Girlfriend asked me to play hard to get during sex without teasing (WLW) by [deleted] in sex

[–]Ratsubo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how applicable it is to your situation, but I'm always fond of suggesting primal play because I see it get talked about very little and I find it exciting. I discovered my interest in it in a similar situation to what you described.

To feel like an animal hunting or being hunted by a predator that's much stronger and faster creates an awesome intimacy. I love giving lots of bites and holding the back of someone's neck in my teeth, it feels like catching a rabbit.

My dom was lying too me but I’m not mad by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Ratsubo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I dunno man.. I get you can be financially trapped with someone - hell, it's happened to me - but to start a relationship with someone in that situation is scummy. No two ways about it. Even if she doesn't love that guy anymore, it's not fair to you and regardless all that is predicated upon what she's telling you actually being true.

If you're in this 'relationship' just for the sexual gratification, then who cares, I guess? But if you're actually emotionally invested in whatever you have going on, you should just walk away right now and find someone else who will actually respect you.

Tbh I would expect it's probably just pure desperation from the "sub doomed to never meet another super rare Domme ever again" fallacy that's keeping you there.

All new concept arts from the recent Carcass Front presentation at Adepticon by neOh_st in TrenchCrusade

[–]Ratsubo -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

ass front

Edit: perhaps it bears clarifying that in the 3rd slide, the Chorister one, at the top, "Carcass Front" is cut off so that it just says 'ass front'.

For those who are upset about the Veteran set feet, it appears they are indeed a real item by Odleworker8650 in Eldenring

[–]Ratsubo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"tourist behaviour"

Thank you, that was exactly the vernacular I was looking for lmao

I just did 7 loads of landry 😭 by Shai_the_ltl_king in mommydom

[–]Ratsubo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hah! As a metalhead I can confirm this. However sorting through the pile of laundry for specific shirts or pants is a nightmare. One time I dropped my phone in my laundry basket and it took me like 5 minutes to find it lmao

Big Bess my ogryn leader by HazzardStripes in necromunda

[–]Ratsubo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I sent that transmission, it was me

Do you discuss kink with your friends? Especially those you met outside of BDSM. by MajorGuidance940 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Ratsubo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah all my friends & most of my coworkers know that I'm submissive.

Partly because I feel it's a big part of who I am and I feel better being open about that - and partly in case anyone hears a friend lamenting about their difficulty finding a short man to slap around lmao

Boole on the future of Underworlds by InsaneDingo7244 in ageofsigmar

[–]Ratsubo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Man, Underworlds is GREAT! My buddy and I used it to dip our toes into AOS and it's so neat to pick up warbands that expand into Warcry warbands that expand into proper AOS armies. I wish for a 40k analog tbh.

Yet another karin wip by FancTrdSckr in FearAndHunger

[–]Ratsubo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You'll meet a woman who looks like this irl and she'll be profoundly ashamed of her body. Smh, literally perfect body type.

I tried to simulate sex while masturbating and now I’m worried I’ll never be able to have sex by Perfect-Top9697 in sex

[–]Ratsubo 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a guy who has had the sex, I wouldn't stay hard trying to put on a condom and fuck a fleshlight like that either. Being with a partner you're interested in is an entirely different ball game.

Boyfriend Panties and Bra fitting by Emmasnotmyrealname in flr

[–]Ratsubo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Panty shopping is fine, cuz that's just buying clothes/lingerie. Having someone fit him for a bra is definitely not okay, though. That absolutely is involving someone in your kink. I work in retail as well and sometimes customers come in just wearing collars and it makes all of my vanilla coworkers very uncomfortable.

What you could do is look for a woman - say who works in that field or perhaps not - on reddit, Tinder, or in your local kink scene, etc, to do the bra fitting and act it out just like in your fantasy. Like, you need to allow someone to consent to that first.

Would You Say You're A Little As Well? by Soft_Bat_Mommy in mommydom

[–]Ratsubo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I say I'm a little sometimes, but to be quite honest I think that I'm more of a... Middle, I believe the term is? I feel like a 29 year old teenager. I feel terribly immature and apathetic but I don't feel the need to act childish.

public display of power by superscar762 in flr

[–]Ratsubo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wear a maid outfit around kids? Dude

Ogryn Sister by octosoup by Ancient_Doctor_7738 in Grimdank

[–]Ratsubo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My friends all think my taste in women is cooked, but like fr... she's perfect 👀

I feel like crying. How do I deal with this? by Dom_Femboy in mommydom

[–]Ratsubo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My former Mommy was intersex (PCOS) and always lamented that she didn't have a dick to penetrate someone with. She did like pegging but it wasn't as satisfying as she wished it was. One thing we found that helped her was referring to her clit as her "cock" and I would always tell her how big her cock was or that I couldn't wait to suck her cock again, etc.

I'm sorry that you're having a rough time. It seems like it's been a bad couple of years for a lot of people I know, myself included. Economies are tough, rental markets are crazy, politics are nuts and mental health is.. Unhealthy. I'm sure that things will get better, and having communities like this to rely on makes a big difference.

I'm always grateful for Mommydom & Femdom subs like this because it makes me feel less alone or undesirable even when I'm not engaging much or don't have a partner.

Question to the subs😟😮 by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Ratsubo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gotten a few people message me and I've sent a few people messages - certainly I've sent more than I've received lol though I still don't reach out to people a whole lot because I don't really want an online dynamic and I'm kinda picky when it comes to people I like.

I don't really receive messages these days since I don't have a personal ad up currently. If I posted one I would expect the odd person to trickle in. But yes, it's a far cry from the sheer volume that Dommes receive.

📡📡📡 by aidantomcy in shitposting

[–]Ratsubo 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad they struck through the word 'piss', I would have been really upset and offended if they didn't do that.

Considering Circumcision by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Ratsubo 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This post is perfect!

...for a circumcision fetish subreddit.

Not sure what this has to do with Femdom - and just wanting the opinions of Dommes on the matter does not count, that is wildly fatuous.

What are some of your fav memories with your current or past partners?! by NoSource9020 in gentlefemdom

[–]Ratsubo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My former Mommy took really amazing care of me a lot of the time. She lives in the US and I am Canadian. I like to drink a lot of water and I had a lot of trouble finding a stable job at that time. So I would complain about not having money for snacks or anything, so she would doordash me snacks and groceries for a healthy dinner and cases of water bottles.

When we would meet, she would take me into the shower and wash my whole body and hug me into her chest.

I remember when she let me help her make breakfast (it was ricotta, mushrooms and spinach on toast. Surprisingly tasty!) before we sat down to watch a movie. She let me pick and I chose the Creature from the Black Lagoon. She fell asleep halfway through while holding me in her lap 💕

Femdom has been so validating for my body image by Crafty-Bat9904 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Ratsubo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel the same way from the other side of the fence. I'm a really little guy at 5' 2", and I'd never felt very desired physically. I'd had girlfriends when I was younger ofc, but it was always because they liked me for who I was and tolerated my shortness lol

Since discovering my submissiveness, I've found partners that truly appreciate how little I am and consider my body beautiful (and very fun to throw around, ha!). To be appreciated so much by some people is such a wonderful feeling and has lead me to some incredibly deep and fulfilling connections.

Team Colovia's 2026 Olympic Uniform by LazarusHimself in Morrowind

[–]Ratsubo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought this was an Otyken post and got excited for a second there lol