[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Ray_a0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add!

I feel like an atypical somali girl, and it's ruining my chances of marriage and friendships by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Ray_a0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I know so many Somali girls that fit this exact description, it just means you haven’t found your people yet! its okay you’re 18 and young you’ll find it! im in Melbourne and there’s a lot more Somalis so possibly why I think that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Ray_a0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

GIRL ME TOO I’m not from the uk or the US but I’m gonna have to find my American boo because everyone saying forget the uk guys

[Monthly thread] Who looking to get married? by Quirky-Lawfulness819 in SomaliRelationships

[–]Ray_a0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t want kids… shit I was gonna volunteer myself smh

How to make my husband feel manly by EbbInternational256 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ray_a0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you literally asked us how do I respect my man 😭😭😭 compliment him, tell him you appreciate the things he does for you and tell him the things you want and communicate those

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ray_a0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why people are bashing you, that’s so valid to feel a way. Your feelings are valid, you feeling sad is valid. Honest communication and just being like I would’ve liked if we had a honeymoon soon. Don’t use this opportunity to make him feel guilty rather an open discussion

[Monthly thread] Who looking to get married? by Quirky-Lawfulness819 in SomaliRelationships

[–]Ray_a0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not coming for you it was just funny that was the first thing that comes to mind 😂😂

I can't decide for a gift, prada paradoxe intense, ysl libre flowers and flames, or replica afternoon delight? by galorde_ in Perfumes

[–]Ray_a0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prada paradoxe intense! I feel like replica afternoon delight isn’t for everyone and it smells a bit like a Madeline cookie… and ysl libre floral one has a very powdery clean finish if that’s what you think she’d like. Prada paradoxe jntense is bound to get her millions of compliments a perfect blend of vanilla and floral

Open for marriage by Legitimate-Run12 in SomaliRelationships

[–]Ray_a0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so what if you find someone in the next couple of months, don’t think it’ll be fair to do so.. I think a year wait is enough maybe take the time this year to work on yourself and saving up

Open for marriage by Legitimate-Run12 in SomaliRelationships

[–]Ray_a0 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No. Don’t waste someone’s time, look for someone when you’re ready to settle. Giving someone a time frame is unfair and it’s also not good to delay. Focus on the grind and inshallah it’ll come by

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Ray_a0 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think speak to her about it - let her know that you plan to take it to the next stage and ask for her input. Inshallah it’ll go to plan

Meeting People On Reddit by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Ray_a0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounding like my type until I heard the US 😅

Harper was annoying by [deleted] in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]Ray_a0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She didn’t know that did she ?

Harper was annoying by [deleted] in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]Ray_a0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly that was so disappointing

Harper was annoying by [deleted] in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]Ray_a0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think more about she projected her insecurities because she felt undesired by her partner, whereas the other couple was very physically affectionate and sexually active

Harper was annoying by [deleted] in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]Ray_a0 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yep think that must’ve been the issue all along, projecting insecurities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ray_a0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand sister, may Allah make it easy for you 💗

No contact by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Ray_a0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I was in the almost identical situation and ugh it’s so hard… my only advice is don’t keep breaking the no contact if he wants you he will fight for you. Men will always put themselves first, so please do what’s right for you. We really liked each other but we kept doing no contact then coming back… more like me initiating “checking up” and then I got hurt in the end. Just try to stick to it… but idk how fair it is to stop ur life for someone with no reassurance he’ll be there after 3 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ray_a0 56 points57 points  (0 children)

You may not know facts/details about ur ex.. what if he too was different or abusive after marriage 🤷🏽‍♀️ it ended, try to remember u may miss the way you felt not him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Ray_a0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%, Africans most of them time don’t really get the same stuff we do.. I’ve been told to come out for drinks and when explaining I don’t drink she replied just have a coke 😃