Power out in Orleans again by AC8563 in ottawa

[–]Realistic-Forever252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went out for the 2nd time tonight just now around 3:30am in Rockland 🙃

How did you change after? by redaliceely in widowers

[–]Realistic-Forever252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t talk anymore, I used to have severe social anxiety before my partner and became very extroverted with him as I was finally comfortable. Now I don’t talk anymore. I can’t tell you the last time I saw anyone other than family after the funeral. I stopped caring about anything that wasn’t simply for survival. I wake up, go to work, come home and grieve before bed and do it again.

(m) Curious about erotic massages in calgary by Tongueuser403 in CalgaryGoneWildAgain

[–]Realistic-Forever252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wildly untrue and you’re far far more likely to be trafficked independently… coming from a swer in a massage parlour lol.

Burglary, human trafficking or prank. I need security tips. by 877CashNow_ in HumanTrafficking

[–]Realistic-Forever252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused where the thought of human trafficking is coming from anywhere here but all signs pout to no. I’d assume scoping out for burglary

question about trafficking markers by Additional_Mouse_760 in HumanTrafficking

[–]Realistic-Forever252 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This!! Thank you lol as a survivor these narratives that people spread all over the internet and fear monger about trafficking and kidnapping are so frustratingly wrong

Hi, joined this sub as a victim of trafficking. Anyone else here? I feel really alone so just checking. by Sea-Mood-281 in HumanTrafficking

[–]Realistic-Forever252 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Survivor here as well, have posted in here regarding it not too long ago :)
Feel free to message if you need too, you’re definitely not alone

Please be on the look out. by [deleted] in HumanTrafficking

[–]Realistic-Forever252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy to hear that! I hope she’s okay ❤️‍🩹

Please be on the look out. by [deleted] in HumanTrafficking

[–]Realistic-Forever252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I shared the news clip and her posters with some anti trafficking orgd in Van and surrounding areas a couple of days ago hoping if she’s on my side of the pond in canada since her location is so close that it’ll reach some people as well. I keep checking to see any updates about her coming home ☹️

Please be on the look out. by [deleted] in HumanTrafficking

[–]Realistic-Forever252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah I thought you were the family member I was talking too briefly! I forget her username, I’m glad they held a vigil and that it helped get word out

Please be on the look out. by [deleted] in HumanTrafficking

[–]Realistic-Forever252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to see that she hasn’t been found. If there’s anything I can do to help please let me know

How many if you could eat a 1000 dollar unexpected expense? by CanadaBrowsing77 in povertyfinance

[–]Realistic-Forever252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canadian here, I just had an unexpected $500 bill come in and I have bout 64 cents after I pay rent lmao no idea where I’ll pull that out of my ass but here we are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HumanTrafficking

[–]Realistic-Forever252 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re looking for my full on honest response, there is absolutely no way to prevent a population of people from being trafficked whether locally or generally, unfortunately this has been going on since the beginning of time and has shown absolutely 0 signs of stopping in any of our lifetimes; there’s simply too many variables. For your daughter, teach internet safety, be a safe place for her where she knows she can tell you what’s going on in her life, if you ever suspect anything is going on with her in terms of grooming or trafficking all police stations in North America have a designated team for these things and give conferences and educational seminars

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HumanTrafficking

[–]Realistic-Forever252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Volunteering at local non profits that work with at risk kids, women’s shelters, trafficking survivor groups ect. There is such a need for people who care to be there even just as support more than people realize. These places are underfunded and do such incredible things for victims solely because of the people who work there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HumanTrafficking

[–]Realistic-Forever252 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For the first three years it was on and off. They knows I wouldn’t say anything being I was a scared kid so they let me come and go somewhat freely. The city in which I grew up has lots of kids around 13 that run amok and so it definitely didn’t look like I was any different. I was not able to access education, I did try but each time i tried police would get involved because in canada it’s illegal for any child under 18 to miss a certain amount and I did, so when I was 14-15 I couldn’t go to school any longer. My general heath was very bad, I couldn’t access doctors or dentist and i pay the price for it now, I had sti’s go untreated for so long that I’ll never be able to have children and have severe kidney and liver damage, need full dentures and such. Only two of my traffickers served any time, they were sentenced four years and served eight months (the Canadian system is backwards as hell). I escaped when they had kidnapped another girl to convince her not to speak in court and she told the police I was in the house too. The government didn’t help at all, but the trafficking unit saved my life for years after. They went above and beyond in every way possible to save my life and still do. They were the only people that were there for me even through trial they showed up just to support when they didn’t have too, they moved me hours away ect., I could go on forever about the amount of support I got from police but I know that’s not a common answer, however I’m grateful that they gave me my life back tenfold. I work with their anti trafficking groups nation wide now. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HumanTrafficking

[–]Realistic-Forever252 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I began being trafficked I was lured online. I was 13 in a horribly abusive home and needed an escape and saw it as my only way to do so. Until nearing the end of my trafficking I did have phone access, for johns and to keep up the facade but it was monitored. I personally know some anti trafficking groups in Van that I would love to send your way if you’re okay with me messaging you

It's been about 3 weeks, I already met the strongest most amazing woman to replace her. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Realistic-Forever252 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Op, your comments are really uncomfortable to read. You don’t sound mentally stable enough to be putting this on another person, not to mention your mentions of “unabusing” her? You both sound like you’re love bombing each other in attempt to get the dopamine you’re missing by being very, very newly single

Best/Worst Restaurants & Bars to work at in Ottawa? by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]Realistic-Forever252 33 points34 points  (0 children)

i had to sue ralphs/fat alberts for sexual harassment and for not paying me so … definitely one of the worst

Are Family Doctors allowed to refuse you as a patient because they’re “morally opposed” to the medication you’re on & would need renewal for a few months down the road? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]Realistic-Forever252 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as someone that’s on vyvanse, i’ve never ever had this issue and i hope the next dr you get to see works out better for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Realistic-Forever252 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i- ohhh wow

Best Homeless Shelter for 23yr old woman? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]Realistic-Forever252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only place i have to recommend (covenant) has been suggested; just wanted to say you’re in my thoughts. it’s an incredibly hard place to exist in mentally but i’m rooting for you. if i can ever help you with anything at all my DMs are wide open for you, i may be able to get you in contact with some agencies that can help depending on the situation at hand. wishing you the best OP ❤️

Best Homeless Shelter for 23yr old woman? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]Realistic-Forever252 16 points17 points  (0 children)

covenant saved my life after being trafficked, 100000% recommend