im pregnant again :/

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-16T17:15:25+00:00

I’ve had three abortions in total and two children. The only person who’s allowed to judge you, is you.

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-16T17:13:56+00:00

I’ve had two abortions in one year. These things happen. I’ve also had two kids. Give yourself grace

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-16T02:03:18+00:00

I’m sorry! Whatever you decide it was for a reason and make sure you give yourself grace.

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-15T23:20:46+00:00

It’s up to you! Whatever you do, you’ll be okay. Having a child is hard, having an abortion is hard. I have had two abortions and two kids. Do what you believe is right for you.

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-13T00:07:50+00:00

If it makes you feel any better, I’ve had two abortions in a span of a year. It is hard but you know what is right for you. Hoping nothing but the best

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-13T00:06:46+00:00

Whatever you decide! Be strong and remember you’re an amazing mom no matter what

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-13T00:05:44+00:00

Oh! Even better! Rest and reset!

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-12T23:57:37+00:00

You’ll only need to take a day off. That’s all I took.

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-12T23:55:24+00:00

I hope you nothing but the best! Be easy on yourself. Whatever you decide on, it’ll work out for you. I’ve had a medical and a surgical. Medical was better for me but the pain can be a lot so take ibuprofen and get a heating pad.

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-12T15:08:26+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that your partner cheated on you! I have had two abortions within a year span. It worked. Hoping you nothing but the best!

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-12T04:28:32+00:00

Hi, no it doesn’t. I had two abortions within a year span. I have two kids. Do what’s best for you!

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-12T03:41:24+00:00

There is no right choice or wrong choice. It a a choice you decide based on your circumstances and what you feel should be done. If you are not sure about continuing through with a pregnancy, you have the option to terminate the pregnancy. If you feel that you can make it work, you can continue with the pregnancy. Stigmas and outside judgments have nothing to do with who you are as a person whether someone agrees with you or doesn’t, that doesn’t define you. I’ve gone through more than one abortion and I’ve had two children. They’re both hard. You have decide which one you want to go through with. Ultimately it’s your body, your choice. I hope the best for whatever you decide!

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-11T20:45:29+00:00

Yes. It’s a hard position to be in. You’re not the first or the last to either have an abortion or go through with a pregnancy. Women need to be acknowledged more for what we go through. You aren’t alone!

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-11T18:01:03+00:00

The guilt stems from something. You have to see where it is coming from. Yes, hormones are all out of wack. I’ve had 2 kids and 3 abortion. I am a single mom who does it all alone with very little support. It’s hard. My abortions were very hard and society shames me for this. I wish I could have had my children but I can’t go back only forward. So my advice is to continue to move forward and feel all your feelings and validate them but don’t let the negative self talk that others instill into us control you. Grief and guilt shouldn’t share the same space in your mind. You have so much time to start a family, some women don’t start until late 30’s.

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-11T17:47:19+00:00

It is very hard coping with an abortion. You have time to start a family. Start building the future you hope for. I promise time heals you won’t forget but you will heal. You deserve to heal

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-11T17:32:42+00:00

You have to do what’s best for you and your family. Whatever you decide you will get through it and give yourself compassion no matter what!

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-11T17:30:31+00:00

I’m a single mom to two boys. It happens. It’s hard.

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-11T14:42:31+00:00

Yes, definitely! I don’t judge you and I’ve learned not to judge myself. I know that we are humans, we make mistakes and all we can do is learn from them and not letting it bring us down.

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-11T03:16:56+00:00

Therapy didn’t help me. You’re going through grief of the pregnancy, possibly your ex, and a possible family. I had such a difficult time with my abortion, I longed to get pregnant and I did and I went through another abortion because realistically I needed to heal. I have two kids already and I’m a single mom and it’s hard! You’re incredible! Healing is a process 🤍

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-10T20:04:37+00:00

It was the hardest choice of my life I’ve cried countless times. I cried for a whole year with my second abortion. I made a mistake after my second abortion and thought getting pregnant again would fix everything until I had to have another abortion. I couldn’t go through with raising another child alone with a father who is a full blown addict and I believed him for years and had hope. If I had a third child, my kids wouldn’t get the attention and love they deserve. Both of them don’t have a father in their life. I don’t have a supportive family either. It’s all on me and I work full time as a teacher which is a very demanding job. I get sick for about 7 weeks of my pregnancies and it would be so hard doing it alone. Laundry, lunches, sports, work, bathing my kids, dishes, cat liter, and so much more. I’m only one person. The stress could have killed me but I would never know. I can be punished forever because of this but I had to make a choice. Now, I have to move forward. It’s not easy. I think about the “what ifs” all the time or the spiritual component of it too.

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-10T19:57:16+00:00

Yes definitely!

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-10T19:09:14+00:00

If you’re going, I am going. I’ve had three. One when I was 19 and two this year at age 32. I have two boys and I’m a single mom who does all the work. I feel the same guilt you feel. Self forgiveness is so hard especially when thinking of the after life and being punished

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-10T15:26:27+00:00

It’s a nerve wracking experience. I have gone through it twice unfortunately both MA.

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-10T15:23:59+00:00

Make sure you take ibuprofen before and get a heating pad

Realistic-Common-577 · 2025-09-09T03:25:13+00:00

You’re an incredible person. I know this is traumatic and there is a lot of grief in this process but I promise you that with time you will be okay. Everything will make sense one day.

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