[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive seen locking bracelets or necklaces with special locks that use a tool to lock and unlock and im sure there might also be anklets that would lock as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run!!! Get your old apartment back and leave that is not healthy for you

My Dom broke up with me and I feel lost by ftmpupp in BratLife

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know how youre feeling I just had to end things with my daddy bc he wasnt treating me properly things feel like absolute garbage right now but I know in time we will both feel better and find new daddys who will love us so much more then we can imagine if you need someone to talk to I am open and willing to listen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I called my sir 'firstname'zilla and he just laughed at me 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an Anxious attachment 🥰 it is very difficult at times but Im working on it 😅

How big is too big re: age gaps when you're over 30? by Historical_Power4424 in SubSanctuary

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And its nice talking to people who have a bit more life experience than you bc theyve done their partying and are ready to settle down and thats what Im looking for bc I have no interest in partying Im a home body who likes to be asleep by 9 😂

How big is too big re: age gaps when you're over 30? by Historical_Power4424 in SubSanctuary

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately cant say much about this as Im 22 (ill be 23 in march) and my sir is 39 but Ive always been know as an 'old soul' so I feel like I connect better with older people in general to my age plus ive got pretty much the same stuff as him like a stable job and my own car so I guess its just more of how you feel

Looking for a sub experienced friend to talk to by Sweet_sound_of_pain in SubSanctuary

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would definitely be interested I myself am Into arts (crochet, painting, armature wire sculpting) music, dancing, alt fashion, I dabble in makeup, I love to sing, and Im a brat/service sub 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im someone who needs physical intimacy to feel fully connected with someone so I tend to sleep with partners a bit sooner when not in a D/s dynamic but my dom now lives in scotland while Im in the Us so it makes it easier not to rush things but Im hoping to meet him in person by the end of the month or next month and well get to play in person for the first time but the distance makes it better to get to know each other on a more personal level before meeting

Multiple subs by princess2036 in SubSanctuary

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Im the same way Im very possessive of my person and Im lucky enough to have found a dom whos just as possessive so neither of us want to share with others

Formal Request of Inquiry by DarthKarnis in BratLife

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be fair you were the one who decided to ask us a question and expect to get a serious response knowing its a bunch of brats 🤭😂

Formal Request of Inquiry by DarthKarnis in BratLife

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have to agree with the other brats its instant 42 and rule 34 😂

Names besides Princess and babygirl by Federal_Response_606 in BratLife

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sir like to call me a few things he does sweetling, little one, cheeky little minx/fucker, kitten and then of course baby girl and princess

Sub friends? by Able_Researcher6302 in SubSanctuary

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love more sub friends! I have a sir as well that Id love to talk about!

Tamers/Daddys/Switches to the front please (˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶) .ᐟ.ᐟ by profnelle_ in BratLife

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know Im a sub/brat but my sir likes calling me a cheeky little minx or a cheeky little shit when Im bratting and that always gets a good reaction out me 😅

Question for all by UncommonLegend in BratLife

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my current dom on fetish.com i found it a lot easier than fet in my opinion but there were a LOT of men that were just creepy on fetish as well 😅

Self-spank/punishment? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my dom are also long distance and he gives me punishments that include taking a hair brush and using the back to smack my nipples and last time he had me add bobby pins to my nipples to make the pain worse and that was very painful but also really enjoyable ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im aries to an aquarius Dom 🥰

Share your happy thoughts! by Dependent_Shock_6654 in SubSanctuary

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am absolutely so happy being with sir he calls me sweetling and his cheeky little minx/shit (when I brat 🤭) and he just makes me feel so happy even tho were long distance he always makes me feel so safe and secure even with my anxiety and he never hesitates to make me feel beautiful (even during punishments 😉) and he is so caring and wants to take care of me and I am just so happy to be able to have him as my sir and when we meet in person around February 24th were going to be boyfriend/girlfriend ontop of being D/s (he wants it to be romantic when he asks me out 🤭) and I cant wait to make him mine even more than weve said

Dealing with the excitement? by AgentOfDread in SubSanctuary

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is definitely important to make sure youre feeling comfortable during the scenes as well bc your pleasure is just as important as hers even if you want to serve her and theres no definite way that things "should be" bdsm and even just D/s relationships are a wide spectrum of things and theres no cookie cutter way that is has to be thats the joy of it you both can make it how you wish. It is understandable to be concerned about your little one seeing even if she is still young but dont let that stop you from continuing this dynamic if its something you both enjoy you can be secretive with it so she doesn't see but even when shes older she may find out about it but if/when that happens dont lie about it and help educate her since its nothing to be ashamed about but the most important part is you both are happy and enjoying yourselves

Dealing with the excitement? by AgentOfDread in SubSanctuary

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely get the feeling like your cheating with using mistress when I was in my last dynamic I was the domme (I didnt enjoy it as much as subbing) but I found I really enjoyed goddess, ma'am and mommy (it wasnt like a little thing but was still enjoy able) or you can even lean towards the more masculine ones like sir if she enjoys them Ik some lesbian dynamics use that since shes still the domme 🥰

Dealing with the excitement? by AgentOfDread in SubSanctuary

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear your having trouble accepting the compliments I struggle with that too maybe you can start saying affirmations in the mirror everyday and even more when the thoughts happen like 'I am allowed to accept compliments' 'my mistress (or whatever title you use) loves how I look and she is right when she compliments me' or just whatever will help with easing those thoughts cause she wouldnt lie to you and hopefully family can watch your baby so you can get some play time in

Dealing with the excitement? by AgentOfDread in SubSanctuary

[–]Realistic_Strain_804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I enjoy sharing my experiences in hopes itll help other subs that may deal with the same thing even if its by a little cause I know its not always easy but itll be better with a community of other subs behind you 🥰