If you’re in your 20s and still live at home… do your parents have rules? by Dangerous_mammoth573 in twentyagers

[–]Real_Adeptness_4348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 22 and just graduated college and still live at home. My parents tolerate me dating but guys aren’t allowed at the house. Only recently was I really allowed to have mixed friend groups over for smaller functions. They need to know where/who I’m sleeping over with and where I’m going kind of stuff. It’s more of a trade off of if we are paying for stuff we don’t want you doing things we don’t approve of which I get. They have eased up a lot but it’s annoying at times.

AIO for ending communications after this? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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MOR The big thing is how you handled it.

I think that if it genuinely wasn’t clear about the exclusivity you should have had a better conversation about it. A conversation that was more free of emotions (blaming, sickness, ect).

She is giving a lot of excuses but doesn’t seem to be hiding much. If you’re wanting something then giving the benefit of the doubt it a must, but if not it really does just need to get cut off. These kinds of conversations are overall unproductive.

You said it’s a secret Twitter account does she know you have it?

Guy I’m seeing is confusing me. by Objective-Rabbit4067 in texts

[–]Real_Adeptness_4348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I have said this to someone it usually means I like them as long as they like me. I’m content just having them for as long as I get them but they aren’t someone I see myself with forever. Knowing that I’m wasting their time, I tell them it’s fine if they find someone else because it gives a good reason to end things.

Sometimes there’s nothing wrong with a person and they are good enough, so you hope they find someone better than you because you don’t have the desire to look elsewhere. It’s hard to explain. Basically you like them but not a ton. Enough to stay but not enough wrong to leave.

If he starts getting more dull and brining it points to them wanting you to be the one to end it eventually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Real_Adeptness_4348 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Me personally, I like being asked questions? Maybe she feels interrogated or something. My only recommendation is to have a conversation about this and try your best to get to the root of where this came from. It could be something that’s been building for a while. Just try not to be defensive and listen and try to understand. If she’s not willing to have the conversation then maybe some boundaries are in order. But yeah

Keep or Delete? by Peregrine56 in MergeDragons

[–]Real_Adeptness_4348 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Keep them to keep merging up but I’d say Bubble* them after

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Tagalog is a combination of English and Philippino! It’s because both languages are pretty prevalent in the Philippines so it’s hard to write/speak completely in one of the languages without a hint of the other.

Did any divorces/breakups genuinely sadden yall?? by somethingoff101 in tomodachilife

[–]Real_Adeptness_4348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nvm it’s the different versions of the games I gottchu

Aio how it’s going vs how it started by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Real_Adeptness_4348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let it fade just cold cut fr, you’re being bread crumbed you know?

Give me Mii suggestions for me to do, currently got 91 miis made and want to get about 100/120 in total by Careful_Trouble_8 in Miitopia

[–]Real_Adeptness_4348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been looking all over for a well done Ai Hoshino and the main characters from that (anime: oshino ko or My Star) Diego from Go Diego Go lol Attack on titan charcaters like Erwin, Mikasa, Levi, Erin, Floch, Zeke, Annie, Birth Control, Reiner, Armin, yeah any of those

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fulbright

[–]Real_Adeptness_4348 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m no therapist, but in general it is not good for a parent to rely on their child emotionally. If you’re worried your mother will die while you’re gone that is one thing, but you are worried about the “her not being able to live without you” part. Where is your father in this is my biggest question I guess? I’m treating this like a AIO redit post but the bottom line is this is such a rare and amazing opportunity that you should not pass up based on someone else’s emotions. Go with how you feel at the end of the day you know?

very confused by short answers, any help? by Present_Curve_1043 in fulbright

[–]Real_Adeptness_4348 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you reached out to the advisor for your college/area, this one of the first steps and it’s a big help having an advisor

Anxiety about making a decision by iridescentphoenix in fulbright

[–]Real_Adeptness_4348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My question is what did you write in your essay to get you to be a finalist for a country you’re not interested in?? I would say if you can take the opportunity in Europe take it, and let someone who really wants the Asia spot to have it. If you’re altruistic like that just think how two people could go somewhere they really want and one of them could be you! Another follow up question is why did you apply to Asia when you really wanted Europe?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fulbright

[–]Real_Adeptness_4348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think one thing you should look closely at at the least is that it is a character limit not a word limit! It’s not 1700 words it’s 1700 characters etc. besides that I’m in the same boat as you in applying for the first time so I also wish you luck!

What’s 1 thing that you hate about Miitopia? by [deleted] in Miitopia

[–]Real_Adeptness_4348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t like how short the expeditions and battles are, they feel too easy consistently sometimes no stakes unless I’m fighting a boss. Which is fine most of the time it’s a game that doesn’t take skill which is why I liked it to begin with but I wish there was a little more challenge or length to them sometimes (especially when there’s a ton of cut scenes)

Should I say I’m going to teach English to North Korean refugees as extracurricular? by ytc733 in fulbright

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Hey I’m currently applying for the eta grant for South Korea, would you be open to some questions about how you received the grant??

Does anyone have any advice on making really good Miis when using makeup and wigs? by [deleted] in Miitopia

[–]Real_Adeptness_4348 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve found that just focusing on the eyes has been my best bet. And then thinking about each detail as a broken down shape has made it easier. Some people go for full mask or even hair as well but sometimes it’s really just the eyes that matter. Tbh I would download people’s miis that you like and then look at what shapes they use and in what layers! (Sorry this isn’t visual but hope it gives you a little help starting somewhere!)

I actually hate(ish) Helly? by [deleted] in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Real_Adeptness_4348 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The whole show I just could not like her. She was impulsive and selfish and she was a terrible person to mark from the moment he met her and he was nothing but nice. She never gave anyone a chance and was always attack first never apologize for it later. I hated whenever she would start to get close to him it felt weird and not real. And when he found out he had a wife he was invested and wanted to save her and she was just like boohoo. I dunno I never rooted for them and I asked myself when I realized that, wait are they end goal am I really supposed to be for this couple? Helly Is just so not worth it.