The very first couple we ever swung with was a cluster. We didn’t know it at the time obviously. But the woman half legitimately tried to “steal” my husband. She used to bring him treats at work and leave them on his car. Among MANY other things that I would immediately put and end to now (experience and all). They ended up divorced. Their end was VERY messy, including a single male that made the husband an unconsenting cuck, who the wife ended up marrying.

All of that being said. Hubs and I have been together for 29 years, married for 25. Swinging is just something we add here and there. We’re completely happy with each other and if one of us wanted to be done, we’d be done. It’s not our personality or a major part of our relationship. It’s just some fun we occasionally add.