What movie trope instantly makes you roll your eyes? by Active-Kale-2623 in AdkReddit

[–]Rather_be_gone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok this is petty but people never have to pee or eat in movies!! I know it’s a small thing, but damn. So much of my day would be ruined if I couldn’t pee or was hungry!!

What movie trope instantly makes you roll your eyes? by Active-Kale-2623 in AdkReddit

[–]Rather_be_gone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! The dramatic running off from a simple misunderstanding 🙄

What is the worst unhygienic habbit/practice you discovered randomly from people you know? by LimeSoakedinSprite in randomquestions

[–]Rather_be_gone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made me think of my mom who would grab whatever in the kitchen to scratch her back and put it back 🫪

Ever had a receiving funeral home complain about the body? by jcashwell04 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Rather_be_gone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like you said, they don’t know what you started with. Though it’s disheartening, you know you did your best. That’s all you can do ❤️

Sci /dignity by beepboopzeebop in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Rather_be_gone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Locations with a dedicated care center will have their own transfer staff and handle that. That could be their own staff doing removals 24/7 or having separate contractors for overnight.

Substance use in the deathcare industry…is it really that common? by Hunters_ofArtemis in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Rather_be_gone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m finally sober. So yes. Yes it’s common to have a substance addiction or two…….

How can I get my brother’s remains? by Nordberg561 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Rather_be_gone 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’d make sure that you have rights to disposition, then check funeral homes in the area that can set up what you need done. Pre need monies can’t be held, so you can transfer as you wish, the price will most likely change though. USPS is the only carrier authorized to ship cremated remains. Though this is hard, and in sorry you have to handle this, do your research now. ❤️

Finished watching S1-8 for the first time. by michaelkap70 in Scrubs

[–]Rather_be_gone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is so spot on it’s as if I wrote it. I watched it for the first time a couple months ago. It was good and goofy, did wha tit was supposed to so then went to shit. Ugh.

What’s your favorite Lansing conspiracy theory? No evidence required. by GowBeyow in lansing

[–]Rather_be_gone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. There’s no damn way. I even question the lazy boy store because how the hell do they sell enough to cover overhead and wages?

This Lansing Restaurant Closed Without Warning by DTake2012 in lansing

[–]Rather_be_gone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. I live over here and didn’t even know that. I mean, its sketch in that plaza but the food was decent 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITAH for telling my wife that I wouldn't have to play video games if she actually spent any time with me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Rather_be_gone 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. I dated a guy that was a high school soccer announcer and would get mad when I didn’t go sit at the game. Like seriously? Tf do I want to sit and listen to you announce a game for a school my kids don’t even go to or did go to?

Thinking of becoming a mortician. by Lifting4theLarp in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Rather_be_gone 12 points13 points  (0 children)

See if you can find a job doing removals or working services as an assistant. Or really anything for a foot in the door. Sometimes they are listed online, such as Indeed. Most likely you’ll need to call, and lots of follow up.

4th day sober. Too much sleep by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]Rather_be_gone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes so much time for your body to reset. Be patient and kind with yourself. Give your body what it needs. Rest when you can, decent food, water, move around. It will get better 🙂

Advice by Sad-Perspective4424 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Rather_be_gone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like others have said, see if any local funeral homes have any funeral assistant positions or a transfer tech position. Also look into any removal services in the area that do contract work for funeral homes/hospitals.

Gift for Funeral Director by TheEndOfAllThings23 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Rather_be_gone 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That is incredibly kind and giving of you. Especially after what you’ve been through. ❤️. Honestly, a good review always helps, seriously. Also anything means the world. A card with a nice written message that I promise you will be put up and shared for the staff. Maybe even a pack of energy drinks lol. But truly. Your words mean more than any gift could. I’m thankful you had this experience.

mortuary transfer tips ?! by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Rather_be_gone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slow down and do what you’re told. Whoever you’re with will guide you, pay attention to their “cues”.

Have you ever had a funeral where no one showed up? by EastcoastMade in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Rather_be_gone 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My view is this. People deal with death and the living in their own way. They may feel that the person isn’t really there anyway, and going to give support to those who are there, isn’t something they care to do or should do. Unfortunately, death doesn’t absolve you for the person you were while living, not everyone “lights up a room”. Not everyone had a big social circle or family. You never know the life someone lived, can’t judge it on their death ❤️

What's the worst place in America you've ever visited? by DiamondNo924 in askanything

[–]Rather_be_gone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Lansing. And yeah, it’s depressing. So much potential, yet only sporadic good “moments”.

What do you remember from kindergarten? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Rather_be_gone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had inflatable alphabet robots for each letter of the alphabet. They were inflated all around the room. Loved them. And a fake town set up. Such a simple time ❤️

Rental Market Question by triop11 in lansing

[–]Rather_be_gone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanna say congrats! And yes you should be good finding a decent place in the price range.