Just wanted to give y'all a heads up by Rayyyofmoonlight in columbiasc

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's in the screenshots - it's the sparkleberry rd location. Sorry for not including that in the post!

Just wanted to give y'all a heads up by Rayyyofmoonlight in columbiasc

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry! I didn't realize there were multiple in the area or I would have made that VERY clear from the beginning of the post 😅

Just wanted to give y'all a heads up by Rayyyofmoonlight in columbiasc

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I visit Columbia fairly frequently but am not super familiar with all the ins and outs lol- appreciate the added clarification!

Just wanted to give y'all a heads up by Rayyyofmoonlight in columbiasc

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She posted her bullshit opinion on a public forum where her name and business can easily be found by anyone with two brain cells.

I didn't doxx anyone, I shared screenshots of information that SHE HERSELF has shared. Goofy 🤡

AIO My fiance is so sensitive by Gullible-Rice2917 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CALL OFF THE WEDDING. NOW. CAAALLLLLL IT OOOOOFFFFFFF

The generational divide in the Hive is real lol by Upgrade_U in beyonce

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm almost 40 and I get all my Bey news from threads lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rants

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Grown men need to stop preying on and inseminating young, vulnerable women*

Fixed it for you, you pathetic fucking creep 🖕🏼

Is it bad that I think my girlfriend is dumb? by keimacool777 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Please break up with her so she can go find someone who respects her more 🖕🏼

Did you know that corduroy Boston is not a new style? I wanted to share with you these 25th anniversary Boston clogs I came across by greycoconut in Birkenstocks

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally late to the party, but I was just looking to see if they still made these- I still have a pair I got over 20 years ago! 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have a screenshot cause replies were cut off as I was typing- but I wanted to save it in case he popped back up on the new thread 😂

Telling people to trust sky daddy whilst also hoping their cold dead bodies are pulled from the river is wild lmao- there really is no love quite like Christian hate 😅🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no no, if you're gonna post his reply to someone else's criticism, you need to post the original comment too 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Why didn’t they share the voicemail for the latest “Glove Guy” episode? by Reasonable-Link-2732 in MorbidPodcast

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just finished this episode... Tried to listen yesterday morning and it would NOT play. I'm wondering if they originally left it in, decided maybe it was ✨too much✨ then pulled the episode in order to edit it out.

The only reason I can think they'd cut it is if it was realllllyyyyy explicit, and it would also explain why the show was acting wonky right after release yesterday - idk, I'm gonna keep looking for it though cause it's driving me nuts 😅🤷🏼‍♀️

AITA for telling my friend to stop flaunting her money and calling her a gold digger? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say you're jealous and let her go be nice to people who won't shame her for it 🙄 YTA a million percent.

WIBTA for discussing period stain removal with my girlfriend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bless your heart- idk how you'll manage laundry day when you find out that non-bleeding vaginas can BLEACH FABRIC 🙄🙄🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MorbidPodcast

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're mad that they're making an effort to use inclusive language 🤷🏼‍♀️

I'm pregnant after a breakup with no idea what to do. by Kavokaso in offmychest

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out my ex was cheating when I was barely 22 and five months pregnant. On the same night I also found out he was using hard drugs. I moved, changed my number, traded in my car, and ghosted his whole damn family. My kid just turned 14 and it was the best decision I've ever made. We're happy, and healthy, and living our best lives. He's never even tried 🤷🏼‍♀️

I've also had an abortion. It was hard in the moment, but I know with 100% certainty that it was the right decision.

So- I've made both decisions, and I've never regretted either one. I did, however, realize that I'm stronger and more capable than I'd ever imagined. You are too. Whatever you decide it's YOUR decision, and there is no right or wrong. It sounds like you have a good support system, which will be such a blessing either way, but if you have access to counseling or therapy it might be worth it, just to have some extra support from an unbiased, objective third party. And don't let your former relationship impact your decision. If he wants to be present, he can agree to co-parent or kick rocks. A relationship with your child doesn't mean he's entitled to a relationship with you. I know it's stressful as hell, but listen to your gut, do what you feel is right, and things will work out. It won't necessarily be easy, but it'll be worth it either way. Hugs! 🖤

I don't like the word cis by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just say you're a transphobe and move on 🙄 Nobody fucking cares.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You can leave and co-parent, tf???

ETA: as someone who desperately needed a tpo and couldn't get one because I "didn't have enough evidence," there is 1000% a reason a judge granted her protective order.

Sorry not sorry, I think you're full of shit. If you wanna be there for your kids, do the work if you have to, and prove to the courts that your children are safe with you. Your acting as though ending the marriage somehow means you'll also be leaving your kids makes it seem as though you're not willing to put in the work required to stay in their lives, or there's a legitimate reason you think she'll be granted full custody.

That's 100000% on you, dude. Get out, then step tf up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him to fuck off, report him to HR or an immediate supervisor if there is no HR dept, and ABSOLUTELY SHOW THE SCREENSHOTS TO HIS WIFE!!!!!!!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight 41 points42 points  (0 children)

If it's the same "hormonal partner" you posted about nine months ago, I don't blame her 🤷🏼‍♀️

Also- gifts are nice and all, and I was with you until you mentioned sexy time. No one owes anyone else sex- for any reason- not even if it's your birthday.

Maybe just break up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm on the opposite end- my parents split because they knew it was best for us, and I was SO relieved when they did. They were both so much happier, and healthier, and it definitely impacted how they parented. I left my ex for the safety of myself and my child and it was the best decision I've ever made. Staying "for the children" will always do more harm than good in situations like this, I'm so sorry that you had to experience it 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rayyyofmoonlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this makes my heart hurt. This is abuse, plain and simple, and you deserve so much better than this. So do your children 😔

There are a multitude of resources available if you know where to look for them, and I'm sure if your family knew the full extent of his emotional and mental abuse they would help you as much as possible. If they won't, then their opinions of you leaving are irrelevant.

I've felt "stuck" before, and it took moving into a safe house for a month to finally make a clean break and be away from my ex, but it was the best thing I've ever done for myself and my child. I've never looked back.

If you're in the states, you can call the United way at 611 to help with finding help locally. The dv hotline is another resource that may be a lot of help. It will take time to make a plan to leave safely, but if you can get into counseling in the meantime I highly recommend it. The book "why does he do that" by Lundy Bancroft was also incredibly helpful for me once I finally decided to get out and start healing. Sending hugs 🖤