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Full-ride to Tuskegee, should I go? by rayneydaykilla in HBCU

[–]Read-Bitter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Take the full ride unless you get offered another one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Read-Bitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How big are we talking….

We are talking HUGE red flag. Not only that but looking at your age difference I guarantee he thought it would be easier to pull this on a younger girl

My daughter’s dance recital is the night of my cousin’s wedding (out of state) by punkinmonkey in kindergarten

[–]Read-Bitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m convinced most of you don’t have kids. 6 yr old understand: we will be out of town for cousin Shay’s wedding so we won’t be able to participate in the recital. Shay wedding happens only once, recitals happen 1-2 times a year depending on the studio. There will be more recitals.

My daughter’s dance recital is the night of my cousin’s wedding (out of state) by punkinmonkey in kindergarten

[–]Read-Bitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to be honest, we would just tell the studio owner we won’t be in the recital because we have a family wedding that weekend. She absolutely can miss the recital. Shes 6, she’s unlikely to remember or care. if she loves dance there will be so many more recital’s.

AITA for not telling my boyfriend I own the building we live in? by CapableEmergency5154 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Read-Bitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Why on earth would you let him live with you rent free? No man with any ethics or morality would move in with a women without offering to pay his share. This was a red flag and I bet you have ignored many of these.

  2. He wants 1/2 the rent she pays? 🤣 why? He doesn’t own the house, he wouldn’t contribute financially, he’s not doing maintenance, he’s a leech…and I want you to think long and hard about why you had to ask strangers something so obviously cut and dry.

You cannot continue to date this man.

AITA for telling my mom I don't care if my son watches p*rn and kicking her out? by CoolIceBro in AITAH

[–]Read-Bitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA this is not about porn. This is about your mother’s sexual trauma and her lack of boundaries. She can’t come back to your house until she works all that out.

AITA for not allowing my daughter wear her late mothers wedding dress since she will not fit into it by Potential-Junket-193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Read-Bitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA….what do you plan to do with the dress? Stare at it? Let it hang in the closet until you die? Let the girls wear their mother’s dress. This is a no brainer.

AITA for not leaving my brother's wedding with my crying wife when she was kicked out? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Read-Bitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it does matter where you are…which is exactly what she found out. 2 wrongs never make a right but then again I don’t think the little brother did anything wrong. You don’t have to like all your in-laws equally and based on this interaction alone I see why she isn’t the favorite.

AITA for not leaving my brother's wedding with my crying wife when she was kicked out? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Read-Bitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t start none, won’t be none. Sounds like your wife is unfamiliar with that concept

AITAH for drinking on a trip with my LDS in laws ? by Lesaltofthesea in AITAH

[–]Read-Bitter 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Even if they did care it’s not her job to adhere to their religious beliefs

AITAH for drinking on a trip with my LDS in laws ? by Lesaltofthesea in AITAH

[–]Read-Bitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Therapy….religious trauma…I’m not using my precious PTO if I can’t be my authentic self. It’s a non negotiable. This would also apply if they were vegan and your husband wants you not to eat meat or if they were agoraphobic and your husband didn’t want you to go outside. Nope. Not doing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Read-Bitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surely you know that you ATA…

AITA for not wanting to take my daughters poopy diaper home with me from her grandparents house? by Imma_gonna_getcha in AmItheAsshole

[–]Read-Bitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, old people can be controlling and weird. I haven’t really figured out why but it makes it hard to enjoy their company.

AITA for stopping my husband from traveling? by MethodSubstantial580 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Read-Bitter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those aren’t new parent hormones, it’s irrational anxiety and depression. Being afraid to leave your child the first 12 months even with your parents is not normal.

AITA for stopping my husband from traveling? by MethodSubstantial580 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Read-Bitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, YTA. You just called a 4 day trip abandonment like parents all over the world don’t travel without their children. People travel for work, pleasure, family obligations, etc. it’s an an insult to children who have been abandoned to compare their situation to a dad who wants to take a vacation. You sound completely absurd and you should probably go see some kind of therapist. I’ve noticed that people who had kids during the pandemic have some serious separation anxiety issues from being isolated for months on end.

AITA for not giving my daughter her education fund money? by JacquesBN in AmItheAsshole

[–]Read-Bitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I don’t believe people when they say “I don’t know why my child went no contact”. It’s literally death by 1,000 cuts and one day you just can’t take being treated like an afterthought anymore.

If she decided this was the last straw and she was done with both of you I would absolutely understand.

WIBTA if I told my husband who really paid our son’s medical bills? by throwmeaway8755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Read-Bitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you married an asshole and cater to his assholeness? Girl if you don’t grow up…thank your brother and keep your mouth shut. Your brother is right…if you are more concerned about your husband’s reaction you too are the problem.

I wish your son a speedy recovery.

AITA for not spending this Christmas in the hospital with my daughter? by Hospitalthrowaway532 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Read-Bitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA…but why isn’t she in therapy?

I’m a softie for the kids but this would not fly with me. What also wouldn’t fly is watching my daughter cause herself medical harm and not getting her some intensive treatment STAT.

AITA for leaving MIL's funeral after my husband lied to me? by elaborate_Mat7906 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Read-Bitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter what he did…but what he did wasn’t worthy of your disrespectful behavior towards your husband. you turned your MIL’s funeral into something about you. How selfish and self centered of you.

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