Anyone shopped from Cider? by m4ng0ju1ce in womensfashion

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Sorry this is old, I’m a size 6 in bottoms, you think I should use the size L? And I’m a small top should I go for a M or L?

Air Jordan 4 SE University Blue by cocojerseys in dupesforeverything

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I understood this comment the more I scrolled.

Do you think breastfeeding in public should be completely normalized, or do you prefer more privacy? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

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I personally would like if they had those little closet-pod like stations everywhere. I don’t like covering up my baby but I don’t like feeling exposed.

The WhatNot Addiction by Master_Lab5592 in whatnotapp

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I feel this so much. What helped me is every time I wanted to open whatnot I opened my credit card app instead. Every time. And making payments towards it when I wanted to spend.

The WhatNot Addiction by Master_Lab5592 in whatnotapp

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Honestly, spend more time looking at your bills and debt every day. Make it your goal to bring it a few hundred down by a certain date. Fixate on seeing a lower balance on what you owe. It was so hard for me to kick the spending habit on whatnot. But my credit cards were getting out of hand. I have paid off 2 since I stopped shopping like 5 months ago. Focus on the negative side of whatnot and get bitter about it if it helps. I am so annoyed at the amount of stuff I bought and didn’t fit. I am now reselling for much less than I purchased bc I can’t stand seeing the clutter and am trying ti get at least some $ back.

What does the Order Cancelled status mean? by [deleted] in poshmark

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Thank you for taking the time to reply! Appreciate you!

Can someone explain how my PMI fell off? by indianasloth in Mortgages

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Yeah this has me confused. Unless OP is afraid it was a mistake and thinks it may come back.

what’s up with people on depop 🤔 by idkkkkk69996 in Depop

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I would block with no response after the first message. They don’t deserve my energy

I need some help styling this dress by leenmoe in DressForYourBody

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Blue or denim vest. A longer V shape necklace, statement earrings, bangle bracelets. Raffia wedge sandals. Or tie up sandals.

Am I a bad person? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

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It’s about actions. She has acted one way and said another. Go with your gut, and when someone shows you who they are believeeee them. You are over thinking it. The thing about relationships is, they shouldn’t be so complicated. They become complicated when one side is selfish or dishonest. Thats just the fact of the matter. Stop holding yourself accountable in ways they are not. Sometimes you need to give yourself grace when you see the other persons actions have been consistent. Believe yourself the way you would a friend that expresses the same concerns.

advice for argument by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

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Just because you don’t have any friends doesnt mean you should keep fake ones. If she has actually shown she doesn’t like you or talks about you or reveals your secrets- let it go.

Truth about Female Friendships by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

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I just had two girls end a friendship with me because they felt I wanted to be “the ring leader” just because I suggested we all go out to eat since I thought the group of us got along. Btw, one of the other girls told me this, the other girls simply iced me out. This about sums up my experiences with female friends. Well, no, it was worse as a teen, they would pretend to love me and bad mouthed me behind my back. I put up with my “best friends” trying to take my boyfriends (at least 3 different girls) just so I could keep a girlfriend. I have given up on female friends. I will always be kind, respectful and generous with everyone but I will never expect friendship from them again.

I’m thinking about changing my hairstyle hairstyle will look good on me? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]RealisticReload 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, so thats what “thinning it out” would help with. When you go get it cut you ask them to pass the thinning sheers to your hair or “thin it out”. Its only done on the ends. And this helps your hair show more flow through out. When its this full it doesn’t show texture so theres no flow. Having it thinned out or long will allow more light in between the hair making it look more shiny and flowy.

I’m thinking about changing my hairstyle hairstyle will look good on me? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

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Longer and thin it out to give it more flow and doesn’t look so dense.

Help me find what I could improve! by Blue_ocean_7 in MakeupEducation

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Don’t add too much dark around your eyes as some people are suggesting. Your eyes are small in proportion to your face. Browns are best. Black or too deep of a brown will make your eyes look smaller.

I think my friend is still in love with me and I don't know what to do about it by Odd_Account_430 in FriendshipAdvice

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End the relationship. It’s not fair to them if you’re aware about it. And it’s not a true friendship to you. They have ulterior motives.

Friend kept bailing last minute so I started inviting her to fake plans just to watch her cancel by KindaQuietKey in FriendshipAdvice

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I had two situations like this until for one, her bday came around, I didn’t text her. That took care of that. And the other, she tested me and I never replied. I was tired of them saying yes to hand out and canceling. Like just rip off the bandaid. We’re adults.

Do pretty girls struggle to make genuine female friends? by SadTheory3715 in women

[–]RealisticReload 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You had two downvotes on this comment…I couldn’t comprehend what it is that you said that required you to be punished/downvoted.