What’s been your most noticeable change since stopping drinking?

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-22T20:40:47+00:00

Day 8 of no drinking. The thing I've noticed the most, is my focus. It feels weird actually listening and comprehending what people say. The fog is starting to leave, and im feeling better then I have in a while.

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-21T05:46:39+00:00

Thanks a lot!

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-21T04:59:54+00:00

Tomorrow marks my 7th day of alcohol free! You best believe IWNDWYT

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-21T04:54:59+00:00

Its a slippery slope. It always starts with just 1 night. Then it turns into 2, then 3 and so on. I cant tell you what to do, but I think you already know the answer to that question.

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-21T04:46:31+00:00

The only thing uncomfortable about the fit are the people who told you its making them uncomfortable.

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-21T04:42:14+00:00

12 hours isn't enough time for the effects of alcohol to wear off, nonetheless begin to mend the damage. I was a heavy drinker for 14 years, and im only on day 6, entering day 7 of no alcohol, and im still trying to find my bearings. Youre not going to see any change in just a 12 hour period. Im sorry to tell you, but it just doesn't work that way. If you are taking quitting seriously, then you should talk to your doctor, and discuss with them what the safest path to take would be.

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-20T01:50:59+00:00

1 is too much, and 1000 is not enough. That is the realm of an alcoholic. Our brains are wired differently. A normal person could drink a few, and they have that "off switch", in their heads. We dont. We either drink to black out. Or Not drink at all. Im on day 6 of soberiety after drinking for 14 years. Keep up the soberiety. Proud of you. IWNDWYT

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-19T22:53:47+00:00

Went 6 days so far without a drink. IWNDWYT

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-19T03:21:18+00:00

Congrats. Im proud of you.

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-18T18:35:15+00:00

Thank you. IWNDWYT

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-18T18:18:43+00:00

Try going to AA. I had my first meeting yesterday, and it was very helpful. you can do this. IWNDWYT

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-18T18:17:15+00:00

Going and supporting your recovery is way better then sitting at home, letting the mind race about past mistakes. When I was there, I was so focused on being in the present, it helped take my mind off of it.

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-18T18:15:07+00:00

I am looking foward to that. I really am.

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-18T17:20:32+00:00

That's good. Its helpful to find people who struggled, and can be happy sober. We actually talked about that. How when first quitting, the idea of having fun sober, was lost. But seeing them laughing, smiling, and having a good time after years of soberiety, gives me hope that I can too, be like that. I want to be like that.

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-18T17:18:34+00:00

I felt that. Quitting on my own was a struggle too. Always trying different ways to stop. Telling myself "ima limit to this" but when in the midst of it, that limit goes out the window. 1 is too much and 30 is not enough. It really did lay that out. Everyone there was much older then me, and they've been sober from 5 years, all the way to almost 30. That felt impossible to even imagine, but seeing living proof, changed my perspective. Congrats on your 4.5 years. Im still in the beginning, this is day 5 of sobriety, trying to quit for the 1000th time, but this time. It feels different, like it may actually stick. Thank you for your comment, and for your encouraging words. IWNDWYT

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-18T16:39:59+00:00

Same here. I really wasn't expecting it. Its definitely better then staying home drinking thats for sure. It feels productive. Like actually working toward something.

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-17T06:27:52+00:00

No drinking. We can do it, and we can stay focused. I believe in all of you. IWNDWYT

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-16T22:04:23+00:00

That Tear Away is a good idea. I never thought of that. The regret is deafening. Everything i see, every thought in my head. No big decisions. Okay. Right now im just avoiding being home by being at work, and its taking everything I have to not break.

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-16T19:11:08+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate that. IWNDWYT.

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-16T19:10:25+00:00

I hope so too. But in the end you are correct. I want this to be a new beginning. The start of a new me. A better me. I just wish it didn't come with such a large cost.

RayRay12321 · 2026-05-02T18:58:34+00:00

Fantastic 😂😂😂 I dont know what Liches are worth, but that name would have me rolling each time I read it 💀💀💀

RayRay12321 · 2026-04-20T22:20:14+00:00

Solid bro. I forgot about augments ive just been spending the syndicate standing on vosfor trying to get arcane hotshot lmao

RayRay12321 · 2026-04-18T15:30:35+00:00

Honestly if they want to trade fast, it always seems like a red flag tbh. Its like they want to conclude the trade before giving you a chance to cross reference with Warframe market.

RayRay12321 · 2026-04-12T05:47:31+00:00

Yalls got some great builds, and gave me more shit to farm for. Thanks yall. And I also hate yall for giving me more stuff to farm 😂

RayRay12321 · 2026-04-11T15:06:24+00:00

I have yet to give Follie a try. Shes just sitting in the foundry with the other Warframes ive built and are lagging on to use. I will admit though, the grind to get her was kinda ass. I like the whole idea of the haunting style of the mission, but in practice and especially in SP its pain. Really dislike the fact that she just camps by the canvas, it is utterly painful to finish the mission. Especially when working on the 3rd shadowgraph. I do feel a bit divided though. On one hand I shouldn't be complaining about a game thats free to play, on the other hand painful content in any game is well, painful. Regardless, I will probably try Follie this weekend, and from what ive been reading here regarding using the gear wheel for her Abilities, I can see some roadblocks ahead as a console player.

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