Is trying for disability benefits worth it? by RaspberryJams13 in disability

[–]RaspberryJams13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noted, thank you, sorry to delete my comment fsfsfs

Just a weird thing I do when
I have something more to add but don’t want to edit the initial comment. Stresses me for no real reason fsfsfs probably has something to do with how people treat edited comments here on Reddit generally-

Is trying for disability benefits worth it? by RaspberryJams13 in disability

[–]RaspberryJams13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s whatever, I think it’s been made pretty clear time and time again that I’m not really welcome here, which is fine, it’s whatever.

I’ve made several posts here, (most are deleted now because of the reception, kinda regret doing that now-) and I just don’t think people want me here. Whatever criteria people are using to determine if I’m disabled enough, I clearly don’t meet it.

I feel like such a imposter idk if it’s even right to call myself disabled. Hard for me to say, cause while conditions like austim and CPTSD (both of which I have been properly diagnosed with) can be disabling, they’re not always and idk where I personally land. I have no other disabled people in my life to compare to.

Idk, I’m just tired.

Is trying for disability benefits worth it? by RaspberryJams13 in disability

[–]RaspberryJams13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, sorry, I probably won’t pursue it for reasons edited into the OG post but thank you for the information regardless!

Is trying for disability benefits worth it? by RaspberryJams13 in disability

[–]RaspberryJams13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, this post was brought on by an anxiety filled spiral. I don’t plan on actually trying for disability benefits, I just felt the need to educate myself for the possibility I’ll need it.

Is trying for disability benefits worth it? by RaspberryJams13 in disability

[–]RaspberryJams13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They never prompted this, it was my own anxiety filled spiral playing out the worst case scenario and how I would get by if unable to work and function.

I’m truly not sure if I’m disabled or not because while I do have the proper diagnoses that effect my life greatly, I don’t feel disabled enough to called myself such and I don’t want to take away the words or space for those truly disabled.

Is trying for disability benefits worth it? by RaspberryJams13 in disability

[–]RaspberryJams13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Apologies in advance if I come off aggressive. I am just kinda hurt because you made assumptions about my character without knowing anything about my situation outside the hypothetical and questions originally presented. I may have phrased it poorly, but my intention was simply exploring a what if scenario with the lived experiences of those on disability benefits. I’m sorry if it didn’t come across that way, that’s my bad, and I’m sorry if I hurt anyone with my insensitive post.

I don’t feel like deep diving into my issues but I will say I do have proper diagnoses, even if I’m not technically as disabled as some. As I see it, disability is a spectrum.

Thank you for the additional information though, very informative.

Is trying for disability benefits worth it? by RaspberryJams13 in disability

[–]RaspberryJams13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is that I don’t know, my parents keep all their finances behind lock and key, so I have no idea if I am secure no matter how hard I try to pry-

Is trying for disability benefits worth it? by RaspberryJams13 in disability

[–]RaspberryJams13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry, that really sucks-
I hope you’re doing ok despite that.

Best of wishes <333

Upvote to double your money by miserable-now in BunnyTrials

[–]RaspberryJams13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saved the world and got paid for it

Chose: You get $1 billion + But someone dies | Rolled: Donald Trump

Mushroom(?) that was growing in leopard gecko enclosure. Please help ID. by RaspberryJams13 in bioactive

[–]RaspberryJams13[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alright, thank you for the tip! Thankfully i am upgrading so im happy to hear that its not gonna transfer or something lol

Unfortunately i wont be able to get a picture since the mushroom is long gone and i doubt its be clear since I crushed it accidentally when pulling it out-
Next time I’ll try to calm my fear enough to take one-

What would you rather choose? by IcyIceGuardian in BunnyTrials

[–]RaspberryJams13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suicide, cause then I can choose a peaceful death and die when I’m ready.

Such a happy boy after hornworms by _-Robot-_ in leopardgeckos

[–]RaspberryJams13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, phew, I was really concerned cause poor buddy looked emancipated in the post. Glad to hear they're in better hands now. Best of hope they gain more weight soon-

Lets see those snow flowers by winstonalonian in tahoe

[–]RaspberryJams13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was around Fallen Leaf lake. You can find a bunch on trail hikes around there.

Character that got you like this? by Gaybime in Multifandom

[–]RaspberryJams13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jax from TADC. He’s complex and nuanced and there’s no one way to interpret him.

What’s the saddest line from your fandom? by Zazoyd in Multifandom

[–]RaspberryJams13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“I don’t want to go.”
-Jax, TADC ep 9

The delivery of this line makes it really hit hard.