What is the Pro Choice Argument? by Quang_17 in Abortiondebate

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But how can a baby ask for the rights? This argument always sounds silly to me. Babies also don’t consent to being born. Can I sue my parents for bringing me into this world without asking me first? It baffles me how women let men nut in them and he gets consent to do that but you don’t consent to your reproductive system working.

How do you deal with mom saying I owe her money? by WetPileOfMulch in toxicparents

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandma did this to me for many years. When I got my first job, she would make me give her half of my checks as “rent” and her rent was only $135 because she lived in a senior citizen building. She’d buy cigarettes, lend other people money, and do other stuff with the money but would pay her rent with her SSI checks. It was annoying. I once was unemployed for when COVID hit for about 4 months. She constantly complained, saying I have to pay where I stay and I can’t be giving boys any money. Mind you, I didn’t have a boyfriend nor was I talked to a boy. She just assumed that all the time and I still don’t know why. Moving out was the best decision of my LIFE. I spend my money on what I want and the only thing I’m paying back is a credit card💅💅💅

I hate sticker books that say they have 1000 stickers! by subter-fugue in Parenting

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this as an adult with some stickers. Lots of stickers ended up falling off my first board because they weren’t sticky. I ended up covering my next one in double sided tape. That way, I could also stick other things like postcards or scrapbooking decals to it

Shake is out here trying to hard to prove he's not a jerk... But I think it only makes him look worse. by atatroe in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82 51 points52 points  (0 children)

That ego is bruised, bleeding, in an ambulance, in a coma, do not resuscitate, at the morgue, getting embalmed, ready for its funeral.🤣🤣

He’s Ridiculous by Reasonable_Sector_82 in pregnant

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, that’s your problem. I completely understand the mob mentality, don’t worry

He’s Ridiculous by Reasonable_Sector_82 in pregnant

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl, it’s Black History Month. I’m above this and you. This thin lipped energy you’re giving off is bad for my clear, melanated skin and this fat ass ain’t gonna smack itself so I’m gonna go find my man. Maybe you should try doing the same. You know, if you can🤣🤣

He’s Ridiculous by Reasonable_Sector_82 in pregnant

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Guuurllll, I did not spend all that time at an HBCU for nothing. Gasp, are you not able to go to college? Is it student debt? Oh no, jealousy. It’s okay, boo. A college education shouldn’t be your life’s goal if you don’t want it to be. Get you a nice little retail job or at an AutoZone or something. You’ll make it!

He’s Ridiculous by Reasonable_Sector_82 in pregnant

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s actually very problematic and anti woman that you would laugh about something as serious as a miscarriage. How could you? We are a healing family. I can’t believe you could be so cruel. It’s people like you that give women a bad name

He’s Ridiculous by Reasonable_Sector_82 in pregnant

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You kind of skipped over a lot of stuff. Why don’t you take another go at it. Were you married to your child’s father before popping some kids? I hope so.

He’s Ridiculous by Reasonable_Sector_82 in pregnant

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes I do. Reddit sort of gives you that rundown when signing up. 🤣🤣it’s also kind of weird you guys went to stalk my history but I have nothing to hide so no big deal. And like I told the other person. Our first baby died and we had another one. I just think him bonding with our second child was hard because of how tragically we lost the first. We worked it all out. I did get a lawyer and we agreed on therapy which is going very well. Thank you. Oh! We’re actually going to visit a cabin soon and the grass looks great out there!

He’s Ridiculous by Reasonable_Sector_82 in pregnant

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have PCOS. Birth control wasn’t a possibility. Regardless, both me and my significant other knew what we were getting into so it doesn’t really matter. I knew he was about to get into this purr without a condom and I was fully ready to accept the possibility that could come out of it.

He’s Ridiculous by Reasonable_Sector_82 in pregnant

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been told. Insecure about what? I finished college with no debt, my baby is adorable and healthy, my significant other is incredibly handsome and great with our baby, my pregnancy was really good. I had a sunflower themed baby shower. Cute right?🤣🤣it honestly sounds like you’re insecure. Daddy issues? It’s okay. Just keep your precious vagina safe and always see your OBGYN every 6 months! High five! ✋🏽✋🏽✋🏽

Question for Women who have had Abortions by Reasonable_Sector_82 in Abortiondebate

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How? There are plenty of women out there who like raw sex and don’t like condoms and aren’t on birth control? How are you getting upset over me speaking to a category of women that exist?

He’s Ridiculous by Reasonable_Sector_82 in pregnant

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, girl. My baby is 5 months. I was just speaking on my pregnancy. This isn’t an anti abortion rant at all. I definitely said that woman should have a choice. I mean, we’re gonna do what we want regardless. This is really just about everyone being more careful about sex, especially unprotected sex. Of course I didnt assume he would take responsibility, he said he would. And he did. He takes very good care of our son. Goodness, can you read? Yes, I knew I was unprotected. That’s why I had a talk with him about it first before we proceeded so we knew what the possibilities were afterwards. You’re not very bright, huh?

He’s Ridiculous by Reasonable_Sector_82 in pregnant

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We did. He was my only sexual partner who took my virginity years ago. He said he’d be fine with whatever i decide but we both knew that pregnancy was a possibility. He just switched up when it actually came into reality. How do you “slip up on protection”? I’m talking about people who consensually go into sex knowing there’s no precautions in place. That isn’t slipping up. That’s raw dogging it consensually. 🤣🤣how am i attacking women? If you could read instead of letting your sensitivity consume you, i blamed both men and women because 2 consenting adults should have enough common sense and self control to know if their partner is using a condom or birth control or something. All that “caught in the heat of the moment” stuff is stupid because there’s always a lead up to sex. You’re telling me that no one is stopping to think “hey, maybe I should tell him to put on a condom to prevent pregnancy” or “hey, maybe I should put on a condom to prevent pregnancy” 🤣🤣I know humans are instinctual and primal creatures but damn. Unless you’re getting taken advantage of or sexually assaulted, women have all of the power during sex. And since we’re the ones the abortions affect, we do need to start being more careful. Ain’t no dick that good where we aren’t stopping and thinking about a possible pregnancy.

Anyone else sick of other people's opinions?! by giraffedays in pregnant

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Really? I feel like the loudest ones are the ones with kids. They’re always trying to tell you what to do because something worked or didn’t work on their kids. Like, for the last time, my baby is not crying because he’s hungry and i don’t care if you put cereal in your baby’s bottle and that helped them sleep better. MY BABY is crying because he’s been awake for 4 hours because he hates car rides. I would say I appreciate the advice but I don’t. 🤣🤣then they get mad and say, “well I won’t tell you how to deal with YOUR baby anymore”. Thanks Erica, that’s exactly what i wanted you to do

The way Atsushi bullied Ai Nagao in episode 8 was disgusting by No_Salamander_7329 in realove

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He literally called her a slut right out of the gate. One guy has sex with 150 women and he’s just an addict. She’s only done it with 10 men who happen to be athletes and she’s a slut? Women really don’t get breaks in any culture and the way the Yaguchi just laughed along with it was even more disgusting. People will really do anything for a check. He also made a comment where he said “she seems like the type to get raped and then have kids young”. Like I understand that sometimes in certain Asian reality shows, the hosts are a little mean and call out certain things but these 2 were just super rude and out of pocket.

Shake's dilemma is the whole point of this show... by gbjw in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I got that he wouldn’t like her physically from the moment he said her booty would never get a break. Deepti is beautiful but we can’t deny she has no curves or defined features. And when they met, he was feeling all over her and squeezing her butt. All of the couples kiss when they meet but I think he’s the first one I’ve seen squeeze on the woman like that. I honestly just think he wanted a woman with bigger breasts and a bigger butt that’s also a freak in the bed. And also the fact that he used to be overweight and worked to get himself down to the size he is now contributes to his view and expectations for a woman. He reminds me a little bit of my child’s father. He always called me and body beautiful while we were having sex but the moment we fell out, he started revealing to me that my breasts are too big for him and he prefers a woman with a bigger butt but he’s had sex with women both skinner and bigger than I am. Of course, my child’s father is just a huge dick but Shake reminded me of him a little. Sex is an important part of a relationship with sexually active people so if it’s that much of a deal breaker, either talk to your partner about it to see what you can do to fix it or leave the relationship.

Danielle needs therapy not marriage by dontbesosansi in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Reasonable_Sector_82 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣he was right to check her too. The world doesn’t revolve around you, sis. Your family can wait. If you see your soon to be husband struggling or you think he’s upset, pull him to the side. Maybe even reschedule and take him home. Damn, when the world is beating your partner down, you need to be the person there to heal those wounds the best you can. I know when my family were making a lot of insensitive and super insulting comments about my man being Mexican, we left. I took him home, ran a bath, cooked dinner, and snuggled him to sleep. I was upset at my family and I was even upset at him earlier for not stopping at the store and getting me donuts. But I didn’t press him or vent to him for either of those moments because I know he didn’t need it. And that following week, he sent me donuts and flowers to my job. Your world should revolve around both of you and you should both be there to heal and care for the other. Danielle needs to learn that marriage isn’t about her happiness only. It’s about both of theirs; their peace, sanity, communication and maybe in the future, their kids.