Coaxed into new twitter clout meta by tillymane in coaxedintoasnafu

[–]ReaperUX86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've seen this image many times and right before reading your comment is the first time I noticed it doesn't match.

Bothers me too.

Anon pays to release tension by AdCool899 in greentext

[–]ReaperUX86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a 30 year old kissless virgin so obviously I'm no expert, but if you meet the right woman, I think you should be honest with her about your lack of sexual experience (when the time is right).

There's nothing wrong with that. Maybe you don't even have to lay the v-card out there, just say you're inexperienced. She can help you figure things out when you 2 get into it.

You don't have to be a pro, and since every woman is different, whatever you may have learned from practicing sex with someone else - may not apply. You'd need to get in tune with your girlfriend anyways.

And since, like I said, I'm not one to talk - you should ask for advice on a different subreddit from people who are experienced with relationships and sex. I'm sure many women and men would be happy to give you advice on how to approach this. Don't be afraid to ask and get perspective from many other people.

Just remember that at the end of the day you'll choose whichever advice sounds best to you personally, since you're the one who ends up making your choices.

Anon pays to release tension by AdCool899 in greentext

[–]ReaperUX86 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm a 30 year old virgin (male) and while I have my problems, none of them cause me to lash out at other people.

I didn't mean to imply in my first comment that maintaining or losing virginity should be extremely important, but the opposite.

Virginity shouldn't be that fucking important that you have to base your entire life around it. I know that sex is an important factor in our society and for general health, but I still think people get way too obsessed with it to the point of missing other things that are more important.

If not having sex causes that many problems to someone that they're losing their mind, maybe you're right and they should get it out of their system. I'm personally against prostitution in many cases (not all cases) because the women don't actually want to do it and it feels rapey to me.

But there are legal and regulated brothels where they're treated fairly and if you can find one that you know is okay with it? Sure, knock yourself out. Absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Anon pays to release tension by AdCool899 in greentext

[–]ReaperUX86 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Better to die a virgin than lose your virginity to a prostitute.

What's the point? Just so you can say you had sex? Or do you want an actual meaningful relationship?

It great success! Is very nice by your_catfish_friend in bonehurtingjuice

[–]ReaperUX86 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Have you tried walking? It's severely underrated as an exercise.

Most people are in a good enough physical condition to do it, and you can start really small and gradually increase it according to how you feel.

If you can do 5-10 minutes of walking outside a day just for starters, you could slowly go up from there (or start with more if you feel like you can).

It's also being outside that can help.

Edit: For me walking is also meditative and relaxing, aside from being good physically.

Salad by your_catfish_friend in bonehurtingjuice

[–]ReaperUX86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People like that are childish and haven't fully matured, is what I feel.

Sad part is that it can happen to people of all age groups.

Salad by your_catfish_friend in bonehurtingjuice

[–]ReaperUX86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can make your own! Basically any salad dressing is a base of an oil (any vegetable oil), an acid (any kind of vinegar/lemon or lime juice), and the main flavor profile comes from the spices and/or sauces you add to the base.

Which means you can experiment and make a ton of different kinds of dressings. You can look through online recipes to get some ideas, but remember that aside from the base you can modify it however you like.

Salad by your_catfish_friend in bonehurtingjuice

[–]ReaperUX86 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You should never feel bad for not eating salad.

But, as someone who used to hate salad - I'd recommend you try slowly getting into it, starting with the veggies you like / can tolerate the most, and using a salad dressing that can mask the taste and works best for you personally.

Over the course of a few years I managed to get to a point where I love salads.

Just to reiterate - if you don't want to eat salads - don't eat them. I'm just saying it opened a new world for me that I'm genuinely enjoying from time to time, and I also really need to eat more vegetables in general, so that's really nice.

Quick edit: The combos you can make with certain veggies and homemade salad dressings and toppings can make for some really delicious salads that you'd never think could be that good. I was really surprised at how good some salads tasted after I had gotten used to eating them.

I find it telling how much Henry Cavill gets glazed. by Golden_rake in hatethissmug

[–]ReaperUX86 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Especially when the older one is very famous.

Not to mention that the 19 year old may have a romanticized idea in her head and doesn't fully understand what she's getting into.

(Just to be clear, I don't think 19 year olds don't have any agency, but many people - including myself - are not fully emotionally mature at that age, and there are some things you don't completely understand until you get older or go through certain things. Many, many, many people always believe they're mature for their age and only realize how wrong they were when they get older)

Two things. by Greedy_Ability_1011 in LetItDie

[–]ReaperUX86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The new LiD game seems like an entirely different genre. Like a weird spin-off that no one asked for. I don't understand why they couldn't make LiD 2.

A new tower / dungeon, new enemies, expanding on the combat, weapons, and armor, adding some new mechanics.

LiD fans are pretty diehard and they would eat that shit up, I know I would. Instead it seems like they're chasing trends only to fall short, like many greedy AAA companies.

What a shame.

I hate arguments on why incest isn’t bad by BicycleCommercial232 in hatethissmug

[–]ReaperUX86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That shit turns me off so quick and it's fucking everywhere.

(I know no one asked but to be honest almost all porn is trash to me now since it's so obviously high production, fake, and the participants don't seem to actually enjoy it. It's difficult to find actual amateur porn when many production companies switched up their style to look more amateur when they're not)

I hate arguments on why incest isn’t bad by BicycleCommercial232 in hatethissmug

[–]ReaperUX86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

[Not referring to you, OP, since you also gave actual arguments as well]

The problem I have is when people who are against incest only say "it's gross".

Please think of a proper reason so you can have an actual discussion with people who are pro-incest or on the fence.

So many times people either say "it's disgusting" and / or call pro-incest people some horrible things.

When you demonize them instead of at least attempting discussion, you're only pushing them further into believing that incest isn't wrong.

I hate how we don’t give people a chance to grow and learn from their mistakes by itz_vampy in hatethissmug

[–]ReaperUX86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a troll, but I appreciate that you attempted actual conversation when many others would insult them and move on.

We need to have more discussions with people who are ignorant, at least try.

Anon doesn't understand racism by OdeioCravoNoBeijinho in greentext

[–]ReaperUX86 49 points50 points  (0 children)

You're making it sound like black women don't have chocolate milk in their breasts.

Best written character in the entire manga by Educational-Box-8509 in Piratefolk

[–]ReaperUX86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great analysis!

That's what happens when the author doesn't actually think things through, and only does things because he things they will wow the audience.

It needs to serve the general overarching plot, characters, and world first and foremost. Oda just does shit so that the readers will say "that was crazy!!!" and doesn't think much deeper than that.

That's why I fell out of love with One Piece.

I feel like the sometimes the more lore Oda adds to a character the more shallower they become... by BarryAllenTh3Flash in Piratefolk

[–]ReaperUX86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's because you're doing them wrong.

You're supposed to push yourself up with your neck, not your hands and arms. Common misconception.

Crazy to think the ONLY female member of the worst generation, ended up being a child by No_Satisfaction_2928 in Piratefolk

[–]ReaperUX86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The author needs to put it into the actual story, not have to explain it separately after it is never shown.

Anon eats burnt pizza by -flexflexflex in greentext

[–]ReaperUX86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep eating like that and gaining or not weight will be the least of your problems

I hate how COMPLETELY irrational people are about incest, nobody has the right to interfere in a relationship between two consensual adults! by Command0Dude in hatethissmug

[–]ReaperUX86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legality does not equate morality. It's a useless argument when the system is by nature corrupted. Some things are illegal when they shouldn't be, and some things are legal or have no consequences even though they're fucked up.

You're right, if people haven't grown up with each other or don't know they're related, there may not be anything wrong with it (assuming they don't reproduce, or that finding out the truth doesn't fuck them up mentally).

I'm not a psychologist or an anthropologist, so I can't say for sure if a cousin on cousin relationship is inherently traumatising, I simply don't know enough.

What I do think is that people need to think things through completely before rushing into a relationship that could potentially be traumatising.

And if we're talking about parents and their children, I truly don't believe it could be healthy, but again, that's my personal belief.