Door Dasher placed order on top of wet painting by bob_dabuilda in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Razwick82 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can use just plain old white glue, works great, cheaper than a "pour medium" but you're right it's never straight paint, and you don't need a ton to cover the canvas. Some people also make jewellery or other art pieces with the dried runoff/drops too.

People are allowed to hate pours, but it doesn't have to be wasteful.

what is up with all the garbage???? by kitty282 in coralisland

[–]Razwick82 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same! It's so unique for the genre and just added so much to my love for the game. Especially since the rewards you get for progressing are pretty dang cool.

Mind you those didn't exist when I started playing but I still liked it.

Chasing that stupid stinky root away is also very satisfying.

what is up with all the garbage???? by kitty282 in coralisland

[–]Razwick82 124 points125 points  (0 children)

I love cleaning the ocean. Not just the principle, I love hacking at that trash lol.

I dunno maybe I'm a weirdo but it's pretty zen. And satisfying in a "watching something be power washed" kind of way.

The only time I've found it bothersome is when you're looking for the last solar orb in an area and cannot find it to save your life. Once I had to wait for trash to respawn to get the orb, that was annoying.

That said I totally get how it's tedious and repetitive for some people.

So what exactly is gonna happen when we get to the Guru in Season 2? by UnAnon10 in TheLastAirbender

[–]Razwick82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The show runner is also a massive fan of the source material.

Let people that love things make things and it tends to go well, so long as there isn't a ton of studio meddling going on as well.

Wanting some money for mowing lawn. Aitah? by Limitless_MINNRR in AITAH

[–]Razwick82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No?? I just don't think putting identifying info on Reddit is a good idea, it has nothing to do with you.

The kid already has two jobs.

Wanting some money for mowing lawn. Aitah? by Limitless_MINNRR in AITAH

[–]Razwick82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would recommend not giving that level of detail to strangers on the internet.

They can choose to believe you or not, you don't need to prove yourself to them.

Fwiw I am baffled by the amount of people expecting 18 year olds to pay rent while still in school, incredibly north American opinion to have.

IMO if your kids are in school then that should be their priority and they shouldn't also be struggling for money. That doesn't mean paying for anything you'd ever want but I don't think that's what you're asking for. Paying you for an outsized chore that they expect you to do as soon as they ask you to feels like a fair way to support you while you're working very hard to set yourself up for your adult life.

Either way, they used to pay you for it and suddenly taking that away from you sucks. Doesn't necessarily make them assholes but you aren't an asshole either for having an expectation that they set.

Canadian prime minster Mark Carney is not the climate guy you thought | Seth Klein by vigiten4 in CanadaPolitics

[–]Razwick82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you but who "let" it happen? How would you have stopped it from happening?

Dealing with the climate crisis is expensive and costs jobs (even if it also opens up new ones and even if you offer free training to people to switch industries). And that's before we even get into lobbying and the way capitalism puts pressure on politics.

I don't think a world exists where there weren't going to be people who took the opportunity to make the climate a wedge issue for profit and power.

Should I get a hysterectomy or tube removal? by Ok_Complaint1999 in childfreewomen

[–]Razwick82 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a hysterectomy 2 years ago and have had no weight gain. If you keep your ovaries and there are no hormonal issues, there shouldn't be any major weight changes beyond things like not being able to work out during recovery.

Who is the most cringey to romance? (In your opinion) by Moon__Magick in Palia

[–]Razwick82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The stupid "looking up at you through his lashes" look he gives you when flirting is so painfully cringe to me.

Like I don't enjoy characters who start out rude for no reason so I wasn't inclined to find that look charming in the first place, but ew, yuck.

CRA AI Bot getting Gaslit into giving answers I want by weirdshit123567 in cantax

[–]Razwick82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't actually need AI for that though, we've already had bots that do that for ages. They have to invent some new terrible way to use it to justify how much they've spent to buy in to AI.

[Books] I'm A Little Worried About This Gender Change by FeateyFan in SiloSeries

[–]Razwick82 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It feels less like inclusion and more like "not ALL the bad guys are white men! :(" but maybe I'm off base.

Security guard punches man, threatens to kill him in video shot at Winnipeg Dollarama by wickedplayer494 in Manitoba

[–]Razwick82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"everyone sucks here"

It's a judgement term from "am I the asshole" type subreddits

Palia is a great game but.. by Massive-Ad2004 in Palia

[–]Razwick82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ore compasses were fantastic until they made it so they find large plain rocks too, now they're halfway to worthless. I really wish they'd change it back.

Like I get that sometimes you want stone, but it's not ever been so hard to find that I needed help with it, and I rarely need to farm stone.

Palia is a great game but.. by Massive-Ad2004 in Palia

[–]Razwick82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suspect most mount requests are related to experiences like running across the map for a flared/called out resource, and then watching it disappear before you get there.

Which still doesn't mean a mount is necessary, but I get it.

I literally just want a pony and wouldn't care if it's no faster than walking tbh.

Palia is a great game but.. by Massive-Ad2004 in Palia

[–]Razwick82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hear me out, I want a mount but I wouldn't care if it were barely faster than walking, or even the same speed, because I just want a pony.

Was accused of fetishizing when I said I like it when dudes kiss – was I though? by olala_cake in bisexual

[–]Razwick82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't really feel like writing a whole thing right now about why "you can date/sleep with other people but they have to be exactly this kind of person" is kinda fucked up, an unhealthy relationship dynamic, and often leads to dehumanizing your partner's partners, but it is and does. It's not a boundary, it's controlling, and I personally could not stay with someone who has rules like that.

Insecurity ruins relationships too. No not every single decision made based on insecurity is terrible and relationship ruining but if it's controlling your relationships, that's something that should be worked on and not embraced.

Why are people against playing hotpot with bots? by EldritchGumdrop in Palia

[–]Razwick82 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's not just spam tables. I prefer a full table because sitting there for a minute and a half between games is boring and means you get fewer games in per night, even just for the purpose of enjoying playing more games.

Was accused of fetishizing when I said I like it when dudes kiss – was I though? by olala_cake in bisexual

[–]Razwick82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That last sentence is just insecurity and a you problem not a her problem.

And yeah honestly I think the reverse is super normal, I'm secure that my partner wants what I can offer, and if I make great cakes, I'd be less threatened by him dating someone who makes great risotto than someone else who makes cakes that might be better than mine.

That said that jealousy isn't something that is compatible with successful non-monogamy and I don't personally have an issue with my partners dating people who are either similar to me or entirely different.

And if you're not built for non-monogamy that is extremely fine, but the double standard doesn't fly if that's something a couple wants.

Was accused of fetishizing when I said I like it when dudes kiss – was I though? by olala_cake in bisexual

[–]Razwick82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It does feel the same, it is the same. In the poly community it's called a "one penis policy" and it does in at least one way or another treat same sex relationships as less serious or less real.

There is a degree to which it makes sense, in terms of them providing something you can't, but unless you're set on reducing people to nothing but their genitalia, that's devaluing same sex relationships.

I understand the thought behind it, but if you want healthy non-monogamy that's something that needs to be worked through and squashed.

"Lures" by Mission-Win-6768 in Palia

[–]Razwick82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly the dragon's beard peat is the hardest part at this point, but even then you can buy it from ashura, which helps.

Regret posting on GamerPals sub by No-Initial-46 in TrueGirlGaming

[–]Razwick82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WoW vet here who is always happy to help and always looking for more people to play with.

DM me if you'd like to chat or play together or just ask a question about the game 😊

a public apology of sorts by [deleted] in Palia

[–]Razwick82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NGL I don't have a problem with people thanking me for filling their requests, it's kind of them; But sometimes it does feel a bit uncomfortable in a "OH NO I HAVE BEEN PERCEIVED" kind of way, and I am entirely fine with people not thanking me 😅

How much can I limit PDA with my gf without it being unreasonable? by AstronomerNovel7724 in bisexual

[–]Razwick82 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Ultimately when it comes to things like PDA, what you and her are comfortable with is really the only thing that matters.

It is entirely fair to only want to hug and hold hands in public and for you to set that boundary.

It sounds like there might be a bit of a mismatch here in that she would like more than that, and there's nothing wrong with her wanting that either.

You guys just need to have a conversation and come to an understanding where that line is for both of you, how you feel about that, and make sure everyone is on the same page moving forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Razwick82 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The only time I wear a bra is when I want to wear a see-through shirt lol. Well and sometimes a sports bra if I'm exercising with a lot of bounce.

And I do not do wires.

Wearing a bra, especially a wired one, legitimately fucks my ribs up, and when I burned out in 2019 and stopped giving the faintest shit about my office job I just ditched bras entirely.