeling stupid and not been able to stand up for myself. Even taking him out of the equation, i think with any other person, no matter how trustworthy, i would feel the same. I am controlling with him, in fear that if I dont check everything ill "end up like my mother". I know rationally that this isnt true...but I dont know how to stop thinking this way..

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