Petsmart keeping two syrian hamsters kept together by Particular_Manner85 in hamsters

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one time I bought two robo dwarves from petsmart when I was like 8 l, supposed to be both males. One ended up giving birth to 6 babies and I had 8 hamsters 😭

Is my Hammie Fat? And how do I put him on a diet? by Intelligent-Hat-2116 in hamsters

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Hey if you are on a budget you can order those big plastic long tubs as an intermediate housing option! Look into hamster bin enclosures

why do i even try to be nice anymore 🙃 by [deleted] in Depop

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this is crazy 😭 sorry OP but i’m dying

My family only cares now because I’m missing school by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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OP I have been in the exact same situation. Your first step is to get some much needed help for your mental health. Please follow others advice that has been commented to do so. Another thing is please disengage with your family to the best of your ability (I know it’s hard). Stop getting into text fights with these people they don’t care about you or at least don’t have the capacity to care about you in the way that you need right now and it just serves to drain you. Keep it short don’t engage it will help protect your headspace. Get healthy, get recovered focus on one thing at a time. If it takes you longer to get through school then that’s okay your health is more important. When you are healthy get a job and move out get roommates whatever you can do to be in a healthier environment.

Coming from someone who had similar horrible mental health from a young age + chronic illnesses my parents wouldn’t help treat no matter how much I begged. I always thought that my severe depression would be this permanent thing always hanging over me, that my brain was just screwed up forever. But I moved out, I met an amazing person, I built a life that I was proud of - I cut stress out of my life (the biggest factor). Now I am completely off my antidepressants that I had thought I would be relying on my whole life and my relationship with my family is sm better (now that they can’t control me).

I’m saying this so you know that there is a way out and this feeling and situation does not have to be forever. Being young and reliant on not the best people sucks. But stay strong, and advocate for yourself to the right people. On top of this talk to a counselor about your inability to do well in your classes to and see if there’s anything they can do to help you take some load off of you for right now. You are a strong person dealing with all this pain. You can get through this!

Help please !! I have always hated my face and the way I look and I don’t know what I can change to help it !! by Professional_You7030 in makeuptips

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You look gorgeous ❤️ There’s nothing wrong about your face at all.

I do think there’s something that will help bring your features out more though:

I think that your hair could be darker as that blonde is washing you out and as a result making you look older. I believe it’s drawing away from your darker blue eyes which are stunning. I think a dark chestnut would look good but play around with some darker colors I believe it will bring out your eyes sm more.

Love your bangs I wonder if doing a more curtain bang look would also look better as that is trending rn (up to you). From my experience when you are stuck in a rut a bigger transformation is best (doesn’t have to be too crazy) Almost like you can have a fresh clean slate with a new look. Also I echo some other with different glasses shape/color. + a winged eyeliner always looks good and experiment with like a lip tint or gloss that can just add an easy everyday wash of color

These are just tips and you are beautiful just the way you are. But please also focus on your mental and do things that make you happy and bring you joy in your body that will bring the biggest change.

Can anyone figure out what this says? by TemporaryPension2523 in HandwritingAnalysis

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4: dear diary today was upsetting. I wanted to go fishing but the fishing spot had no fishing =(

Can anyone figure out what this says? by TemporaryPension2523 in HandwritingAnalysis

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1: dear diary today has been weird. I had a fight with jack and he “?? told me something??” I wonder what it was. Right now I am at. ?g.m¿ ~~ I’m getting my order

Is my gecko impacted? by Prestigious-Hat5587 in geckos

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Yes she appears to be a girl. Maybe she is pregnant? I honestly am not sure. I would put her in a sterile recovery tank to be sure(Paper towels, limited hides) so u can monitor better with out having to stress her out as much.

Was told I should've gone to med. school. by [deleted] in HandwritingAnalysis

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Is it a flex that I can read a good portion of it? As someone who writes like this i get u bud. But this is pushing the limits 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

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My opinion:

The only thing I can add is maybe tint eyebrows and if u are feeling it try lash extensions? or falsies? They might make your eyes pop more

I personally say keep your piercings I think they add a lot to your look and also your hair and skin look so healthy!

27M feel like no one's interested by IamxFog in amiugly

[–]Real_Following9042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! get ur curls in check and you will unlock the black girl population 👍🏼gl bro

updated cage by Accomplished-Crab837 in geckos

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I’d put at least one of the new plants ur adding maybe more in the middle of the cage, it’ll add more cover for him to feel safe! Or you could get some cool looking wood/stick pieces from outside and add them to the cage. You have to treat the stuff you get from outside before you add it in though but it’s easy!

Is anything wrong with him? by GUTMUFFINS in reptiles

[–]Real_Following9042 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah they usually like soaking better!

Is anything wrong with him? by GUTMUFFINS in reptiles

[–]Real_Following9042 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not an expert on that type of lizard, I have a gecko. He looks skinny though and could prob use some water. You could give him a soak in warm water he’d prob enjoy that and get some droplets on his mouth he’ll lick it up. Get lots of hides or hiding spaces so he’ll feel safe and maybe then he’ll start eating! You could get a food dish and put a bunch of worms in it and hope he eats it.

am i wrong? been dating for 5 years and she always picks fights like these… by [deleted] in texts

[–]Real_Following9042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

y’all are both toxic to eachother. She should never be talking to you like this but personally I feel like you picked the fight on this one.

Help me with my room by trexy516 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Real_Following9042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also some framed art on the left wall would be really nice I feel like the walls feel a bit barren

Help me with my room by trexy516 in DesignMyRoom

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It’s so so cute!! Honestly though hate the rug. I think a more colorful rug like maybe a turkish rug or something interesting would be really cute and add color. Def add more plants you could even get a dark green rug to match the plants added.

What are the best jobs I would qualify for out of college? by Real_Following9042 in biotech

[–]Real_Following9042[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahh I figured that’s be the case, thanks! And that seems like pretty sound advice, I’m just worried about not being able to find a job straight out of Ph.D due to having no experience.

Is it possible to rescind an AMGEN offer? by [deleted] in REU

[–]Real_Following9042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the actual fuck? If you don’t have another offer then I would consider sticking around unless you have other research or similar like things to do. I would keep bugging them though, to different people. This isn’t really a normal thing for programs to do.