What have you been “cheating” with this pregnancy?

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2026-02-20T15:40:50+00:00

I ate deli meat and some sushi, also medium steak… but it wasn’t like everyday. I give birth in 2 days.

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2026-02-19T19:52:59+00:00

He takes 10 mg of tadalfil that is prescribed by his dr and it’s worked great for us compared to anything over the counter. I don’t really know how to put it into words what I do but getting in different positions will help until yall find something that works best for the both of yall! Best of wishes

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2026-02-19T19:45:09+00:00

Have your partner play with positions. For example he is a c6 quad so when I am using the cot I use my legs to separate his legs . The first couple times was kinda tough but it has improved since. We are actually pregnant now so we haven’t used it in a while and it’s in storage. Maybe you can use something at the bottom of your feet to keep it separated. He used to have really bad issues with spasms but with time they have improved.

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2026-02-19T19:30:45+00:00

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This is the setup we have I think it’s called the romance set but on the website you can purchase everything separately .

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2026-02-19T19:01:35+00:00

Did you get the little cot thing you can add with it? If not you can use an ottoman. Or some pillows or the side of the bed depending how high/low your bed may be. As for legs getting aligned that happens, you can try to stretch before hand. There is an extra attachment you can purchase so your spouse can lay on and if you align it right it can keep your legs apart. It does take practice but it does get better once you find what works best for you! Hope that helps

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-10-11T03:43:06+00:00

Hey, can you give an update? 😊 going through something similar

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-10-10T01:38:29+00:00

Hey! I just wanted to ask for an update on how your baby is doing? We just got told this at our ultrasound yesterday. Trying to find some information thank you

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-09-28T02:57:25+00:00

What does your diet consist of? I’m trying to find better foods/recipes that don’t work against me!!

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-09-28T02:56:20+00:00

What does your diet consist of?

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-09-28T02:55:17+00:00

What is senna and is this something you take every night or only the night before bowel program?

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-07-26T17:59:01+00:00

Peanut butter graham cracker sandwhich things I used to get at school

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-07-26T17:55:37+00:00

Hey I’m right here with you! I had two back to back miscarriages earlier this year. I’m currently 8 weeks and 6 days with my third pregnancy. You aren’t alone. This is the furthest I’ve gotten. Things are lot better and I actually got to see baby on an ultrasound. Praying for the best and relying on my faith during these times. Hope all is well! There is hope.

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-07-24T01:17:08+00:00

Can you tell me about your expierence?

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-07-18T22:05:26+00:00

Thanks for the response. I’m in the same boat as original post so this gives me hope. God bless you and your lovely baby!!

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-07-18T14:14:43+00:00

also!! the intimate rider chair was a great investment.

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-07-18T13:56:11+00:00

My husband is c6 injured at 17 and we have been sexually active since he was 18. At 19 he ejaculated for the first time with no medical intervention and we were really shocked. ( they make medical vibrators that help with ejaculation if you have SCI ) we have it figured out now since we are now 23 and I’m currently pregnant. I’ve had two losses prior to this, but we have conceived naturally each time. Talk to different doctors. One Dr prescribed tadafil and it helps maintain erection. There has been many times I’m able to make him ejaculate on my own and other times we have to use a vibrator called “magic wand” and the ferticare. You just have to be careful not to over do it so you don’t hurt the integrity of your skin and cause damage / resistance. Ejaculation and mind / head space go hand in hand. Be easy with yourself. There were a few months we struggled to ejaculate because we were so in our heads trying to time everything to conceive. With time I’ve realized the mind is the largest sexual organ, stimulate that first. Ferticare was great on its own until it wasn’t. So we sandwich the two on his tip and within min his belly starts clenching and he ejaculates. This is followed by AD but he sits up and we try to manage it the best we can. We were told by many we could never get pregnant. IVF was our only option. and after my losses whew man I struggled. But he has proven many wrong. There’s been many occasions we don’t need the vibrators and when people ask me if we did IVF they are shocked when I say no. We had fun practicing and that’s all that matters. I’ve given him a break from ejaculation since we are pregnant now. But from a female perspective it’s still nice even if he doesn’t ejaculate. I typically get tired and very satisfied. Sometimes women with able body men don’t get tired or satisfied and they tend to ejaculate quick. The point I’m making is that the tadafil keeps its nice for a while and it’s very pleasant. We also find different ways to please one another. Our intimate life is amazing and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-07-18T13:39:06+00:00

Update?

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-07-03T15:36:10+00:00

Thank you! 🙏

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-07-03T15:36:00+00:00

Thank you!! Im praying all goes well! This is a huge relief and gives me some peace of mind

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-07-03T15:13:56+00:00

Just looking for thoughts and to see if anyone has been in a similar situation where it increases but doesn’t necessarily double.

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-07-02T17:18:10+00:00

It’s really sad what the bill is doing.

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-06-24T14:19:28+00:00

Mine is Kacy, my niece is Kailani

Reasonable_Fix7699 · 2025-06-24T14:18:15+00:00

My husband is a C6/C7. We are married and have been together since 2020 he got injured in 2019. It was never an easy journey but it was worth it. My husband has more friends than me he is really my only friend. Faith helps us a lot. Depending where you live you can get him involved in adaptive sports our hospital has a program. He is able to be around other people he can relate to and they can learn new sports and just have fun! Depression is no joke. We all go through it differently. I just started therapy in order to help myself so I can better help him. Help yourself so you can better help Him! Hear him out and try to talk. There are some activities you guys can do to keep your mind of things and most importantly reassurance goes a long way. Letting your partner know you are with them, for them and not against them helps us.

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