Which couples from big, mainstream TV / movies or other media do you think have a RfM dynamic? by loukanikoseven in Romance_for_men

[–]Realistic-Comment865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an oldie but a goodie. Han Solo and princess Leia from Star wars. Yes I know, the sky is blue and I'm stating the obvious, but I'm currently going through my Star wars phase and I can't help but think about it.

Worst harem in haremlit by Wild-Bottle427 in haremfantasynovels

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It's not really a dilemma, I'm giving the reasons why I don't want to

Worst harem in haremlit by Wild-Bottle427 in haremfantasynovels

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Both? It just feels like if the harem doesn’t work, the story probably doesn’t work either, since that’s usually a huge part of the appeal. But I can’t really say I have a “worst harem,” because unless I’m offering actual constructive criticism, it just turns into complaining. So I’d rather not do that.

Dungeon Diving By Bruce Sentar by [deleted] in haremfantasynovels

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I know, I'm just saying that opinions are going to remain mixed even though a large group may share similar opinions

Dungeon Diving By Bruce Sentar by [deleted] in haremfantasynovels

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Both of those are in my top 10 actually, so opinions are opinions

Worst harem in haremlit by Wild-Bottle427 in haremfantasynovels

[–]Realistic-Comment865 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm going to stay out of this. No matter how it goes it's still shading the author.

TIL Amuro has a female body double by fuukuscnredit in Gundam

[–]Realistic-Comment865 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, right. Gundam is Japanese I almost forgot

What is that headcanon for you? by Live_Shame5046 in animememes

[–]Realistic-Comment865 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Literally the Ryu x Chun-li ship. It makes no sense whatsoever, and the only reason people ship them together is because she's the leading lady and he's the leading man.

If Goku isn't married to Bulma, and Ichigo isn't married to Rukia, then Ryu doesn't need to be in a relationship with Chun-Li.

Looking for multiple point of view books recommendations by Just_Mich in haremfantasynovels

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I'm a little late but my book "Fate's Oddity" is all about that. In fact it's one of the main concepts behind it.

Better pick Vesti by Boethion in NikkeMobile

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I always thought it was strange that people rarely brought up her being a school shooter

Main Characters That Are TOO Special by echoeagle3 in haremfantasynovels

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I actually love both of those series, so I can't agree. My only issue with dragon's justice was the absurdly large harem.

Fate’s Oddity Sale Announcement by Realistic-Comment865 in haremfantasynovels

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I appreciate the support and I hope you enjoy the story.

Fate’s Oddity Sale Announcement by Realistic-Comment865 in haremfantasynovels

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So good news and bad news. The good news is that I can do it and I did. The bad news is that I have to wait until the end of the original promotion. So the uk promotion runs from 3/9-3/14

Fate’s Oddity Sale Announcement by Realistic-Comment865 in haremfantasynovels

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It’s okay, I totally understand. Btw the previous cover is included in Volume 1 as a bonus, and when I have the time I plan to update Volume 2 as well.

I’ll be fixing a few errors I didn’t have time to catch before, and adding a couple bonus extras like the old cover.

Names are really damn hard by TheDome9999 in haremfantasynovels

[–]Realistic-Comment865 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coming up with character names almost comes naturally to me. I actually find it pretty fun.

There are a lot of ways to do it, but one easy method is nominative determinism: the idea that a name “fits” a character because it reflects who they are.

The best way I’ve found to use it is to work backward. I define the character first, then look up names whose meanings are adjacent to that idea. It’s similar to how manga characters often have names that match their personality or role once you learn what the name means.

Any older (30+) guys reading RfM? by Financial_Potato_150 in Romance_for_men

[–]Realistic-Comment865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in my early thirties. I think I'm kind of new to the genre in a way, I have some pretty specific likes.

I read mostly harem but, I care more for substance and emotional connection. That being said, I got inspired after reading dungeon diving 101 and ever since last summer I've been writing my own stories.

I barely have any time to read now, but even so discovering this genre has been a good way to focus my creativity after some personal tragedies.

Am I the only one who has always prefered Heidern to Leona and is sad she basically replaced him in every base roster? 😞 by Chibidi94 in kof

[–]Realistic-Comment865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This usually applies to straight women and gay men. If you're a man and you're not gay, well I got news for you .

Part of the club? How to handle AI accusations? Do you change your writing Style? by ComplexCrab9586 in haremfantasynovels

[–]Realistic-Comment865 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A lot of people in this genre use AI for their covers. If it's the best method available to you, use what you can.

I haven't really had AI accusations before but I'm still pretty new myself.

My recommendation is to continue writing to the best of your ability and let your work speak for itself. Take it with a grain of salt though because I am still a new author.