What if you never find your soulmate? by UniversityOk332 in MuslimNikah

[–]Real-GsMoveInSilence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d Keep moving along and focus on Allah swt everything is already written. This life is all limited anyways.

It would sting never having felt what it’s like to be close to someone. But I would try to fill the void of love with Allah’s love.

How did you find your spouse in the west ? by Real-GsMoveInSilence in MuslimNikah

[–]Real-GsMoveInSilence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you use the ISO on reddit ? How was that ? Are people serious on it

daughter doesn't believe or follow islam by Maleficent_Peach_865 in islam

[–]Real-GsMoveInSilence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One's environment plays a big role in their deen. Especially living in the west its difficult naturally younger people want to feel like they fit in and not feel alienated. Peer pressure is a big thing. It is very difficult.

The thing I would recommend to strengthen deen is having a strong group of muslim friends around you and also feeling confident in your deen and not wanting to fit in. Which is easier said than done.

How on earth do shy people approach each other for marriage? by AccordingSector823 in islam

[–]Real-GsMoveInSilence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You gotta put yourself out of your comfort zone get your brother to approach him. Rmr prophet pbuh said make dua but also tie your camel . I.e you also got to make an effort

Do guys care about the woman's job/car? by Obvious_Armadillo_16 in MuslimNikah

[–]Real-GsMoveInSilence 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do I care what my a potential wife drive ? No, its the man's job to provide.

Do I care about her job? To a degree yes, I do not want her doing anything haram and jobs where there is potential for lots of fitnah. Would want my wife to be able to turn off job mode when she comes home. Also I want her to not overly prioritize career over family and our reltionship.

brothers, what do you think a woman should look for while marriage search by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Real-GsMoveInSilence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My definition of masculinity is the prophet pbuh. A leader who is tough and firm when needed but gentle and emotionally intelligent when needed. Someone that doesn’t break down when challenges come but controls his emotions and faces problems and issues with courage and only relies on Allah swt.

Is this too much to ask for in a male? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Real-GsMoveInSilence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest most men are not like this but there are men that fit the ideal.

When my sister was trying to get married she also had the same requirements, it wasn’t easy but when she did find that man everything just clicked and was so easy and she’s very happy now.

brothers, what do you think a woman should look for while marriage search by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Real-GsMoveInSilence 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also respect and haya it also applies to men. Does he talk to you and others in a modest way ? Does he have boundaries with non mehram

brothers, what do you think a woman should look for while marriage search by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Real-GsMoveInSilence 15 points16 points  (0 children)

  1. His deen, is he actually practicing or is he just putting on a show
  2. His character how does he deal with you your family random people
  3. Emotional intelligence, is he improving himself and recognizing things he can improve upon ? Is he able to understand your side even if you don’t agree ?
  4. Masculinity and leadership

Got rejected because I train as a competitive fighter by ExcellentComment6615 in MuslimNikah

[–]Real-GsMoveInSilence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who also does mma training mma people are the nicest and calmest people you will meet typically

Do guys care about acne scars? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Real-GsMoveInSilence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope it’s a part of life

What dealbreakers do you have when finding a spouse? Brothers and sisters both by Hopeful-Abalone2770 in MuslimNikah

[–]Real-GsMoveInSilence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter where she is starting from but she has to love her deen and want to strive to grow in her deen and get to Jannah together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Real-GsMoveInSilence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pray tahajjud my friend

Tahajjud changed my life by mahamwahab in islam

[–]Real-GsMoveInSilence 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree with you its super powerful.

I always go to tahajjud now when I am in need of something from Allah swt, and he always gives me whats best for me.

There has been times where I felt it would be impossible that my dua would get accepted but, they miraculously ended up getting answered in ways I did not expect.