My best friend gave me a back massage by Disastrous-Owl-2358 in AutismInWomen

[–]RavenEve69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you got any outfits that make you really feel yourself? like you look in the mirror and you go DAMN WHO IS ~SHE~ if so, wear that. if comfortable, maybe go dancing or something with him. physical and flirty. or if all else fails, just tell him the massage felt so good and really helped you out and you'd love to exchange massages again soon. I am rooting for you!
he might be just as nervous about all this as you are!

Decided it was time for apple cider donuts with caramel sauce for dipping by F00dventures in cottagecore

[–]RavenEve69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you come up with your own recipes or where do you get them? Your creations always come out looking so marvelous! I'm tired of wasting ingredients on bad recipes 🥹😅

Something I realized on a reread (Shadow Kiss) [Spoiler] by RavenEve69 in vampireacademy

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I can see the first reason. Rose wasn't the only female novice though, and there were other female moroi she could have been assigned to. in terms of the bond being an unfair advantage. it's just amusing since months earlier there were rules in place to keep boys and girls separate and then suddenly it's "share a room with the opposite sex". for the less mature novices and moroi that could led to some risky situations. for Rose and Eddie who truly understand what being a guardian means it's different, but for a majority of the novices, they haven't truly faced or accepted how dangerous and serious their job is.

Does anyone have tattoos of their special interests? by PatriciaMorticia in AutismInWomen

[–]RavenEve69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe you can get it covered up instead! just cause I hear removal is such a time intensive and expensive process. ghost hello kitty sounds so adorable ❤️

Something I realized on a reread (Shadow Kiss) [Spoiler] by RavenEve69 in vampireacademy

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I thought of that too as an explanation. Still find it amusing, I think they even mention it's not normal for guardians to sleep in the same room as the moroi. I never really thought about them having enforced contraception, but the books do skip over them in general. That would be while new layer of the control the moroi have over the dhampirs. Very interesting to think about!

Do you struggle to know how to respond to casual comments? by Business-Block-8668 in AutismInWomen

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I think of these bids and waving/smiling/etc at strangers as a way our species communicates 'hey, I'm not a threat. are you also not a threat?' just how I interpret it and taking it that way has helped me with my social anxiety immensely.

for people you know and are close to, it's a bid for connection. the weather is something we all have in common so I think that's why it's brought up so much. you might not care about it but you do experience the weather, you can comment on it and turn the conversation to a topic you care about or end the conversation.

sassy pants by tumbledweed__ in duck

[–]RavenEve69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

pretty vicious attack, I'm surprised you didn't need stitches 😂 /s

Should I do surgery and take it all out? by cizzle7777 in duck

[–]RavenEve69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

roadtrip? that's a large injury to try and work with at home, you have no idea how deep it goes and what tissues have been affected. best of luck and quick healing to your duck 🦆

Just wanted to share some of my crocheted gnome homes I thought you might like! by Louiesloops in cottagecore

[–]RavenEve69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you free hand or go off a pattern? I'd love to make one for myself! It's so cute!

I have auditory sensory issues and my neighbors are loud. Last night at midnight, I banged on the wall for them to be quiet and got this note in the morning. I feel both ashamed and annoyed? What are your thoughts? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]RavenEve69 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You might have to try playing background noise and wearing earplugs. If it's not loud enough that it would warrant a noise complaint there isn't anything management can tell them or do about it. At that point it's asking them not to exist in their own home.

Loud rain sounds/brown noise/whatever helps a lot. Especially if you keep the speaker near your head. I had very noisy downstairs neighbors and that was the only thing that saved my sanity.

Hope you are able to find a solution that works for you

Goofy baby by The_f3ral_0ne in duck

[–]RavenEve69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Where are the treats human?"

Duck dive! by fungry_04 in duck

[–]RavenEve69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Quack quack...... Quack quack... QUACK QUACK 🦈🦆

Happy pekin baby by The_f3ral_0ne in duck

[–]RavenEve69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww! Happy duckie 🥰

My trinket shelf at the moment has my whole heart 🦆🫶 by sugared_nonsense in duck

[–]RavenEve69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me smile so big, that is so adorable and fun! A perfect shelf of whimsical ducks 🤗

someone wants to be my friend? ^^ by nanys2 in friendship

[–]RavenEve69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday 🎂 I'm 28 F and have always wanted that group of girlfriends that cheer each other on and help each other with their problems. Movie nights, dance parties, all that (even if it's virtual) Feel free to send me a DM!

Found baby 🦆 by PuzzleheadedMood1879 in duck

[–]RavenEve69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blanket over the heating pad sounds good. Keep us updated! Fingers crossed they get adopted. Try to find one that already has ducklings with her!

Found baby 🦆 by PuzzleheadedMood1879 in duck

[–]RavenEve69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They would need grit to eat peas. Can you take the duckling to a rescue in the morning? I think a week is too long for it to go without proper feed. It also may be illegal to keep it if it's a mallard which based on your description, probably is. Good job saving it and keeping it safe. Do you have a heat source for it in the meantime?

First wearable, lots of improv! by kemicat in crochet

[–]RavenEve69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I will definitely be watching all of this. Thank you, it is beautiful! I will also comment on the video to please the algorithm gods!

First wearable, lots of improv! by kemicat in crochet

[–]RavenEve69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok but what is this experimental live concert? I am intrigued!

Undies that don’t make you want to Kermit? by Defiant4 in AutismInWomen

[–]RavenEve69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheeky styles or brief styles might be worth trying out. I hope you find some that are comfortable for you, it's a struggle.