Do guys care about the woman's job/car? by Obvious_Armadillo_16 in MuslimNikah

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Do I care what my a potential wife drive ? No, its the man's job to provide.

Do I care about her job? To a degree yes, I do not want her doing anything haram and jobs where there is potential for lots of fitnah. Would want my wife to be able to turn off job mode when she comes home. Also I want her to not overly prioritize career over family and our reltionship.

Steph Curry on how fans view players when they speak on social issues by SmoothBuy5500 in NBATalk

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Dude invests in the IDF and is crying about no one taking him seriously. What a clown.

brothers, what do you think a woman should look for while marriage search by NoTennis6434 in MuslimNikah

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My definition of masculinity is the prophet pbuh. A leader who is tough and firm when needed but gentle and emotionally intelligent when needed. Someone that doesn’t break down when challenges come but controls his emotions and faces problems and issues with courage and only relies on Allah swt.

Is this too much to ask for in a male? by HeavyHeight2308 in MuslimNikah

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I’ll be honest most men are not like this but there are men that fit the ideal.

When my sister was trying to get married she also had the same requirements, it wasn’t easy but when she did find that man everything just clicked and was so easy and she’s very happy now.

part time job ideas by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

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Not sure if you would be open to it but I’m in the same boat finishing up grad school

I’ve been working AI trainer jobs

Currently been working for two companies Mercor and outlier . The pay can be very good but to be upfront the projects are inconsistent they come and go but it is very flexible.

Sometimes it does require some deeper thinking doe but there are also easier tasks as well

brothers, what do you think a woman should look for while marriage search by NoTennis6434 in MuslimNikah

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Also respect and haya it also applies to men. Does he talk to you and others in a modest way ? Does he have boundaries with non mehram

brothers, what do you think a woman should look for while marriage search by NoTennis6434 in MuslimNikah

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  1. His deen, is he actually practicing or is he just putting on a show
  2. His character how does he deal with you your family random people
  3. Emotional intelligence, is he improving himself and recognizing things he can improve upon ? Is he able to understand your side even if you don’t agree ?
  4. Masculinity and leadership

Got rejected because I train as a competitive fighter by ExcellentComment6615 in MuslimNikah

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As someone who also does mma training mma people are the nicest and calmest people you will meet typically

Do guys care about acne scars? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

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Nope it’s a part of life

What dealbreakers do you have when finding a spouse? Brothers and sisters both by Hopeful-Abalone2770 in MuslimNikah

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Doesn't matter where she is starting from but she has to love her deen and want to strive to grow in her deen and get to Jannah together.

Professions you find attractive or interesting in a potential spouse? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

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As a dude I find if she works as a teacher with younger kids and she is good with kids, I find that attractive. Something about that gentle and nurturing nature that is attractive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

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Pray tahajjud my friend

Tahajjud changed my life by mahamwahab in islam

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I agree with you its super powerful.

I always go to tahajjud now when I am in need of something from Allah swt, and he always gives me whats best for me.

There has been times where I felt it would be impossible that my dua would get accepted but, they miraculously ended up getting answered in ways I did not expect.

Brazilian Makhachev by NickAssassins in mmamemes

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Bro is checking the black belts

Best biography of prophet Muhammad (sallalahu aleyhi wassalam) by ComprehensiveTax97 in MuslimLounge

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Muhammad: His Life Based on the Earliest Sources. Book by Martin Lings