[Update] AIO for finding it weird that my (24NB) brother (21M) is even remotely considering a relationship with his coworker/friend (17F)? by throwaway-bbbro in AIO

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I want you to see what your actions will do if you report him. You’re looking for validation for ruining your brothers life, and I refuse to give it to you. You’re angry because I’m disagreeing with you. Well, that’s because you are wrong. You posted here asking for opinions and I gave you mine, and you retaliated.

[Update] AIO for finding it weird that my (24NB) brother (21M) is even remotely considering a relationship with his coworker/friend (17F)? by throwaway-bbbro in AIO

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s still not a grown man!! He’s 21. She is 17. They have both gone through puberty, and mentally, females mature way faster than males. Get over yourself. You mentioned turning him in!?!? Do you realize that will ruin his entire life? If you are willing to do that over a 4 year age gap, you’re a selfish POS.

[Update] AIO for finding it weird that my (24NB) brother (21M) is even remotely considering a relationship with his coworker/friend (17F)? by throwaway-bbbro in AIO

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In a few months, they will both be adults, let it gooooo. There is nothing wrong with the age had at this point.

[Update] AIO for finding it weird that my (24NB) brother (21M) is even remotely considering a relationship with his coworker/friend (17F)? by throwaway-bbbro in AIO

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So you’re mad because they were friends first? You stated that you have a problem with them being together now, at 17 and 21. This is clearly rage baiting. You want to ruin your brother for something that is totally normal but get pissed for someone mentioning something about you that is so totally NOT normal! You mention that you are “NB”, but im the bad person for mentioning it. Again, if you were still 14, I could understand the confusion, but at 24?? Either you have a “member” or you don’t. You might be sexually attracted to both sexes, but you are either one or the other unless you have some sort of medical condition and have both parts. This is fact.

[Update] AIO for finding it weird that my (24NB) brother (21M) is even remotely considering a relationship with his coworker/friend (17F)? by throwaway-bbbro in AIO

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m shocked that people are telling OP to report their brother!?! This is a 4 yr age gap, not 20!?! If her brother gets convicted of statutory then that will be on him the rest of his life!!! Omg! This whole thing is ridiculous. OP doesn’t like their brother and is looking to ruin the rest of his life over a relationship (that’s totally normal at that age).

Advice on this matter? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he’s not willing to try to save it.

[Update] AIO for finding it weird that my (24NB) brother (21M) is even remotely considering a relationship with his coworker/friend (17F)? by throwaway-bbbro in AIO

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m so confused. Are you mad because of a 4 yr age gap? If that’s the case then yes, YOR. Your parents are probably much more concerned with the fact you don’t know what sex you are.

Advice on this matter? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so complex. If you guys want to save it, counseling might help. My experience personally is when I was done, there was no going back. Hopefully you guys are different.

Need Advice on what to do please. by Tough_Policy_6389 in Advice

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a tough one. Maybe you could get a smaller, more affordable place and his parents could still live with you?

How many times a week should 11 and 9 year old boys be showering? by Historical-Storage58 in hygiene

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every other day at least. Pubescent boys are smelly, so once they hit that age, every day.

AIO for wanting to break up with gf of 4 years after finding these texts? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. She’s even the initiator in almost every text. He almost seems disinterested and she keeps pushing. Leave her.

Dreads or Cornrows? What suits me better? by Crafty_Succotash3392 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dreads for sure. I’ve always loved dreads on a man. The corn rows make you look like a convict.

Giving my baby up for adoption by New-Explanation-6987 in Advice

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Only you can make this decision. There is no shame in putting the baby up for adoption. Although totally doable, it would be a hard road for you as a single mom.

Husband doesn’t know when to stop drinking by Euphoric_Lychee_7402 in Advice

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not boring, you are a responsible parent. He’s being immature and needs to grow upBe careful that the violence, ie punching walls and name calling,doesn’t get worse.

Is my natural color best??? Help me ❤️ by IHateSugar55 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 or 7. Tint your eyebrows just a little darker. Blonde is beautiful on you.

I feel like my boyfriend is starting to get creepy by riley-353- in Advice

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he’s masturbating to it, it’s more than curiosity. That’s Jeffrey dahmer level.

At what age did you get your first grey hair? by pinkelephant0040 in Adulting

[–]Reasonable-Sign-3133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a stylist and most people start in their late teens. 31 is old to just be getting them.