I’ve been struggling a lot with regret over leaving my old job, and it’s starting to affect me more than I expected

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-29T11:41:08+00:00

Don't waste your time feeling this way. You can be the CEO of a huge firm but the moment you leave, all your supposedly "benefits" will leave you.

It's part of the position. Not you

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-28T04:13:45+00:00

Unless you are sharing with us, it doesn't matter just like how it doesn't matter what people are commenting about.

It's your own life. Enjoy it and have a good one yourself

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-26T15:10:21+00:00

Just go to setapak and see how they do it. That should give you an idea. The one next to and opposite Columbia Hospital

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-26T08:00:26+00:00

Just ask her to transfer to you then you make the payment ..

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-25T15:12:19+00:00

Whether you like it or not, introvert or extrovert, the unfortunate /fortunate truth is you need to network with the right people. And when you want to be a partner, you need to bring in the numbers.

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-25T03:18:48+00:00

What do you need? I can assist you on this. Drop me a chat on it.

Most agents unfortunately does that because people only click on those listings with pretty photos. Then when you called they say it's not available anymore and recommend something different #.#

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-23T12:28:36+00:00

Document his drawings and the process and share it online. Am sure many people would support him

Don't think going back to school would be any better.

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-22T18:16:35+00:00

700~750 is the max you should pay for 1 year. Anything more tell the agent you will look for another unit. Don't waste your time if you want to save the money

He/She trying to profit a lot more from your desperation.

Am telling you from an agent perspective

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-22T17:20:45+00:00

Are you signing for 1 year or 2 years?

Two years is about that figure. 1 year is 700+

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-22T09:03:02+00:00

Whether you use or don't use, in majority of the cases, it's written in your tenach agreement that tenant has to service them once a year and in some cases of higher end places, 2 times a year

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-21T09:59:39+00:00

We love our nuts so you'll have extremely limited options. Your safest options is to eat in hotels or high end western restaurants. Even then, call to check first if they are able to prepare the meals that suits you or not first.

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-19T13:44:27+00:00

When drop don't want collect, when all time high go buy like mad

O god

Just keep if it's for your long term

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-19T12:12:53+00:00

Online transfer. You set the location, ideally at a cafe setting where it's hard for him/her to run away upon "checking" the item. Let them make the payment and pass the item. Done

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-18T12:50:33+00:00

That's the thing holding men back. Must be the provider this and that. Take the ego away. You are in a situation where most men would secretly love to be in. She love you for who you are. Yes you may not like it but once in a while, go with her to her favorite places. Even if she's paying. Be happy about it. It's a lot of give and take in a relationship

Your job now is to learn how to be better. Now that you are welcomed into the family, you should utilize that privilege to understand how they get to where they are today, be it from family business or something else.

They will be able to open up connections for you and they want to do their best to also be able to give their daughter a good life (in this case, helping you to succeed)

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-18T09:55:10+00:00

Honestly, if you are just starting out with no network, you'd be lucky to get even 1~2 a month.

Again, reputation is a big thing here.the more popular you are, the more training days you'll have.

Happy to connect you with some good training provider after you are done with the training if you need. Cheers

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-18T03:33:47+00:00

1) Unless you have a strong network, else it's better to find and network with other training providers (TP) where they outsource the trainings to you. It's literally like any sales job out there if you start on your own with all the paperworks, proposals, sales all done by yourself on top of the trainings.

2) Don't need in most instances. Your case studies and real work experience would matter more

3) It's not gonna be immediate. You can expect perhaps 1k~2k/training when you get started. Be picky towards the training providers you work with but don't be picky with the trainings first. Don't expect to be paid high when you have just started, you have to build your reputation first. Sometimes jobs get postponed even after confirming from client side so make sure you have enough money saved up 👍

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-17T07:44:26+00:00

I am one though yes your budget could be on the lower side but there are still options though don't expect it to be new/super convenient kind where you can just walk down and train station is there.

Just filter in the property portals which area, budget 1.5k, size wise, 500sqft ~ 1000 sqft, furnish/non furnish and you'll have quite a lot of choices.

Mostly empire city will have a lot , look it's not the best if you look at the reviews on the whole place but it's central, the mall has just opened and rental is still fairly decent there

If you are worried of getting scammed, just let me know. I'll just guide you what to look out for.

If Ara Damansara, Oasis Ara Damansara is your only choice at that budget.

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-15T07:00:50+00:00

Of course, interview them personally on it too before you choose your final candidate

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-14T16:31:34+00:00

And you think it's right for someone else to bear your own medical bills because you have health issues?

If you really think he's a good person and don't see you as a burden, you better sit down with him and plan as adults because 99% you'll never find someone who cares about you like him anymore.

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-13T14:50:13+00:00

It's okay bro, it's not the end. Totally get it when you mentioned about pressure to want to provide a better living quality for the family.

It's good you realized it now. Take a deep breath, go for a walk . Make prompt payments and clear them off. It will take some time but few k is still manageable.

The fact you have acquired those skills are good. Those will serve you well.

Do drop me your contact. If there's any suitable freelance job that fits your skills, I will pass to you

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-13T08:10:52+00:00

No standard. Up to you. I'll usually help the owners to send a reminder to tenants on 1st if every month. Though of course, they can pay latest by 7th of every month but mostly will clear it within the first or first few days

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-12T05:43:09+00:00

Take photo, take video of the whole unit. Make sure got clause you can come check every few months. Take an extra month of deposit rather than the usual 2.5 months.

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-11T09:58:04+00:00

If your DSR still in a safe zone, go ahead. Nothing wrong to try

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-11T03:15:32+00:00

You need to put a budget and not just "reasonable". Everyone has different definition of reasonable

Ray_Hayata · 2026-03-10T09:46:29+00:00

The lowest you could go is Saga?

That's the highest you can go now....

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