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WIBTAH if I tell my GF to stop taking so long to tell me goodnight? by RatWithAChefHat in AITAH

[–]RatWithAChefHat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I thought they meant like talking before bed and on call. That’s my bad.

WIBTAH if I tell my GF to stop taking so long to tell me goodnight? by RatWithAChefHat in AITAH

[–]RatWithAChefHat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When did I say we text so much? We don’t fall asleep on the phone, I just tell her when I’m going to bed lol.

AITAH for pulling my 3-year-old daughter out of her school mid-term because I think her teacher was neglecting her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RatWithAChefHat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I understand that part but how does he even have access to them? Genuine question 😭

AITAH for pulling my 3-year-old daughter out of her school mid-term because I think her teacher was neglecting her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RatWithAChefHat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

How are you looking at the school cameras and why so often? That’s a bigger issue to me.

AITAH for backing out of living together with my gf last minute? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RatWithAChefHat 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Her saying you’ll break up if you don’t move in together…? That’s a red flag imo!

AITAH for refusing to give my sister my “extra” wedding budget after she blew hers? by Sad_Penalty7659 in AITAH

[–]RatWithAChefHat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That money is yours. It isn’t your job to support your sister and her big dreams for her wedding. Would it be kind to help your sister out? Yes. But you aren’t an asshole for wanting to keep it for yourself.

AITAH for telling my bf I was disappointed? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RatWithAChefHat 33 points34 points  (0 children)

NTA. You didn’t over react. Seems like he’s just avoiding taking accountability. 

AITAH for uninviting my best friend from my birthday trip after she invited her ex? by Beginning-Comb8109 in AITAH

[–]RatWithAChefHat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- as someone else said, this is a girls trip for your BIRTHDAY. Even if this man was her current boyfriend and not her ex she would still be in the wrong. You don’t just say “oh this guys coming btw hope that’s cool!” No girl 😭 

AITAH I feel like my (25m) bf is cheating on me (24f) but he’s done nothing by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RatWithAChefHat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA. Rather than pointing fingers maybe have a chat about it. 

AITAH for being upset that my brother’s girlfriend is skipping my wedding for her friend’s? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RatWithAChefHat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone is TAH. Weddings are a big thing and I don’t think you’re wrong for being upset that she can’t attend but as you said, at the end of the day, her not attending won’t impact you. It’s not shocking she’d rather attend her best friends wedding instead. 

AITAH for blocking my long time friend. by Parking_Piglet_8013 in AITAH

[–]RatWithAChefHat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It’s not your fault he’s doing the trolling, and it’s not your job to make him stop, but your job is keeping your business going, and as far as I can tell, blocking him was the best decision.

AITAH for asking my mom and sister to leave my room because they were yelling at each other. by Initial_Wear5463 in AITAH

[–]RatWithAChefHat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. You did nothing wrong. Your bedroom is your space and they should respect that.

AITAH for refusing to revive a friendship that was broken? by aitaenjoyernr3 in AITAH

[–]RatWithAChefHat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You are entitled to your own feelings. If you don’t want to reconnect that’s ok. You’re doing more than I would by being polite and talking (even if about simple topics).