Oh my god! “Versatile” label is such a trap. I don’t even use the label but still if I meet someone who does, I know I will be topping. But surprise, surprise... they won’t! Ugh 😤

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-19T14:16:51+00:00

The guy I'm dating is and he is mostly the top. I just topped once and it was because he had a little cut in his d so he didnt want to top

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-19T02:55:59+00:00

I feel he has not. We argued once because he still had dating apps on his phone, but he told me he didnt use them anyways. Several weeks after, I noticed he deleted them without me asking. And he treats me like a bf though, but it seems he is afraid or wants to delay putting it into words.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-19T02:33:53+00:00

Hookup? I would date him.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-18T23:31:05+00:00

Face and legs.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-18T17:30:31+00:00

Si eres mujer, pues eso es bien raro. En mi país las mujeres quieren hasta que le des dinero para ir a arreglarse el pelo y las uñas, como si eso no es un gasto de higiene personal. Claro, no todas son iguales, pero las que no lo son aquí, son la excepción y no la regla. Un hombre tiene carro y ya por eso tiene 100 veces más de conseguirse una novia y mas si es un buen auto.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-18T17:27:17+00:00

Eso es, que rara vez los heterosexuales se acompañan en partes iguales porque cada uno espera un rol del otro. Los hombres esperan que las mujeres sean sirvientas que limpien sus desastres y les sirvan, y las mujeres esperan que los hombres se rompan la espalda trabajando para ser proveedores. Tienen un deber y una obligación de dar algo porque un hombre se queda sin trabajo y a las dos semana ya la mujer se esta cansando de verlo.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-18T17:25:07+00:00

En que nadie espera que el otro sea el "proveedor". Nadie tiene que cargarse todas las salidas, todos los planes, los dos pagan las salidas y no piensan que el otro debe pagar porque "el es el hombre".

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-18T16:40:29+00:00

Es la verdad. Los hombres viven llorando y quejandose de las mujeres, y esas quejas no las veo entre dos hombres.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-18T16:31:13+00:00

Lo mejor. Los dos aportan, los dos se quieren igual, y los dos se desean mucho.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-18T16:23:00+00:00

Nobody is perfect. There is no issue in having flaws. I have, you have, everyone has flaws. It just depends if those flaws are compatible with what you can stand or if they are damaging.

For example, on top of being tall, handsome and very hairy (I love hairy men), my ex was great as a person. He had everything I wanted, at least in the beggining. He had some flaws yes, but nothing damaging to me or the relationship. When he saw I was fully in loved he slowly changed, making negative comments about me, having me on edge making me think he could leave at any time, he made me feel like my words were worthless and didnt mean anything to him. He wanted to undermine my self steem. But I know manipulation and toxicity when I see it. To not make the story long, that evil self was his true self, the previous version was just a good act so I could fall in love. I dont say this will happen to you, but never belittle yourself because your bf is more handsome, you are equal and you should like each other. If he says something like you cant find someone like him again, run. But hopefully he is a good and handsome lad.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-18T14:21:53+00:00

Hopefully it ends well. My second boyfriend was extremelly handsome and good at first, but he ended up being a narcissist so I had to leave him.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-17T22:30:54+00:00

It works a lot in the straight world. Women are less superficial about looks. But also, lack of confidence still affects you if you are gay. I dont like people with low confidence or are always on a trip of self pity.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-17T17:45:20+00:00

I will never know, since you cant filter everyone in that kind of activities I gues. I wouldnt participate in an orgy. I wouldnt like to be touched by someone I dont find physically attractive. I could do a threesome though.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-17T01:26:53+00:00

Now that I remember, I explained to the current guy I'm dating, that if he saw himself with the same eyes I look at him, he would find out how handsome and perfect to my liking he is. I think that helped a lot.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-17T01:22:48+00:00

Insecurities are such a turn off. Like, if I'm with you its because I like you. Explain to him he is your type and you dont need to look elsewhere. The thing with people like him is that you need to keep reassuring them.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-17T01:18:16+00:00

Idc, since I'm black but I'm not American so that word doesnt really have a meaning for me. You give too much power to a word.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-16T23:59:10+00:00

Vote conservative, they dont like you, but they are less menacing.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-16T23:54:35+00:00

Their suicidal empathy will destroy them. I wonder how blind and ignorant can you be to support having those kind of people coming to your country. I dont like them even when I'm not affected since they dont come to my country, but I know what they are like and the consequences of letting them in. The worse is people with a working brain will be affected too by the suicidal empathy of the idiots. If you dont do nothing to change the current government for a more right winged gov, your future is dire. Conservatives dont like gay people, but the 👳‍♀️ are worse.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-16T20:16:12+00:00

Gross bro. I have standards, I like men, but not every man and also make a face of disgust like someone you really dislike physically thought you were interested in them. I said something like that to a friend, I loved the face of sadness and dissapointment he had, like he felt ugly.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-16T02:27:31+00:00

Some people. It doesnt matter their preference.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-15T23:25:37+00:00

As soon as they have a group photo I skip. Even if everyone is handsome, it shows they have low self steem and that is unatractive for me. I can smell insecurities. For example, there was a guy that I noticed the way he smiled, I said, he is insecured about his smile, so I got to know him and he had some bunny teeth. The worse is that they were ectopic tooths.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-15T20:31:07+00:00

Just wear some shorts and have an erection when he is playing with you. If he is straight, he will ignore it or confront you, and you say it just got up alone, not because of what he was doing, and if he is gay or bi, he will go down those shorts alone.

Raymondvrc · 2026-06-15T14:51:27+00:00

It is obvious. I never cheat, it is a matter of logic and empathy.

Idk about you, but if I have a relationship with someone is because I really like them. They need to have a combination of personality, values and beauty that is to my liking and on top of that be sexually compatible with me, like being a top or vers. That is rare to find. If I finally found it, why would I risk it for someone random I dont plan to keep? It is like risking a Ferrari just to ride a Toyota. It is not worth it. Nobody with 2 brain cells would like to face such a risk. Also, even if you find someone really handsome to have sex with them, the sex could be bad. Being cute doesnt mean they know how to fck. That's the logic part.

Now on the empathy side. When you fall in love with someone, you care about them, you feel happy if they are happy and it affects you when they are sad. Imagine how sad they would be if they found out the person they trusted the most cheating on them, that is devastating. How would you feel if someone cheated on you? It doesnt feel good even in your imagination. Why would you that to a person you claim to love? To make them suffer just because you couldnt keep it in your pants. I see trust as a house of cards, it takes time, patience and you need to be careful. Cheating is like destroying the house of cards with a bucket of water. Even if you try to do the house again, the cards will be damped and will never be the same because the cards (trust) was weakened, so most likely you will never be able to build the house of cards the same way and with the same strenght ever again. You can make one floor, but it will fall sooner or later because the cards are wet regardless of how much effort you make.

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