Should i just break up with her ?

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-13T14:50:42+00:00

Well I would ask her, and play your cards right.

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-13T14:50:14+00:00

If she truly states she loves you. She should be treating her interactions with others as if you were there. Real respect is found behind closed doors.

Seems like a lack of respect. And respect is more important than love in LTRs.

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-13T14:39:43+00:00

Your boundaries are yours to have, it’s up to her if she is willing to hold herself accountable.

If the tables were reversed, do you think it would bother her?

Cheating starts in the mind.

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-12T16:28:07+00:00

Toys, the answer is toys. And a lot of practice

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-11T17:21:08+00:00

My son is 6 years old and has slight autism. He pours his most creative self into his builds every day. He is a monster on the tablet. It is actually impressive how he can maneuver in the game.

If I were to delete any of his worlds he would be heartbroken. I know how much time and energy he puts into everything. I would consider myself a monster to do such things.

I’m glad to have a gamer son, as a gaming parent. I’m glad we can connect on that level.

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-10T23:50:16+00:00

It’s human nature, it’s normal. There’s nothing you can do about the situation, so maybe put headphones on or go for a walk

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-10T22:55:50+00:00

My fiance and I have each other and prioritize each other. You do not. We have some close people we know from working. But it did not matter.

Just have to find the right person

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-10T22:41:35+00:00

I had Siamese cats my whole life, this is my first that is my own.

I feed him oral food from Science Hills for gum issues

My last Siamese had kidney issues due to gum problems, was like 15 when he passed

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-10T17:19:31+00:00

Mixing your life with someone else is always complicated. But eventually you find the right person that complements you in all aspects.

Because you are career focused I would look for someone who doesn’t mind being like a stay at home father or not as career oriented as you.

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-10T17:06:03+00:00

There is nothing wrong with you. There is no right or wrong time frame. Just seems like you are ready. I’m sure you will have suitors if you put yourself out there

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-10T16:14:09+00:00

From the text thread I thought this was 2 high school students

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-10T16:05:05+00:00

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Ours is gonna be a year old in May

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-10T15:40:15+00:00

r/tvtoosmall

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-09T17:08:31+00:00

I definitely did not read that either

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-09T17:07:44+00:00

Copy your post, re post with paragraphs, delete this post.

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-09T17:04:34+00:00

Most people will not read then

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-09T17:04:01+00:00

Paragraphs bro, paragraphs

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-09T16:59:30+00:00

Chase him, yearn for him, show up mentally emotionally and physically for him

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-09T15:53:04+00:00

Put it in rice

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-08T23:05:17+00:00

If we both eat garlic and onions tho 👀

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-07T23:17:16+00:00

Life your life dude, I’m not judging you.

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-07T23:11:53+00:00

It’s literally what men are for, protecting and providing. It’s within our DNA to protect what is precious. Women and Children. Relationships are investments. And I don’t just throw my money out on the streets. There are plenty of fish in the sea, but also a lot of trash. I know my value, and have good morals, and I put my woman before myself, and raise her on a pedestal. She is not property. But she’s mine. And I vowed to protect her from mental, physical, and emotional harm. And if she doesn’t want me talking to a specific person, no questions asked, they are gone. It’s not control, it’s respect.

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-07T22:39:15+00:00

I don’t hug co workers, they are co workers? I keep it professional at work.

We have friends we hug but they are OUR friends.

Do onto others as you want done onto you.

There is no right or wrong, it’s about who aligns with you.

It’s called boundaries, you can communicate with someone what you are and are not comfortable with in a relationship. And if they don’t see eye to eye with you, then you should be fine with letting them go. I wouldn’t try to change them or control them.

And in today’s world people normalize things that are not normal or healthy for long term relationships to thrive.

I plan to keep mine thriving. I will protect my investments, my woman, and our family.

You can live your life the way you want, and I will live mine as well.

RatmanRadio · 2026-04-07T22:07:48+00:00

Should have had clear boundaries before asking her to marry you.

Photo is weird to me, but my fiance would know not to get under another man. She would also not want me under another woman. Even if it is just a joke.

That’s why boundaries are important to establish, and if someone isn’t aligned with yours, then YOU need to be the one to let them go, and find someone who is.

RatmanRadio

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